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puzzleannie
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when we inquired a few years ago in some Cleveland area Eastern Rite churches we were strongly discouraged from changing rites since in neither family was there any ethnic connection to any other rite, nor would there have been any family support, or neighborhood support where we lived, for the more stringent customs and rules of those rites. I assume there may be a similar mindset many places. So I would not be serving my candidates if I implied they can freely chose which rite to join, especially where we are located now. My duty is to make sure if someone from such a background were to inquire (has never happened here) I check with the chancery to make sure they are initiated in to the proper rite.Truth of the matter is, for converts, by the time they step inside an Eastern Rite parish they would have already researched a lot about it and have learned quite a lot. Not many non-Ukrainians would just waltz into a Ukrainian parish, or not many would walk into a Ruthenian or Melkite parish without knowing what it is (most people don’t know what Ruthenians and Melkites are).