Thanks for all the replies so far.
I understand what some of you are saying - our intentions are important, and we “know” what is meant by “adoration of the cross”. For example, when my Catholic friends say, “I adore my husband”, or “I worship that ground that my wife walks on”, I know that I am not to take this literally. However, words matter - especially in the liturgy. So, I still feel the distinction between veneration and adoration is important. What if I said I “adore” the Blessed Virgin Mary or “worship” St. Joseph, but I really “meant/intended” that I honor, respect, and venerate them?