No, it is you who does not get
it.

Recent research shows benefits to wine and coffee.
Pretty much mormons ignore the part about eating meat sparingly.
As to wine, those same benefits are found in grape juice. As to coffee, the studies show that consumption of coffee can really help prevent Parkinson’s disease and diabetes. How?
Caffeine for the Parkinsons, and caffeine plus antioxidants for the diabetes. Wonderful–get those same things elsewhere. I do.
At the same time, research ALSO shows that the alcohol in wine isn’t healthful; it’s the other things, and that neither wine nor coffee are recommended for children or pregnant women.
However, if you aren’t Mormon, and haven’t promised to abstain, enjoy. It’s not a sin, after all. Breaking a promise, however, is.
here’s a question for you: until a couple of decades or so ago eating meat on Friday was considered a sin for Catholics. That changed. The reason why it changed is irrelevant; it changed. Before the change, good Catholics did not eat meat on Friday. It was a part of being Catholic; a promise, an identifier–and it was a promise that lasted for many hundreds of years.
Obviously there was nothing wrong with eating meat; you ate it on the other days of the week, and you may eat it every day of the week now. So–the sin wasn’t in the eating of the meat, was it?