When you think about it, if you were so lucky as to have the Mother of God come to you and prove to you that hell exists, that is the best possible gift that any heavenly visitor can give to someone. Disbelief in hell is the biggest reason people end up there. Actually being shown hell is the biggest act of mercy ever, outside of the Crucifixion. What kind of parent doesn’t show their children the dangers out there? A negligent parent, in my opinion.
How do you know that “disbelief in hell is the biggest reason people end up there.”
Have you taken a survey? Has God given you an update on the specifics? This is just a made-up statement that is supposed to justify your position by again asserting that those who choose not to believe, according to Church law, are stupid and unprepared compared to those who do.
The condescending way it’s put into words is to subtle and so presumptuous that you don’t even know you’re doing it. Presuming you are right and anybody who isn’t like you is missing out on critical information that is required for their salvation.
What kind of parent shows their children bloody and violent murderous videotapes, repeatedly, to remind them of the dangers out there on the streets? Don’t you think that could take it from “being warned” to “having it thrown in the face” to the point the child either because crippled with fright, or completely indifferent to it.
So if you think it’s good to dwell on how terrible hell is, then in my opinion it’s kind of like fantasizing what your own bed may look like.
Maybe try thinking about good things, like the Scripture says. I think if Catholics would tithe 10% of their time spent obsessing over apparitions, reading the actual Gospel instead, we may find that Jesus didn’t leave as as orphans, just like He said. Why do I need visions of Mary, when Jesus specifically left me a guide who tells me all things? To try to work my head knowledge of Mary’s apparition against my own inner groanings of the spirit, frustrates the spirit and prevents our Real Guide from accessing us because we busy our minds imagining all kinds of terrible stuff.
You know why I don’t crash my car into a bridge abutment when I drive my son to school? Because I know it’s dangerous, and I would get killed, and in general it is not my plan. I don’t need to get up every day and review all the most bloody car accidents so that I may “fully respect” the possibilities. Or a flashing sign on every bridge abutment: “caution: the survival rate of people who crash into this is very low.” In Catholicism we are drawn to ways to revel and wallow in fear and horrible thoughts as if that’s some kind of virtue.
Phil 4:8
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
Jesus leads by love and mercy, not fear. I think frankly that His Mother knows that, and I kind of think she should have maybe quit sticking her fingers into His work after the Cana incident.
Why do we need apparitions to tell us what to do? Jesus left us this:
John 14:15-18
“If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Advocate to be with you always, the Spirit of truth, which the world cannot accept, because it neither sees nor knows it. But you know it, because it remains with you, and will be in you. I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.
John 14:25-27
“I have told you this while I am with you. The Advocate, the holy Spirit that the Father will send in my name—**he will teach you everything and remind you of all that told you. **Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.
Our Lord does NOT say to be afraid and remind ourselves of scary and fearful things because we think our love for doing God’s commands isn’t strong enough by itself without being scared. And if the spirit doesn’t “teach us everything” then Jesus is a liar so I guess yes if Jesus was “just kidding” about the teacher teaching us everything, then maybe we’d have to go to questionable sources. That’s why we aren’t “required” to believe in it; Jesus already gave us a perfect guide.
In my opinion, whether you believe in apparitions or not, is itself under influence of the Holy Spirit, and for some reason God needs some of us on each side of this one.
MS