Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!
As I came back into this thread and started to ponder this subject, that was
exactly what popped into my head! To Mormons, what they see when they look at their
whole family is that each individual is, in fact, a god ‘in the making’, on earth. They see very little difference between themselves and their “eternal father”, except in view of their position along that line of progression. Family is* required* for them to continue along that line. Anyone that does not marry and have as many children as possible, in this life, is seen as ‘unworthy’ of ‘godhood’. The more children you have, the higher your position will be in eternity. At least, that’s what seems to be their view of it from what I’ve seen stated in this thread, and elsewhere. The family does seem to be a competition of sorts. The bigger it is, here, the more *power *it will be given in eternity.
The big difference between the way Catholics value their family, and a Mormon values it, is because Mormons view members of their family as all progressing towards
becoming demi-gods. Catholics see it as only one small part (not ‘required’, but still a holy part) of their progression toward being united in love
with God (in the Holy Trinity) in Heaven, as His adopted children, forever. In terms of eternity, we see God as the Holy Center (the ‘Sacred Heart’) of the family of God, and we will all be united in His Love. The family of Mormons are each seen as individuals progressing towards an eternity spent
as gods on some other world, or in some other universe, living their eternal lives in the same way that they live on earth. Their love is expressed in their attachments to each other in this world, that they believe will still continue on to the next, in the same way. So, to them, their “eternal father” is just another member of that eternal family (that has already progressed to become a god), like a father would be to any other family on earth. The really strange part to me, in all of this, is how they can visualize being a united ‘family’ in the next life, if they all end up being gods in separate universes.
That is a huge difference in terms of beliefs, and eternal goals, but I think that’s it in a nutshell.