Why be/ stay Catholic?

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If you can not read John 6:48-56 and come to a deeper and/or better understanding of the Catholic faith, and just come for the show you will end up like the jews in John 6:66 leaving.

May God bless and protect us,
Jlcastagna

Your arms are to short to box with God!😃
 
Why stay Catholic?

Because every time doubt whispers in my ear and i pray to Almighty God, he answers. And not just in some wishy washy way either. Im talking feeling God in my presence giving me just enough to know he is with me.

Why would i leave He who has helped me get so far?

In Christ.

Andre.
 
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Sherlock:
I don’t think a person who believed in the Real Presence would willingly leave it. It’s too bad they don’t try to initiate change themselves, but then a lot of people want to be on the receiving end.
In my experience, they don’t willingly leave it, they choose the Real Presence living in the hearts and lives of real people over the Real Presence in a tabernacle, locked up safe and tight.

The Catholic church is not real open to anyone initiating change, not even very open to questions. Please do not smugly assume that everyone who has ever left the church is simply uneducated in its ways, or lazy, or self indulgent.

cheddar
 
THANK YOU EVERYONE,

Your responses have been great! I have a lot of insight that I will be able to share tonight. I will check the posting again around 6 pm before I go. Please feel free to keep posting after that, because I work with this group of people often. Thank you for all your thoughtful responses!!!

Chris
 
quote: cheddarsox
In my experience, they don’t willingly leave it, they choose the Real Presence living in the hearts and lives of real people over the Real Presence in a tabernacle, locked up safe and tight.
I figure Jesus wanted us to have His body and blood, as
food - for the sometimes weary journey back to Him,
to both strengthen and comfort us.

I find the Good Shepherd, in the pasture, where weary,
injured sheep can huddled close to Him, and lean on Him
for rest…

…and, if one of these sheep wanders occassionally
to the table, to receive the food the Shepherd provides,
this sheep will then make its way back to the pasture,
with the Shepherd - leaving ā€œanathemasā€ and ecclesial
law, to those who find this of interest…a din, in the far
distance.

reen12
 
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cheddarsox:
In my experience, they don’t willingly leave it, they choose the Real Presence living in the hearts and lives of real people over the Real Presence in a tabernacle, locked up safe and tight.

The Catholic church is not real open to anyone initiating change, not even very open to questions. Please do not smugly assume that everyone who has ever left the church is simply uneducated in its ways, or lazy, or self indulgent.

cheddar
So the TRUTH changes???

Funny but this morning I held Jesus in my hands and then consumed his Body and drank his blood as he commanded me to. Didnt seem to me he was locked up in the Tabernacle…
 
Jesus is not about ā€œmagicā€ or ā€œsparks.ā€ In my opinion He is about truth and beauty and I have found both in the Catholic Church. If you are looking for an emotional uplift every Sunday you probably should be listening to a preacher who can make you feel that magic. I live in a majority protestant community and I do know they hire preachers according to how well the speak (or say just the right things to make them feel good). That, in my opinion, is just getting an emotional high. What I get from the Church is real and lasting.

Chris,
If you really know history you can’t remain protestant
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Everstruggling:
Hey,

In case you wanted an suggestion from someone that appears to be in your target audience (lapsed/non-Catholic). I’d have to say that TRUTH isn’t very appealling. Because, sorry if this offends you, I think you’re wrong. If I thought you had the fullness of the truth, I’d be Catholic too.

What appeals to me, is when I see a genuinely caring, compassionate, and friendly person talking about what they are passionate about. When I hear that, I want to see what they see, and to feel what they feel.

The reason I left church had very little to do with truth; I left because it lost it’s magic. It became redundant and boring. So if someone were to win me back, it would have to be because they had a spark to them. That they were offering more than a series of rituals and doctrine.

Besides, it’s really hard to prove you are right without saying someone else is wrong, and people hate being told they are wrong. (Did it make you upset when I told you I thought you were wrong? And I was trying to be polite as I possiblely could.)

Anyway, that’s my advice. Show your passion and your love. It will matter way more than any logical reason.
 
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estesbob:
So the TRUTH changes???

Funny but this morning I held Jesus in my hands and then consumed his Body and drank his blood as he commanded me to. Didnt seem to me he was locked up in the Tabernacle…
No, the truth doesn’t change. Sherlock brought up that people should initiate change and I was responding to that.

I’m glad you are allowed access to Christ in that way. I am not.
When one’s own church denies access to Christ…why stay?

cheddar
 
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cheddarsox:
No, the truth doesn’t change. Sherlock brought up that people should initiate change and I was responding to that.

