The Bible states that Mary was a virgin when Jesus was born. The Bible also states that Jesus had brothers and sisters. I know people say they could have been step-siblings or even cousins, but those interpretations are done by man. They are not Biblical.
(Mark 6:1-3 KJV)* And he went out from thence, and came into his own country; and his disciples follow him. And when the Sabbath day was come, he began to teach in the synagogue: and many hearing him were astonished, saying, from whence hath this man these things? And what wisdom is this which is given unto him, that even such mighty works are wrought by his hands? Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, the brother of James, and Joses, and of Juda, and Simon? And are not his sisters here with us? And they were offended at him. *
(Mat 13:54-56 KJV) *And when he was come into his own country, he taught them in their synagogue, insomuch that they were astonished, and said, whence hath this man this wisdom, and these mighty works? Is not this the carpenter’s son? Is not his mother called Mary and his brethren, James, and Joses, and Simon, and Judas? And his sisters are they not all with us? Whence then hath this man all these things? *
Nowhere in the Bible does it say that Mary was sinless, that again is an interpretation from man. Only Jesus was born without sin, a fact that is mentioned several times in the Bible. Also, it states nowhere that you are to pray to Mary, and there is no need to. (1 Tim 2:5 KJV) For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.
I was raised and baptized Greek Orthodox. I always questioned why we prayed to Mary. When my father was dying my uncle, who was a deacon, said a prayer asking Mary to heal my father. I questioned him later where it was in the Bible that we where suppose to pray to Mary. Of course, no where in the Bible does it say that.
I don’t care if someone reveres Mary or not. Whatever your thoughts are on Mary have nothing to do at all to do with Salvation. I think the biggest disagreements between Catholics and most non-Catholics about Mary is that all the reverence given to Mary is not by anything that is said in the Bible but what was written by man after she died. If she was a Perpetual Virgin, why was it not mentioned in the Bible? If she was sinless like Jesus, why is it not in the Bible? Why does the Bible not tell us that we can pray to Mary too?
Even though I think that Maryshould not be prayed to, she is still the mother of Jesus. She was pregnant at a time when unmarried pregnant women where shunned or even killed. People didn’t believe she was a virgin and thus was label a lair and far worse. She had the responsibility of raising the son of God (no small feat)! She then had to see him tortured, mutilated and be executed. She deserves respect and admiration for all of that. How many people are that strong that you know?
But there is no reason to pray to her.