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dianaiad
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I have two explanations, directly from my own life.I have seen this too - and don’t know what to make of it.
- When we send missionaries out, they are told not to discuss the religion/beliefs of the people they contact. They are told to present their message and let the ‘investigator’ do the comparing. After all, no matter how much the Mormon might know about the other faith, the believer in that faith knows more; nobody knows more about his beliefs than the believer, and nothing gets people irritated faster than being told what he ‘really’ believes.
- I’m about to turn 60. I’ve been active on the internet ‘defending the faith,’ for close to twenty years, and have been very active in debates and have worked with members of other faiths for considerably longer than that. Here is what happens when the conversation turns to comparative religion…I"ll give you an actual example, typical of such conversations.
**Me. ** That sounds wonderful, MaryEllen. What church are you attending?
MaryEllen Evangelist:(gives the name of the specific church, then asks: ) What church do you go to? Are you saved?
**Me. ** I’m LDS–Mormon. I go to the church just down the block from yours (trust me, with her I’m trying to avoid the whole ‘born again’ conversation, but I know it’s going to be a lost cause)
**MaryEllen Evangelist:**Oh, Diana, you have to come to Jesus with me and be saved yourself!
**Me. ** Actually, MaryEllen, I’m happy where I am…but I’m also very happy for you. What was that experience like for you? How do you know that you were ‘born again’ at that very moment?
MaryEllen Evangelist: Well, it wasn’t any ‘burning bosom’ feeling, that’s for certain!
**Me. ** Ok. ( I can see what this is going to be like, and attempt to get the conversation on her beliefs) …I don’t know much about your church, except that I’ve heard that it prefers adult baptism to infant baptism. Were you baptized?
MaryEllen Evangelist: No, that’s going to happen later, but it doesn’t matter, I’m saved anyway! It’s not like your church, where you think that works will save you. They won’t, you know.
**Me. ** Well, that’s not quite what we believe, MaryEllen. We believe that 'faith without works is dead," and the faith that saves WILL result in works; if the works aren’t there, neither is the faith. I’d like to know more about what you believe about baptism. Why do you do it?
MaryEllen Evangelist: (interupting…and about to roll me over…) Oh, no, you are being tricky about your real beliefs! My pastor’s sister’s mother-in-law’s cousin told me that you believe that (insert your choice of typical anti-Mormon idiocy here) and that’s what you really believe! And we don’t believe that! So you just repent!
**Me. ** (sigh)
Some version of this conversation is what happens almost every single time I talk to someone about their faith. The conversation always, ALWAYS, turns to mine–and some version of “you believe this and we don’t and that’s all you need to know about the truth.”
If I didn’t know better, I could be left with the idea that the whole of Christian doctrine is defined by Mormonism. They all decide that we believe this thing or that thing (quite often contradictory) and they don’t and that’s all I need to know about their doctrines.
Not helpful, or conducive to finding out what other people believe, y’know?
Now if this sort of thing happens so often to people like me, who actually go out to find out what other people’s doctrines might actually be, can you imagine what it’s like to be a Mormon who doesn’t LIKE to debate religion with rude people?
Of course we don’t know what other people believe. You won’t TELL us. You tell us what WE believe, and then define your beliefs by that. Since most of you are dead wrong about what our beliefs actually are, it leaves us no more knowledgeable than we were before, and far less interested.