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Dear Guanophore, good morning1791 This ignorance can often be imputed to personal responsibility. This is the case when a man "takes little trouble to find out what is true and good, or when conscience is by degrees almost blinded through the habit of committing sin."59 In such cases, the person is culpable for the evil he commits.
“Responsibility”, again, is an ability to respond. We are to take ownership of all of our acts whether they are hurtful or not. If we are talking about blame, then the call is to forgive. So, how do we go about forgiving someone who has “taken little trouble to find out what is true or good”? Well, first of all, such “finding” depends on knowing whether or not more information about what is “true or good” is available. Unfortunately, we have no way of knowing what we do not know.
In the rare case of someone not wanting to know more, it is usually because the person is wanting something badly i.e. wants to remain enslaved because it “feels good”. This person does not know better and is blinded by want; his choice to remain ignorant is in itself made out of ignorance. Let’s take CCC 1791 for what it is, a call for all of us to be informed about what is true and good, otherwise, it can be looked at as means to blame oneself or others. Either interpretation is legitimate.
Yes, there are grave errors. And when malice is on their mind, they do not know what they are doing, which was evident in those who crucified Jesus (who He forgave). All ignorance, in my observations, boils down to something unintentional. Yes, our own consciences react with blame when we either observe ourselves or someone else doing something against our conscience. “They/we should have known better”. Notice it says “man”, guanophore. Children develop consciences. Yes, an adult can miss out on some important aspect of conscience development even though we think “they should have known better”. So, we can look at CCC 1860 as a basis for blame, or we can look at it as a call to carefully examine our consciences. Either interpretation, again is legitimate.1860 Unintentional ignorance can diminish or even remove the imputability of a grave offense. But no one is deemed to be ignorant of the principles of the moral law, which are written in the conscience of every man. The promptings of feelings and passions can also diminish the voluntary and free character of the offense, as can external pressures or pathological disorders. Sin committed through malice, by deliberate choice of evil, is the gravest.
Impute: caused or attributed to somone. Yes, everyone is to take ownership of their own actions. “The devil made me do it” is an escape from responsibility. I really cannot think of two ways of looking at this section.1736 Every act directly willed is imputable to its author:
“You should have known better” are usually words of blame. “You did not know better” (what Jesus said from the cross) are words of understanding. Blame does not “only” drive people to defensiveness, though I do find myself a little defensive when you “blame” me for speaking from humanism. Blame can indeed motivate people to behave.I don’t think so OS. In fact, I think blame of children by adults is particularly damaging. It does not enhance the need for children to take responsibility for their actions. Blame only drives people to defensiveness, in which state they are even less likely to accept the consequences of their choices.
Unless, of course, you are praising me when you are calling me a “humanist”!

Blame is exactly how our conscience operates on ourselves, when we do something we realize was hurtful, we self-blame, we feel guilty. Blame is part of a beautiful, functional operation of the conscience. Our capacity for blame is God-given.
Blame: incriminate, condemn, accuse, point the finger
Blame, at its emotional level, is the communication of non-acceptance of ourselves or another person because of their behaviors. It is natural and has its place. It is interesting that you do many accusations (which are blaming), but you think that blame is so harmful.
Indeed, your refusal to shake my hand because of my views is a communication of blame, of condemnation and non-acceptance.
Do you forgive yourself for blaming? I forgive you.