Why Do The Mormons Do It Better?

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None of the sacraments are “peripheral”.

I agree that Mormons put their idea of family at the center of their faith. Which, is not a Catholic view of family. God is at the center and everything is sourced from Him.

The Eucharist is the source, center and summit of our faith. For Mormons, it is their family.

usccb.org/marriageuniqueforareason/index.shtml
foryourmarriage.org/
No RebeccaJ, you are off. God is at the center of LDS faith
Focusing on the family is just one of the best ways we can honor God
  • Being a loving spouse
  • Raising Christian children that also honor God and contribute to the world
  • Supporting your Parents and extended family
How is the above not doing God’s will, or exemplifying a Christian life?
 
No RebeccaJ, you are off. God is at the center of LDS faith
Focusing on the family is just one of the best ways we can honor God
  • Being a loving spouse
  • Raising Christian children that also honor God and contribute to the world
  • Supporting your Parents and extended family
How is the above not doing God’s will, or exemplifying a Christian life?
I didn’t say family and marriage are not a Christian vocation. I said, LDS teachings are centered on family and marriage. To the point that it appears as worship. Also has a view that makes family and marriage a material attachment.
 
None of the sacraments are “peripheral”.
True, but marriage is simply not in the same class as the other sacraments.
I agree that Mormons put their idea of family at the center of their faith. Which, is not a Catholic view of family. God is at the center and everything is sourced from Him.

The Eucharist is the source, center and summit of our faith. For Mormons, it is their family.

usccb.org/marriageuniqueforareason/index.shtml
foryourmarriage.org/
Exactly. Catholicism isn’t family centered, it’s Eucharist centered.

Just to be clear, I do not want the family to be at the center of the Catholic faith.
 
I didn’t say family and marriage are not a Christian vocation. I said, LDS teachings are centered on family and marriage.** To the point that it appears as worship**. Also has a view that makes family and marriage a material attachment.
When my Protestant mom watched the PBS Mormons series, she said, “So for Mormons, the family is their God.”
 
True, but marriage is simply not in the same class as the other sacraments.

Exactly. Catholicism isn’t family centered, it’s Eucharist centered.

Just to be clear, I do not want the family to be at the center of the Catholic faith.
Jesus Christ is at the center of a Catholic marriage, marriage being a reflection of Christ’s relationship with His Bride, the Church.

This concept does not exist in Mormonism, at all, as far as I can tell they ignore the scriptures that teach this.
 
I didn’t say family and marriage are not a Christian vocation. I said, LDS teachings are centered on family and marriage. To the point that it appears as worship. Also has a view that makes family and marriage a material attachment.
Now be honest, you said Catholics worship God while LDS worship Family (to the exclusion of God), yet you have no evidence to back up your swipe at my faith.

As i already said, the LDS focus on God and naturally the most obvious place it will show up is with Christian values expressed in and through the family
 
Ah semantics semantics:)higher value” “higher value

Jim values Mr. Attorney because he needs him to stay out of jail.
Bob values Mr. Attorney because he’s a fellow human being.
Which places a higher value on Mr. Attorney?

IMO marriage as a thing everyone must check off their “to-do list” devalues marriage.
There’s a flaw with this analogy. Mormons don’t only value the family because it gets them into the highest level of heaven. For Mormons, the family is heaven on earth, just as a Catholic believes that the Mass is heaven on earth. (If the family is Heaven on earth, I’d rather be in Hell.;)) I heard one Mormon leader say that, for a Mormon, a Temple Marriage is the most holy religious ceremony imaginable. No Catholic would say the same thing about marriage.

For Mormons, the family is holy.
For Catholics, the Eucharist and the Church are holy.

No Catholic would view his family home as a holy place. Nor should he.
 
For Mormons, the family is holy.
For Catholics, the Eucharist and the Church are holy.

No Catholic would view his family home as a holy place. Nor should he.
Yes, he should; it is a sacrament… I view my Marriage as holy and by extension my family as well. A Catholic would view all the sacraments as holy.
 
Now be honest, you said Catholics worship God while LDS worship Family (to the exclusion of God), yet you have no evidence to back up your swipe at my faith.
I said no such thing. Please don’t put words in my mouth. I said Mormons are centered on family, not on God. I said nothing about excluding God.
As i already said, the LDS focus on God and naturally the most obvious place it will show up is with Christian values expressed in and through the family
“Expressing values” in and through a family is required for a Mormon, to the point where Mormons don’t believe their values are being expressed fully unless they are married with a family. Marriage and family for Mormons are tied to eternal consequences. Marriage and family are not requirements for any Christian to express their belief and discipleship of Jesus Christ. The Catholic teaching on family is Biblical, while Mormons have exalted marriage, which does make it, a god.
 
“Expressing values” in and through a family is required for a Mormon, to the point where Mormons don’t believe their values are being expressed fully unless they are married with a family. Marriage and family are not requirements for any Christian to express their belief and discipleship of Jesus Christ.
Amen!
 
