Why do non catholics dislike Mother Mary?

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I have a brother-in-law who was raised Catholic - went to the Assembly of God when his first wife was dying with cancer - married his second wife from that church - now following Katrina they are Baptist. He is older than my husband so my husband has driven him different places to get copies of papers he lost in the flood - doctor visits, etc. He knows we are Catholic and he starts his ugly comments about Mary ever time my husband takes him somewhere - never around me because he knows I’ll say something to him, but my husband keeps quiet and just comes home in a very bad mood because of what his brother keeps saying. I started to say something to his Baptist Pastor that if he didn’t stop his comments it would once again put a divide in the family but figured it would do no good since I’m sure he has the same feelings and preaches on the same things. When he was with the Assembly of God church everyone else was going to hell now that he is a Baptist only the Baptist are going to heaven so whichever church he belongs to he is going to heaven and we are going to hell. I personally think he will be spending a lot of time in purgatory.
 
The question was absolutely valid. There is a definite correlation between those who practice artificial birth control, use condeoms, tolerate abortion, etc. with those who have a very great dislike for the Mother of God. You can figure it out then.
This statement is presumptious. #1, I know plenty of Catholics who use birth control and they very obviously like Mary. #2, people (Catholic or non) who use contraceptives don’t neccessarily dislike Mary; contraceptives/birth control have nothing to with one’s opinion of Mary. They may be disobeying church teachings, but it doesn’t mean they dislike or disregard Mary.
 
I saw a site where someone that claims to be Christian said a statue of the virgin was the devil in drag & other stuff, like I think he even called Mary a whore. How could anyone think Jesus would approve of someone talking about his Mother like that?
 
This statement is presumptious. #1, I know plenty of Catholics who use birth control and they very obviously like Mary. #2, people (Catholic or non) who use contraceptives don’t neccessarily dislike Mary; contraceptives/birth control have nothing to with one’s opinion of Mary. They may be disobeying church teachings, but it doesn’t mean they dislike or disregard Mary.
  1. ‘Liking’ Mary is not the same as having a strong devotion and love for her. One can only have an authentic devotion to her when one follows ALL of the Church’s moral teachings.
  2. You are attempting to manipulate intentions into my postings which aren’t there. But you are definitely wrong on this account: people (Catholic or nonCatholic) who use contraceptives do not have an authentic appreciation for either spiritual motherhood or marriage. It is impossible to have a strong devotion to the Blessed Mother when a marriage or one’s moral life is in such shambles.
You are wrong on both accounts.
 
I’ve come up with a hypothesis on why protestants do not feel the way we catholics do about Mary…

-I think that since we believe in and frequently recieve Holy Communion with Jesus through the Eucharist, that we are actually closer to Jesus. Since Jesus lives within us, we feel the same compassion about the Virgin Mother that Jesus has. Mary really IS our mother since Jesus lives in us…

In the same way, protestants cant pray to Mary for her intercession, because prayer is their only link to Jesus. We Catholics have such strong physical ties to Jesus due to the consumption of his body and blood, (and the fact that He is the Head of the Body that is the Church) that we dont feel the “loss” that protestants do or any sort of “betrayal” of Jesus when we include Mary in our prayers.

Jesus is always with us !
Thank you Jesus for the Holy Eucharist… :gopray2: :highprayer: :gopray2:
 
But dont be fooled by those worn out old arguments that claim that Catholics dont pray to God through Jesus like they should. We do pray to Jesus… ADDITIONALLY, however we find it acceptable to ask one of Gods “greatest” - to “side” with us on our petitions…

This is taking it to the most extreme… For God… 🙂
 
In addition to my hypothosis though, it makes sense to mention the fact that Jesus is also the Head of the catholic Church… So we are physically linked to Jesus again…

Jesus is in turn linked to the Holy Trinity… This is another way of showing how Jesus is our link (mediator) to God.

