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dianaiad
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Wouldn’t know; I’m not divorced. Nor have I left my faith or my family. I have, however, met many ex-members of other religions who convert TO Mormonism, and I don’t find that sort of bitterness among them–even among those whose families ostracized them for converting to Mormonism. A great many do just that, y’know.I don’t agree. I know a lot of us who are former Mormons who have found a new Faith who simply are compelled to share what they have experienced. Then they’re hit with the “you are lying” from Mormons on boards such as these and it just doesn’t gel with their own experience. I left Mormonism of my own free will and happily. I was elated to let my family know what had happened. It turned badly, quickly.
I know a few ex-Mormons who would disagree that this is a hugely biased sample. Most of us who leave encounter a grieving process much like when we lose a loved one. It is similiar in experience to a divorce with all those icky feelings.
I also have to admit that the great majority of ex-mormons that I come into contact with are vocal opponents, and very, very few of them are interested in presenting their former faith with sympathy or accuracy. Understandable, given that ex-Mormons who DO simply get on with their lives and embrace their new faiths don’t show up on forums and threads like this one.
I see. Doesn’t the fact that the sort of thing done by angry ex-Catholics being very similar to the sort of thing done by angry ex-Mormons tell you something?If that was their experience, who am I to call them a liar?
Wanna bet?my own experience is very very close to the ones posted by other ex-Mormons here on this board.
Of course it doesn’t happen… not in church settings…
Try attending a fundamentalist/evangelical church and see what happens there, or…just go to a Christian bookstore.
I won’t "try’ to tell you. I’ll outright tell you. Someone who tries to do this, because he or she is new and thinks it’s the ‘thing to do,’ will be told, very gently, not to go down that path.but then again the same could be said about Mass. That would be an inappropriate place for any of us to talk about our former faiths while we are celebrating our new one. But don’t try to tell me that when you are all together you don’t discuss those things.
No, Steph, it simply does not happen. Period. Or, if it happens, it happens once–and the speaker gets told to knock it off.Don’t try to tell me that in your own conversations that you don’t compare and roll eyes about the faiths you left. I have been there, heard that. It happens all the time. Just not at Fast and Testimony meetings.
Just like it doesn’t happen at Mass.
in Christ
Steph
Steph, perform an experiment. Go to the nearest “Christian” bookstore and go look at their ‘cult’ section. You will find all sorts of anti (insert belief system here, including Mormonism, Jehovah’s Witnesses and Catholicism) books there. That section (in Utah it’s called 'comparative religions," to be politically correct, but the section is just as big) will sometimes take up a third of the store.
Now go into a Mormon bookstore. Deseret, perhaps…or go online and look at the Deseret bookstore and see if you can find a single book that is addressing, much less attacking, any other religion.
The closest you will find is a small section of volumes that are rebuttals to publications written to attack us.
I think that pretty much says it all.