When my Protestant mom watched the PBS Mormons series, she said, "So for Mormons, the family is their God."
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! 👍

As I came back into this thread and started to ponder this subject, that was exactly what popped into my head! To Mormons, what they see when they look at their whole family is that each individual is, in fact, a god ‘in the making’, on earth. They see very little difference between themselves and their “eternal father”, except in view of their position along that line of progression. Family is* required* for them to continue along that line. Anyone that does not marry and have as many children as possible, in this life, is seen as ‘unworthy’ of ‘godhood’. The more children you have, the higher your position will be in eternity. At least, that’s what seems to be their view of it from what I’ve seen stated in this thread, and elsewhere. The family does seem to be a competition of sorts. The bigger it is, here, the more *power *it will be given in eternity.

The big difference between the way Catholics value their family, and a Mormon values it, is because Mormons view members of their family as all progressing towards becoming demi-gods. Catholics see it as only one small part (not ‘required’, but still a holy part) of their progression toward being united in love with God (in the Holy Trinity) in Heaven, as His adopted children, forever. In terms of eternity, we see God as the Holy Center (the ‘Sacred Heart’) of the family of God, and we will all be united in His Love. The family of Mormons are each seen as individuals progressing towards an eternity spent as gods on some other world, or in some other universe, living their eternal lives in the same way that they live on earth. Their love is expressed in their attachments to each other in this world, that they believe will still continue on to the next, in the same way. So, to them, their “eternal father” is just another member of that eternal family (that has already progressed to become a god), like a father would be to any other family on earth. The really strange part to me, in all of this, is how they can visualize being a united ‘family’ in the next life, if they all end up being gods in separate universes. :confused:

That is a huge difference in terms of beliefs, and eternal goals, but I think that’s it in a nutshell.
 
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! 👍

As I came back into this thread and started to ponder this subject, that was exactly what popped into my head! To Mormons, what they see when they look at their whole family is that each individual is, in fact, a god ‘in the making’, on earth. They see very little difference between themselves and their “eternal father”, except in view of their position along that line of progression. Family is* required* for them to continue along that line. Anyone that does not marry and have as many children as possible, in this life, is seen as ‘unworthy’ of ‘godhood’. The more children you have, the higher your position will be in eternity. At least, that’s what seems to be their view of it from what I’ve seen stated in this thread, and elsewhere. The family does seem to be a competition of sorts. The bigger it is, here, the more *power *it will be given in eternity.

The big difference between the way Catholics value their family, and a Mormon values it, is because Mormons view members of their family as all progressing towards becoming demi-gods. Catholics see it as only one small part (not ‘required’, but still a holy part) of their progression toward being united in love with God (in the Holy Trinity) in Heaven, as His adopted children, forever. In terms of eternity, we see God as the Holy Center (the ‘Sacred Heart’) of the family of God, and we will all be united in His Love. The family of Mormons are each seen as individuals progressing towards an eternity spent as gods on some other world, or in some other universe, living their eternal lives in the same way that they live on earth. Their love is expressed in their attachments to each other in this world, that they believe will still continue on to the next, in the same way. So, to them, their “eternal father” is just another member of that eternal family (that has already progressed to become a god), like a father would be to any other family on earth. The really strange part to me, in all of this, is how they can visualize being a united ‘family’ in the next life, if they all end up being gods in separate universes. :confused:

That is a huge difference in terms of beliefs, and eternal goals, but I think that’s it in a nutshell.
I think you are fantasizing quite a bit on what LDS think - we view our children just like veryone else does.

On the Theological level though, just because we openly agree with the teachings of the ECF and what is in the RCC Catechism, does not warrant your belittling tone.

I believe CCC par 460 states “The Word Became Man so the Man bight become God” At most you can say is the LDS don’t understand this Christian docrine the way you do.
 
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! 👍

As I came back into this thread and started to ponder this subject, that was exactly what popped into my head! To Mormons, what they see when they look at their whole family is that each individual is, in fact, a god ‘in the making’, on earth. They see very little difference between themselves and their “eternal father”, except in view of their position along that line of progression. Family is* required* for them to continue along that line. Anyone that does not marry and have as many children as possible, in this life, is seen as ‘unworthy’ of ‘godhood’. The more children you have, the higher your position will be in eternity. At least, that’s what seems to be their view of it from what I’ve seen stated in this thread, and elsewhere. The family does seem to be a competition of sorts. The bigger it is, here, the more *power *it will be given in eternity.

The big difference between the way Catholics value their family, and a Mormon values it, is because Mormons view members of their family as all progressing towards becoming demi-gods. Catholics see it as only one small part (not ‘required’, but still a holy part) of their progression toward being united in love with God (in the Holy Trinity) in Heaven, as His adopted children, forever. In terms of eternity, we see God as the Holy Center (the ‘Sacred Heart’) of the family of God, and we will all be united in His Love. The family of Mormons are each seen as individuals progressing towards an eternity spent as gods on some other world, or in some other universe, living their eternal lives in the same way that they live on earth. Their love is expressed in their attachments to each other in this world, that they believe will still continue on to the next, in the same way. So, to them, their “eternal father” is just another member of that eternal family (that has already progressed to become a god), like a father would be to any other family on earth. The really strange part to me, in all of this, is how they can visualize being a united ‘family’ in the next life, if they all end up being gods in separate universes. :confused:

That is a huge difference in terms of beliefs, and eternal goals, but I think that’s it in a nutshell.
Thank you. You said it better than I could.
 