I’m glad you are allowed access to Christ in that way. I am not.
When one’s own church denies access to Christ…why stay?

cheddar
The Church does not deny acess to the Eucharist to any of its members. However it is very possible for a member to to deny themselves acess to the Eucharist by their actions.

Evidently I am missing something here…
 
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cheddarsox:
No, the truth doesn’t change. Sherlock brought up that people should initiate change and I was responding to that.

I’m glad you are allowed access to Christ in that way. I am not.
When one’s own church denies access to Christ…why stay?

cheddar
Wooooah.

Slow down.

The Catholic Church NEVER refuses the Eucharist to any of its members.

If you choose not to partake because you have mortal sin on your soul that is an entirely different matter.

In Christ.

Andre.
 
Tantum ergo:
I cannot imagine leaving the truth because it somehow got ā€œstale and boringā€.

I picture somebody walking up to Jesus and saying, ā€œYes, I know you’re the way, the truth, and the life, but you haven’t been back to earth in 2000 years, a lot of what you say isn’t relevant to my very special, wonderful life, the bible is boring, and church just isn’t exciting. Your offer of salvation–and man, you have to drop that junk if you want ME on board–well, it just isn’t ENOUGH for me. I want to have 24/7 excitement. I want everything to feel good for me all the time. And I don’t particularly want to give up anything for you, or anybody else for that matter, because that wouldn’t benefit ME-ME-MEā€.

Frightening, isn’t it?
I really wasn’t expecting to be attacked for what I said. I mean after all, the orginal question Iaforic asked suggested he was trying to reach the same demographic that I was in. My answer was intended to be honest, and helpful. You seemed to think it was an excuse to call me a narcissist, and to ridicule my experience. I’m sorry you felt the need to do that.
 
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cheddarsox:
In my experience, they don’t willingly leave it, they choose the Real Presence living in the hearts and lives of real people over the Real Presence in a tabernacle, locked up safe and tight.
Sorry, but you clearly don’t understand what I’m talking about. I’m not talking about Christ in others, though of course we ought to show our faith by how we love one another. When Catholics use the term ā€œReal Presenceā€, they are referring to the unique and sacramental Jesus in the Eucharist (which is consumed, not just locked in a Tabernacle). I have found that non-Catholics tend to see things in an ā€œeither/orā€ manner, and your comment is an example of that: having the Eucharist and having the fellowship of others are not mutually exclusive. For example, our parish is very orthodox as well as very welcoming. There’s so much going on, and people are fired up about Christ and His Church. They are all centered on the Eucharist, and derive their strength from it.
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cheddarsox:
The Catholic church is not real open to anyone initiating change, not even very open to questions. Please do not smugly assume that everyone who has ever left the church is simply uneducated in its ways, or lazy, or self indulgent.
cheddar
It’s rather ironic that you chide against painting with a broad brush, and do the very same thing yourself. I have not experienced anything like you describe, though of course it all depends on what kind of change one wants, eh? Face it, doctrine isn’t going to change----and thank heavens for that. But apart from doctrinal matters, I find my church to be very flexible, and my priest is always interested in new, effective methods of spreading the truth of the Catholic Faith. As for your last line: I’m not assuming that EVERYONE fits into those categories. My experience, however, leads me to conclude that it represents the majority. Believe it or not, I’m actually being charitable here, because NONE of the ex-Catholics I talk to (and I talk to a lot) have shown even a rudimentary understanding of the Faith. And NONE of the ex-Catholics I have talked to believed in the Real Presence—most haven’t known what I’m talking about, and a few were downright surprised when I told them what Catholics believe. They apparently were never taught, or at best they weren’t taught very well. A few that have stated definitively that they rejected the Real Presence, but when I asked for objections they only listed a few of the standard ones, objections that don’t stand up to scrutiny—and they had no reply to the Catholic response to those objections. And quite a number have left because they wanted to continue feeling good about something that the Church called a sin. It’s just easier to blame the Church instead of one’s self, and to wring one’s hands over the Church’s ā€œresistance to changeā€, when it’s that individual who often has no intention of changing. So, I’ll stand by what I’ve said.
 
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Everstruggling:
I really wasn’t expecting to be attacked for what I said. I mean after all, the orginal question Iaforic asked suggested he was trying to reach the same demographic that I was in. My answer was intended to be honest, and helpful. You seemed to think it was an excuse to call me a narcissist, and to ridicule my experience. I’m sorry you felt the need to do that.
You are making an assumption that should not be made: people are responding to the original post, and not necessarily to you. Many posters answer the post without having seen the responses of others. You shouldn’t assume the worst of others.
 