This -IMHO- explains how Jesus is the “mediator” from Tim. 2:5 “For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the name is Christ Jesus;” This verse has little to do with Jesus being the mediator of prayer… :p. (I point this out because it is how the “protestants” justify praying to Jesus ONLY)
 
I’ve come up with a hypothesis on why protestants do not feel the way we catholics do about Mary…

-I think that since we believe in and frequently recieve Holy Communion with Jesus through the Eucharist, that we are actually closer to Jesus. Since Jesus lives within us, we feel the same compassion about the Virgin Mother that Jesus has. Mary really IS our mother since Jesus lives in us…

In the same way, protestants cant pray to Mary for her intercession, because prayer is their only link to Jesus. We Catholics have such strong physical ties to Jesus due to the consumption of his body and blood, (and the fact that He is the Head of the Body that is the Church) that we dont feel the “loss” that protestants do or any sort of “betrayal” of Jesus when we include Mary in our prayers.
Excellent point, my friend. 👍
 
So in the end, those who do not appreciate Mary do so because honoring Mary takes away from Jesus -causing feeling of “loss” and “betrayal”…

It is because prayer is their only link to Jesus, as opposed to one of many links to Jesus as we catholics have been blessed to have.

–(Eucharist, and Catholic membership as the body of Christ)-- 😉 👍
 
So in the end, those who do not appreciate Mary do so because honoring Mary takes away from Jesus -causing feeling of “loss” and “betrayal”…

It is because prayer is their only link to Jesus, as opposed to one of many links to Jesus as we catholics have been blessed to have.

–(Eucharist, and Catholic membership as the body of Christ)-- 😉 👍
But then -oops… It dosent say that directly in the Bible, so ya know Luther and his crowd will have nothing to do with it. 🤷
 
This is a pretty long thread, and I was not able to read all the posts. I just want to share my thoughts why I believe that the souls of people in heaven are not dead and why they are fully aware of prayers of intercession when those are directed to them.

Rom 6, 8 reads: “Now if we have died in Christ, we believe that we will also live with him.”

My interpretation of living with Christ is the sharing in Jesus’ godhood, the ultimate state of being fully and completely alive.

Rev. 8,4: “And the smoke of the incense of the prayers of the saints ascended before God, from the hand of the Angel.”

Souls in heaven, the Saints, no longer need to pray for themselves, but they can intercede for others – the ones still on earth. By sharing Christ’s life they can hear and know where those prayers come from. They respond by presenting these to God.

My other thoughts are: we die only once (Heb 9,27), followed by the Judgment. When entering heaven, the soul is alive - not dead. (Rom 6,8)
 
I’ve come up with a hypothesis on why protestants do not feel the way we catholics do about Mary…

-I think that since we believe in and frequently recieve Holy Communion with Jesus through the Eucharist, that we are actually closer to Jesus.
In my time here, I finally get it.

Your claim is that you are the one true church, you are superior to us, you are closer to Jesus than us. I now get it.

This arrogant attitude of superiority is appalling. I do not believe this for a minute.

But I get it. I understand now.
 
This is a pretty long thread, and I was not able to read all the posts. I just want to share my thoughts why I believe that the souls of people in heaven are not dead and why they are fully aware of prayers of intercession when those are directed to them.

Rom 6, 8 reads: “Now if we have died in Christ, we believe that we will also live with him.”

My interpretation of living with Christ is the sharing in Jesus’ godhood, the ultimate state of being fully and completely alive.

Rev. 8,4: “And the smoke of the incense of the prayers of the saints ascended before God, from the hand of the Angel.”

Souls in heaven, the Saints, no longer need to pray for themselves, but they can intercede for others – the ones still on earth. By sharing Christ’s life they can hear and know where those prayers come from. They respond by presenting these to God.

My other thoughts are: we die only once (Heb 9,27), followed by the Judgment. When entering heaven, the soul is alive - not dead. (Rom 6,8)
Excellent! 👍
 
Exodus 25: 21-22] And thou shalt put the “mercy seat” above the ark; and in the ark thou shalt put the testimony that I shall give thee. And there [at the throne] I will meet with thee, and I will commune with thee from above the mercy seat [throne], from between the two cherubims which are upon the ark of the testimony, of all things which I will give thee in commandment unto the children of Israel.

