edwest:
- Society owes its continued survival to the family, founded on marriage. The inevitable consequence of legal recognition of homosexual unions would be the redefinition of marriage, which would become, in its legal status, an institution devoid of essential reference to factors linked to heterosexuality; for example, procreation and raising children. If, from the legal standpoint, marriage between a man and a woman were to be considered just one possible form of marriage, the concept of marriage would undergo a radical transformation, with grave detriment to the common good. By putting homosexual unions on a legal plane analogous to that of marriage and the family, the State acts arbitrarily and in contradiction with its duties
This argument is tired and refuted. Why do you then allow old people to get married? Or sterile people?
Catholic marriage can certainly be about raising a family. That is fine. But SECULAR marriage has many, many other benefits. Gay marriage was started because of tax issues. And hospital visitation. Among other issues.
No one is pushing the Catholic Church to ‘certify’ gay marriages. But why are Catholics so against the happiness and love of others? I don’t get it. I know several gay couples. They are wonderful people. Their children are awesome. It would be devastating if they could not have the legal benefits of marriage. I don’t understand the hate. By Catholics no less. It has truly driven me away from the Church, not because of Catholic positive slant on heterosexual marriage and the family - but rather the hurtful, unethical pain we are causing people that simple love each other and their children. It’s a stain on the Church.