The Mormons might want to read the family life of St. Therese of Liseaux, the Little Flower, to get an insight on devout Catholic family life.
You know, this sentence bugged me from the moment I read it, but I couldn’t explain why. I finally got it today.

What the poster is suggesting is no different than saying “Foreigners should look at a picture of Bill Gate’s house to get an insight on the American lifestyle.” Bill Gate’s house is notrepresentitive of an American lifestyle, just as St. Therese’s family is not representitive of a Catholic family.

So, yes, Mormons should read about St. Therese’s family to learn about Catholic families. However, they should also read about Louis XIV of France, who used his wife only for breeding purposes and had several mistresses (at least 3, by my count), so that they don’t get the wrong idea.
 
I think you are fantasizing quite a bit on what LDS think - we view our children just like veryone else does.

On the Theological level though, just because we openly agree with the teachings of the ECF and what is in the RCC Catechism, does not warrant your belittling tone.

I believe CCC par 460 states “The Word Became Man so the Man bight become God” At most you can say is the LDS don’t understand this Christian docrine the way you do.
I’m going to do what you usually do and ignore your reference to ‘par 460’, since we’ve already hashed that one out, ad infinitum. It’s pretty useless to beat that dead horse, anymore. Besides, you butchered the quote badly enough that it’s almost unrecognizable. It’s clear to me that you only see what you choose to see, no matter how many times we refute it, anyway. A certain person taking things out of context is what started all this in the first place.

I don’t think I have to fantasize very much at all. I don’t think I’ve belittled anyone by what I said, either. (I apologize if anyone took it that way.) Or, do you deny that the family life of LDS is based on the belief that all true, ‘temple worthy’ Mormons are to focus their entire existence on fulfilling everything that Joseph Smith taught them about family? Focusing on family is a very good and noble idea, and LDS do it very well. I think it’s very admirable. I do believe that their love for each other is very real, even though slightly misguided.

I just think it’s sad that so many wonderful people have been mislead by Joseph Smith’s poor interpretations of scripture, and are blinded to the true nature of God’s love for us. I have many friends that are Mormon, and some of those friends are suffering severe personal shame and depression due to the belief that being 30ish, and unmarried, makes them less of a person in the eyes of God, and those of their own families, when that’s 180 degrees from the real truth. In fact, I admire them even more than the ones with families, because they have to suffer all that humiliation due to a misunderstanding of what true holiness is.

I’m afraid that if anyone has belittled good and faithful Mormons, it’s Joseph Smith, in teaching that the epitome of eternal life is dependent upon their having a huge family. Without one, they can only hope to be the eternal slaves of those who are considered to be more ‘worthy’. 😦
 
You know, this sentence bugged me from the moment I read it, but I couldn’t explain why. I finally got it today.

What the poster is suggesting is no different than saying “Foreigners should look at a picture of Bill Gate’s house to get an insight on the American lifestyle.” Bill Gate’s house is notrepresentitive of an American lifestyle, just as St. Therese’s family is not representitive of a Catholic family.

So, yes, Mormons should read about St. Therese’s family to learn about Catholic families. However, they should also read about Louis XIV of France, who used his wife only for breeding purposes and had several mistresses (at least 3, by my count), so that they don’t get the wrong idea.
I beg to differ with you on this one. The difference between those two examples that you’re comparing, is that Kathleen stated that St. Therése’s was a very good example of a devout Catholic family, which it truly was. Louis XIV’s family was very far from what most Catholics would ever consider to be truly ‘devout’ in any way, shape or form. I think ‘cafeteria Catholics’ are a very poor example to show what a devout Catholic family is all about, too. Just sayin’. 😉
 
You know, this sentence bugged me from the moment I read it, but I couldn’t explain why. I finally got it today.

What the poster is suggesting is no different than saying “Foreigners should look at a picture of Bill Gate’s house to get an insight on the American lifestyle.” Bill Gate’s house is notrepresentitive of an American lifestyle, just as St. Therese’s family is not representitive of a Catholic family.

So, yes, Mormons should read about St. Therese’s family to learn about Catholic families. However, they should also read about Louis XIV of France, who used his wife only for breeding purposes and had several mistresses (at least 3, by my count), so that they don’t get the wrong idea.
I’m sorry, but I’m going to have to beg to differ with you on this one. The difference between those two families that you’re comparing in your example is that Kathleen said that St. Thérese’s family was a good example of a devout Catholic family, and it most certainly is. Louis XIV’s family was anything but devout. Somehow, I don’t think that a very pathetic, dysfunctional family of ‘cafeteria Catholics’ makes for a very good example to anyone, at all. Sure, it shows that not all Catholics are perfect, but I really don’t think that was Kathleen’s intention in giving her example, anyway. I think she was just giving an example of a good Catholic family for comparison with good Mormon families. Just sayin’. 😉
 
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