This isn’t an idol or statue of a “being”, to kiss or bow down to or worship. This was the throne seat for the King to sit and commune [break bread & fellowship] with His children. No one has ever worshipped a seat.
I do not know any Catholics who worship a seat either. 🤷

I’m sorry, but Paul’s letter to the Thessalonians is not the Savior’s words. Anyone can claim the name of the Lord…but it doesn’t mean they’re from the Lord.

[Matthew 7:21-23] Not everyone that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdon of heaven; but [only] he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day [at the end] “Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?” And then I will profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

I’m not saying anything for or against Paul…but (referenced in my last post) Jesus spoke against tradition IFF any tradition gets in the way of the commandments of God. And if you ask me whose words I follow more closely, I’d tell you “the Savior’s words”.

This is a truly troubling statement. All scripture is God breathed, not some but all, and Jesus is God. YOur understanding is wrong and leads you to a false understanding of Scripture.

Jesus spoke in parable about “a Rich man and a Beggar” after being challenged by the Pharases (the religious scolars of the time)…Prior to this, Jesus said ‘you cannot have two masters’ and the Pharases mocked and laughed at him (derided him).

Luke 16:15-18 begins his rebuttal of their mocking laughter:

Ye [you] are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God. The Law of the prophets were [true] until John (the baptist): since that time the kingdom of God is preached, and every man pressed into it . And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass than for one tittle of the law to fail. Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery; and whosoever marrieth her that put away from her husband committeth adultery [Jesus uses Adultery as an example to explain the relationship of the Pharases to the Law and to God].

And then notice how Jesus continues:

[Luke16:19] And there was a certain rich man…

Important Point:

Jesus is speaking in parable, he has creative license to speak in past tense to create a scenario to illustrate his point to all within earshot [disciples, Pharases & sinners in attendance] that (according to Luke 17:1) “You can’t stop temptations of sin…but woe to the one who initiates temptations to sin.”

In the story, notice that the rich man in hell is actually talking to Abraham, not God, even though - as you allude to - Abraham is in Heaven (your title “The dead go to heaven or hell”). Why isn’t he talking to God if in heaven? How does Abraham have authority to dispense mercy from heaven?

Also, make note of the literary tool “and it came to pass”, this is a story being told by Jesus, as He has told many stories to help a less knowledgeable people learn a lesson. In fact, Luke 15 starts by descibing growing group of sinners who came to hear him and sit for lessons and stories…

There will be a “place of salvation” and there **will be **a “place of torment”. But it’s important to read in context.

I mean no disrespect to you, sir. But I have given multiple passages spoken by Jesus that say we will sleep in death until the end, and you give me one passage where at the beginning of the full text of passages starts, [Luke 15:3] “and he spake this parable [story] unto them saying…”
The mere fact that you do not believe ALL Scripture is inspired of God disqualifies you from interpreting ANY Scripture. However, it is a clear teaching of Scripture that our bodies are in a state of sleep until God gives us our perfected bodies. Our souls go directly to heaven, purgatory or hell upon our death. YOur understanding of Scripture is not accurate. How about the thief on the cross, he was to join Jesus in paradise immediately? When John was given his glimpse of heaven in Revelation he saw the saints worshipping God. How is this possible?
 
I’ve come up with a hypothesis on why protestants do not feel the way we catholics do about Mary…

-I think that since we believe in and frequently recieve Holy Communion with Jesus through the Eucharist, that we are actually closer to Jesus. Since Jesus lives within us, we feel the same compassion about the Virgin Mother that Jesus has. Mary really IS our mother since Jesus lives in us…

In the same way, protestants cant pray to Mary for her intercession, because prayer is their only link to Jesus. We Catholics have such strong physical ties to Jesus due to the consumption of his body and blood, (and the fact that He is the Head of the Body that is the Church) that we dont feel the “loss” that protestants do or any sort of “betrayal” of Jesus when we include Mary in our prayers.

Jesus is always with us !
Thank you Jesus for the Holy Eucharist… :gopray2: :highprayer: :gopray2:
I have another reason you can add to your list.
I think the reason Catholics find Marian devotion normal and proper is because they grew up with it. Protestants did not.

