Why being a virgin is hard

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I agree - I found that most difficult late teens early 20’s.

Once you get to your mid 20’s you have more confidence and are more aware of the damage that promiscuous sex does. Suddenly then people are less likely to say you are a fool for waiting !
 
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The last guy I dated Was Catholic, and respectful, but i feel a reason it ended was because I wouldn’t do anything sexual with him… He wouldn’t tell me that was the reason, but I feel deep down it was. There was other legit reasons (such as, I’m guarded, etc) , but I still have strong feelings for him.
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I don’t think it was very fair to him to assume he broke up with you because of sex. If he was very respectful of you and did not ask you to have sex with him or put you in any sort of situation, then I think you need to give him a bit more credit. If he said you were “guarded” this could mean that you were guarded emotionally or verbally. There are ways of having an emotionally intimate relationship with lots of care and interest without having intercourse. If he felt you were very guarded and closed off emotionally, that is perhaps something that made you incompatible.

At 21, many guys are not interested in marriage — even if they will wait for marriage – it is definitely advantageous for them to not seek out a wife until they have finished trade school or college, etc, and have settled in to who they are as an adult.
 
thelibrarian said:
At 21, many guys are not interested in marriage — even if they will wait for marriage – it is definitely advantageous for them to not seek out a wife until they have finished trade school or college, etc, and have settled in to who they are as an adult.
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Yeah. My husband remained a virgin until we married when he was 28.
He said it was ok in his teens, annyoing when someone mocks when it turned out in his early 20s and in his late 20, people who said “I regret my mess” became more and more. He hadn´t married me with 20 and I hadn´t married him with 20. It takes time.
 
If you struggle with virginity, become a monk, get married, or start watching anime.
 
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