(emphasis added)
I’m strongly tempted to say “No, you didn’t”, but I’ll try not to because I really don’t think that would help the attempts at dialogue between non-Catholics and non-Protestants.
But I’d say that if you really saw Catholics and they were genuflecting to statues, and if ComplineSanFran is your real name, then those Catholics were not well informed about Catholic practices.
(Note that we do genuflect to Christ in the tabernacle, since he is God.)
These are issues where we have to be very careful about what we say – especially in the absence of full information.
It is still permissible, for example, to genuflect before a relic of the true cross. We may genuflect to the image of the cross on Good Friday.
Beyond those matters of rubrical details, we also have to take into account what people may perceive. In places where the tabernacle is integrated into an ad absidem altar or where it is recessed into the wall, the question becomes how the gesture is understood by someone seeing it with no Catholic understanding.
One example…there is a church I am familiar with where the sanctuary was renovated after the Council; the high altar was removed and the altar of sacrifice was located, free standing, in the middle of the sanctuary. The side altars, to Mary and Joseph, are intact. Each had a small tabernacle. The Blessed Sacrament is reserved in the tabernacle integrated into the side altar of the Blessed Virgin.
There was, of course, the sanctuary lamp indicating the Eucharistic presence. But a non Catholic visitor, whose categories of thought do not include a theology of the reserved sacrament, of tabernacles, or for that matter a Catholic/Orthodox concept of the Eucharist, could not be expected to know that. They would see people who were geneflecting to the Real Presence (which was immediately evident to a Catholic) but likely these visitors would perceive the people as genuflecting to the statue of Mary because that was what was most immediately evident and most prominent.
Similarly, if a tabernacle is recessed into the wall under a Calvary, the non Catholics may have no appreciation of what is being genuflected to and see the gesture as made toward the prominent grouping of statues and not realise the gesture was intended for what they may perceive as an ambry at best or even a wall safe.