As for me personally, I focus on getting to know Jesus, the Heavenly Father and the Holy Spirit, and reading Scripture as my main source of knowlege. There are three Persons who want to teach me something about themselves and about Christian life and they want to give me something. When I am deeper in a relationship with The Trinity, then I can say prayers to other persons whom I will however never communicate with in the way that I do with Christ… He is our Best Freind, our Holy Companion… far more lovely than any angel or saint, He Who knows everything about us, and we should never fear coming to Him because He alone has been tested in all things and bore all our sins.

At any rate, when I read the Old and New Testament I receive a story about whom God is. I get a wonderful image of Him, His ways, thoughts, words and actions. He tells me about Himself in His Word. When I read the Bible there is hardly anything there that makes me know anything personal about the Virgin Mary. She can teach me about humility, sure, and that is wonderful… but her humility is nothing compared to God’s Humility when He comes in the flesh.

I do ask Mary for intercession once in a while. I respect her and find her wonderful because she has brought such joy to Jesus and served Him and gave Him the flesh that was blessed because it was His.
In that way I also have deep respect for people such as John the apostle and Mary of Magdala who followed Jesus and comforted Him… Do I know these personally? No. I can say: "Pray for me John and Paul, Peter, Mary, Martha… But it does not mean I need a personal relationship with them. When/if I make it to heaven I can speak to them there over a nice meal 🙂 I can wait that long, and as long as I walk this planet I focus on the saints who are around me visibly and on Jesus who has everything I need and is ready to give it to me.
Sorry if I disapoint some people, but I do not think that love for Mary or strong devotion to her makes you a better Catholic.
I like to look at the Acts of the Apostles and the letters of Paul, Peter and James after I look at Jesus’ actions which were directed at His Father(in prayer) and His fellow men … and hold that up as an example for Christian living… I have a long way to go in that… The saints are role models for me… surely, but when I pray, which I never do enough… I will commune at length with my Lord instead of with another creature.

By the way… I receive the Eucharist and I love the Eucharistic Jesus. Still I, like apostles it seems, do not have a devotion to Mary as such. As one of our brethren said: Praying to the Lord and worshipping Him is the best way to please Mary. I am sure that is true. This does not mean I dont find Her wonderful and beautiful.

Peace to you …
 
. Something like this: You are a virgin and you have stated that you do not dislike Mary. Therefore, all virgins must not dislike Mary. See, this is a silly argument, based on my on made up agenda. It is very similar to what you are doing when you make these silly statements. 🤷
It wasn’t my argument, I was TRYING to understand the Catholic point of view here. Especially that using a condom means that one hates Mary. Or that if one does not pray to a person, thus means a dislike for the person. I’m trying to understand that. I’ll try again: why does one using a condom signify that that person has a great dislike for Mary personally? How is it that not praying to Mary means a gerat personal dislike for Her? If you don’t pray to President Obama, do you hate him? I’m trying to understand the Catholic posts here…

I’m also still trying to understand WHO these 5.5 billion non-Catholics are, this question given in the title of this thread, “Why do non-Catholics dislike Mary?” I’m not Catholic and I don’t hate Her. Why, I know MANY, MANY Protestants and I’m not aware taht ANY of them dislike Mary, personally.

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It wasn’t my argument, I was TRYING to understand the Catholic point of view here. Especially that using a condom means that one hates Mary. Or that if one does not pray to a person, thus means a dislike for the person. I’m trying to understand that. I’ll try again: why does one using a condom signify that that person has a great dislike for Mary personally? How is it that not praying to Mary means a gerat personal dislike for Her? If you don’t pray to President Obama, do you hate him? I’m trying to understand the Catholic posts here…

I’m also still trying to understand WHO these 5.5 billion non-Catholics are, this question given in the title of this thread, “Why do non-Catholics dislike Mary?” I’m not Catholic and I don’t hate Her. Why, I know MANY, MANY Protestants and I’m not aware taht ANY of them dislike Mary, personally.

