C
CWBetts
Guest
I don’t know what the drinking laws are in your state, but in Ohio, no law was being broken. You are having alcohol, with the consent of a parent, in the presence of a parent, in your parents homeI have, I know about that, that obedience to government is part of the 4th commandment.
What I’m more confused about is grave matter.
I’ve heard it said like this: if you are breaking a commandment, it is grave matter, while if you’re doing something that’s not breaking a commandment but not helpful either (i.e. “immoderate laughter”), that’s a venial sin. But can’t ALL sins be seen as a violation of the ten commandments?
This sucksI’m not some spoiled brat with indulgent parents, I try to direct my actions towards loving my parents and siblings (and others depending on the situation, though I’m with family more often than not), I clean the house all the time without being asked, I do my schoolwork, I don’t ask my parents to buy me things and when they offer to I tell them not to (unless sometimes if it’s a book), I comfort people in the house when they’re having trouble, etc, I am a bit gluttonous with food, I think, but I’m working on that, and I’m going to hell because I like to have a beer?
Like I said, I’m just looking for more information. I understand the fourth commandment. What I don’t understand is Grave Matter, because I’ve seen and heard lots of priests (including, if I remember some things right, pre-VII priests) who definitely didn’t take such a vigorous definition of “grave matter” as you seem to. I don’t smoke pot because that would be directly disobeying the Church, but disobeying the government on a fairly minor piece of legislation, and most importantly with the consent of my parents, not going to some damned party and getting all messed up but having a beer with my dad because I enjoy the taste (and maybe I’ll get a very subtle feeling of relaxation) and like to sit on the front porch and talk about life . . .
If you can offer more proof that what I’m doing really is a mortal sin I’ll stop. Though I don’t want to. But then again I didn’t want to quit smoking weed either![]()