Sherlock,

Allow me to introduce myself. I am an ex-Catholic who does believe in the real presence.

I am an ex-Catholic who neither pressures or expects the Catholic church to change its doctrines.

I lived, practiced, studied and followed the faith for decades.

I jump in when I feel my perspective has something to add to a discussion. I am a bit weary of people telling me that my problem is ā€œI don’t understand the faithā€ or " I just want things my own way"

I thought you were the one who first brought up the subject of change…something about it being too bad that people don’t initiate change themselves…that they’d rather be on the receiving end.

I never requested the Catholic church change one iota for my comfort. Its mission here is not to make me happy. I accept that.

I don’t expect everyone to like what I have to say, or agree, or feel the same way, I just wish that people would grant me the respect of treating my experience as valid, not writing me off as uninformed or mean spirited, or lazy, or desirous of the church to sanction sin.

I am happy you are part of such a dynamic parish. I never intended to imply that Christ is not present in the hearts and lives of the people. However, in Catholicism, there is the idea that Christ is present in a more real, more wonderful, more worthy of worship way in the Blessed Sacrament. and receiving the sacrament does have a number of conditions that must be met which regularly alienates a percentage of believers from participating. Other faiths teach that the real presence of Christ is available to all, no matter their state, simply by calling out to Him. That is an attractive option, especially when one finds it to be true!

I realize this is a point you and I will not agree on. I am not trying to convince you, just adding my two cents to the discussion.

cheddar
 
To me, Catholicism can’t seem to handle the
ā€˜experience’ factor, in terms of faith.

Same is often dismissed as ā€œemotionalismā€ ā€œprideā€
ā€œstubbornessā€ā€¦instead of being seen for what it is…
an individual’s experience.

Occassionally, I’ve encountered ad hominem responses,
spiced with ridicule…and I always know when I’ve inadvertently
ā€œpushed a buttonā€ by the tone of the reply.

When I encounter a barrage of ridiculing statements -
seasoned with a soupcon of the ad hominem -
I just sit back and appreciate the fireworks display.
It’s an art-form ! *Pass the popcorn…] *

reen12
 
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Magicsilence:
Wooooah.

Slow down.

The Catholic Church NEVER refuses the Eucharist to any of its members.

If you choose not to partake because you have mortal sin on your soul that is an entirely different matter.

In Christ.

Andre.
That’s me Andre, an entirely different matter! I respect the Church’s authority too much to receive when I am not in full compliance, and yet lack the ability to believe what I have not been given the gift of faith to believe.

The good news is that Christ is recklessly generous!

cheddar
 
Cheddar,

I’ve seen a lot of your posts in the past, and I think the Catholic Church has lost a treasure when you left her. It does seem that you left the Church even though you were well acquainted with her teachings.

You, however, tend to be the exception. Without exception (at least in my case) the people that I know who have left the church had very little idea what she taught and why she taught it. Most of them have ā€œlearnedā€ more about the Church from the Non-Catholic Sunday Schools then they ever did as a member of the Church, and you know that is similar to listening to Michael Moore to learn about Capitalism.

If you ever wish to return to the flock, there will be many here who would love to help you. You know the saints in heaven would be cheering the return of a lost sheep šŸ‘!!!

Take Care and god Bless!

Notworthy
 
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NotWorthy:
Cheddar,

I’ve seen a lot of your posts in the past, and I think the Catholic Church has lost a treasure when you left her. It does seem that you left the Church even though you were well acquainted with her teachings.

You, however, tend to be the exception. Without exception (at least in my case) the people that I know who have left the church had very little idea what she taught and why she taught it. Most of them have ā€œlearnedā€ more about the Church from the Non-Catholic Sunday Schools then they ever did as a member of the Church, and you know that is similar to listening to Michael Moore to learn about Capitalism.

If you ever wish to return to the flock, there will be many here who would love to help you. You know the saints in heaven would be cheering the return of a lost sheep šŸ‘!!!

Take Care and god Bless!

Notworthy
Notworthy,

You are very kind and generous. Thank you for that virtual ā€œhugā€.
I have come across a large number of ex-Catholics that are in a similar category to me. They don’t become anti-Catholic and make a stink, they go out, live Godly lives and are often quietly absorbed into other faiths.

cheddar
 
G.K. Chesterton once answered this question rather eloquently, so I share his answer:

To have my sins forgiven

-ACEGC
 
I like conversion stories. Here are a few.

chnetwork.org/converts.htm

I would recommend you start with the Scott Hahn conversion story, it’s very well written.

When a person is able to put aside the prejudism, and study Catholicism there is only one possible conclusion.
 
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