:confused: :confused: :confused:

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Don’t be confused brother. Its not really worth it.
Many people cast some oppinions out in high speed, and these are their personal oppinions only. They might have some point they focus on and they bring that point up at all times, even when its not relevant.
Most if not 99,99 percent of Catholics know that true believers of any denomination or church respect Mary highly and call her “blessed among women” without any problem.
As for the condom-statement. We Catholics do believe that use of condoms and other artificial contraceptives are sign of a lacking or ill views on sexuality… however, that should not be brought up in the current discussion, where it was neither fair nor relevant to say what was stated…

So take some things here with a big grain of salt.

Merry Christmas 🙂
 
I’ve come up with a hypothesis on why protestants do not feel the way we catholics do about Mary…
Thank you, but the question we are to discuss is not that SOME Protestants may “feel” different things about Our Lady than SOME Catholics. Read the title of this thread. The question is this: Why do non-Catholics dislike Mary?"

BTW, I"m Protestant and I passionately believe that She is our Mother and the Mother of God. But since I’m non-Catholic, the question becomes why do I have a great dislike for Her personally? Actually, I don’t think I do. Actually, I’ve never met a non-Catholic who does - but this accusation (so often made by Catholics) insists that I must. Why? I don’t use a condom (one explanation given in this thread - using a condom). True, I don’t pray TO Mary (I occasionally pray THROUGH Her), but then I don’t pray to President Obama either, does that mean I a great personal dislike for the man? I don’t agree with all his actions or views, but I don’t hold a personal hatred for the man.

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Thank you, but the question we are to discuss is not that SOME Protestants may “feel” different things about Our Lady than SOME Catholics. Read the title of this thread. The question is this: Why do non-Catholics dislike Mary?"

BTW, I"m Protestant and I passionately believe that She is our Mother and the Mother of God. But since I’m non-Catholic, the question becomes why do I have a great dislike for Her personally? Actually, I don’t think I do. Actually, I’ve never met a non-Catholic who does - but this accusation (so often made by Catholics) insists that I must. Why? I don’t use a condom (one explanation given in this thread - using a condom). True, I don’t pray TO Mary (I occasionally pray THROUGH Her), but then I don’t pray to President Obama either, does that mean I a great personal dislike for the man? I don’t agree with all his actions or views, but I don’t hold a personal hatred for the man.

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This argument of yours is getting VERY frustrating. It has been pointed out to you over and over yet you are still hung up on the title of this thread. READ the first sentance of the post, “There are some Non Catholics who have a great dislike for Mother mary”. Can we now get past this 5.5 billion people smokescreen? It is a moot point and you need to stop attempting to make a point that does not exist. 🤷
 
Don’t be confused brother. Its not really worth it.
Many people cast some oppinions out in high speed, and these are their personal oppinions only. They might have some point they focus on and they bring that point up at all times, even when its not relevant.
Most if not 99,99 percent of Catholics know that true believers of any denomination or church respect Mary highly and call her “blessed among women” without any problem.
As for the condom-statement. We Catholics do believe that use of condoms and other artificial contraceptives are sign of a lacking or ill views on sexuality… however, that should not be brought up in the current discussion, where it was neither fair nor relevant to say what was stated…

So take some things here with a big grain of salt.

Merry Christmas 🙂
I think you have a very unreal view of our protestant brothers and sisters. Where did you get the 99.9% figure?

I was in a very conservative, fundamental protestant denomination for 20 years and can assure you that Mary was neither respected or called “blessed”. In fact, we stayed as far away from Mary as possible so that we in no way looked Catholic. In coming to the Catholic Church, Mary was the biggest hurdle for both my wife and I to get over.

I agree that equting birth control with dislike for Mary was not a good move. I do however, understand the point that was being made and it is legitimate. In order to love Mary, a clear understanding and respect for motherhood is needed. It can be argued that individuals that use birth control do not have a full appreciation for motherhood. Since their appreciation for and understanding of motherhood is compromised, they can not have a complete appreciation for Mary. This does not, however, equate to a dislike for her.
 
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