Why the Lack of Support & Exodus from the Church

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There is a big different between being “pro-abortion” and “pro-choice.” If I am “pro-abortion” I am in favor of abortion. If I am “pro-choice” I may or may not be in favor of abortion. But what I am in favor of is recognizing that I should not impose my version of morality on everyone else.
With gay marriage and all the other radical changes to our social structure getting shoved down my throat" not imposing my morals on others becomes meaningless."

That’s exactly what Catholic politicians should be doing with their vote.
 
So many leave the Catholic Church because they have either been seduced into accepting, or they have bought into, this new morality that now pervades this country. The moral shift that has been taking place for decades presents a morality that is in direct opposition of the morals taufgr by The Catholic Church.
 

But what I am in favor of is recognizing that I should not impose my version of morality on everyone else.
And this goes to the question of the Exodus.
Relativism squelches the flame of faith. If you don’t believe your beliefs carry the weight of goodness for others, why would anyone consider what you believe?

When Catholics adopt this point of view, what does that convey to others about our faith?
That it is irrelevant for you and for them.
 
With gay marriage and all the other radical changes to our social structure getting shoved down my throat" not imposing my morals on others becomes meaningless."

That’s exactly what Catholic politicians should be doing with their vote.
What’s “being shoved down your throat” is the idea that not everyone shares the same values and/or beliefs.
No one is forcing you to marry anyone of the same gender. I don’t believe in “gay marriage” either, but I am not a dictator. It’s a democracy, and if the majority vote for “gay marriage,” then–unless it’s repealed–that’s the way it is.
 
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And this goes to the question of the Exodus.

Relativism squelches the flame of faith. If you don’t believe your beliefs carry the weight of goodness for others, why would anyone consider what you believe?

When Catholics adopt this point of view, what does that convey to others about our faith?

That it is irrelevant for you and for them.
If, by “relativism” you mean that moral values are not universal and absolute, then I agree with you. I believe in absolute truth that is universal.

But acknowledging that others may not believe what I believe is not abandoning my own beliefs, it’s simply acknowledging reality. Why would others “consider what you believe”? Easy. They see my example. They consider my logical arguments. Can I “prove” to them that I am right and they are wrong? Of course not.

Do I believe that those beliefs over there are just as good as my beliefs? No. That would be relativism–that there is no universal absolute morality, that it depends on your culture, time period, etc. However, do I believe that other people that hold different beliefs are sincere? Yes, I do. Do I believe that they should be free to believe whatever they want? Yes, I do. Do I believe that if they are sincere [insert religion here] and do their best to live up to their own consciences and morality that they will go to Heaven? Yes, I do, and so does the Church.

I think everyone needs to think all this through. Because as soon as you take the position that you are entitled to enforce your own beliefs and morality on other people, you are giving them permission to enforce their beliefs and morality on you (“shoving it down your throat” as another poster said–and they didn’t seem to like that much).
 
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What’s “being shoved down your throat” is the idea that not everyone shares the same values and/or beliefs.

No one is forcing you to marry anyone of the same gender. I don’t believe in “gay marriage” either, but I am not a dictator. It’s a democracy, and if the majority vote for “gay marriage,” then–unless it’s repealed–that’s the way
Values,and beliefs. Hmmm values and beliefs. Not everyone , so, you do realize that very thing is a bragging point for a culture at peace with it’self? A common set of value? What doe’s that mean precisely? What my neighbor thinks is right I do as well, What I think is wrong my neighbor thinks is wrong. Now…What never used to be thought of is wrong and right is what? oh morals…yeah so it’s ok start shoving this morality down throats but not this one? I call that discrimination. Or is there a perception of the “established” morality as the bully and the ‘infant’ morality the victim that opposes it?
 
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What’s “being shoved down your throat” is the idea that not everyone shares the same values and/or beliefs.

No one is forcing you to marry anyone of the same gender. I don’t believe in “gay marriage” either, but I am not a dictator. It’s a democracy, and if the majority vote for “gay marriage,” then–unless it’s repealed–that’s the way it is.
it’s kinda funny how stupid you must think I am. Do you understand that these kinds of changes to foundational social units cause changes to society as a whole? Unforseen changes. You do understand that the Church you are a member of is opposed to those changes"?
 
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It’s not just abortion. It’s also about euthanasia, gay ‘marriage’, free speech and religious freedoms.
Some of the ex-Catholics-turned-Evangelical Protestants are seen a people who support religious freedoms and less likely to capitulate to anti-Christian zealots in the US.
What’s happening with the Little Sisters of the Poor is a microcosm of what’s happening. The odd thing is this: the California Attorney General calling himself Catholic is suing the Sisters for not paying for contraceptives. Among those defending the Little Sisters of the Poor are Evangelicals. I’m sure some of the American members can explain this better than I can.
This is what it looks like when religious freedoms aren’t protected as is what’s happening in Canada, many assisted by people who are Mainline/atheistic Protestants and those calling themselves Catholics:
  • Catholic hospitals are pressured to perform abortions and euthanasia
  • Christian doctors and nurses in taxpayer-funded hospitals face the constant threat of losing their jobs if they don’t perform or facilitate abortions and euthanasia from hostile politicians and bureaucrats
  • Christian schools are facing the threat of censoring parts of the Bible in their lessons and codes of conduct
I’m Canadian and when I read about Mike Pence’s economic positions, I disagree with a number of things with his extreme free market approach. But I would put religious freedom above any economic disagreements.
 
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For those who rule out the possibility of voting for anyone who is not adamantly anti-abortion, read #35:

“There may be times when a Catholic who rejects a candidate’s unacceptable position may decide to vote for that candidate for other morally grave reasons. Voting in this way would be permissible only for truly grave moral reasons, not to advance narrow interests or partisan preferences or to ignore a fundamental moral evil.” (So if a candidate is pro-choice, can you vote for him/her? Certainly. But not because of a trivial thing–like he/she will cut your taxes. It has to be “other morally grave reasons” – like providing heatlh care, for example.)
Or because the “pro choice” candidate has policies that will in effect actually reduce the number of abortions, while the “pro life” candidate’s candidates may actually increase abortions, given that it is unlikely that Roe V Wade will be overturned, and things like economic policy, healthcare, etc can have huge effects on a woman’s decision to keep her baby.
It’s easy for a presidential candidate to say they are pro life and never actually prevent a single abortion. Better in my personal opinion to look at who will actually save lives.
 
With gay marriage and all the other radical changes to our social structure getting shoved down my throat" not imposing my morals on others becomes meaningless."
Oh my! Where do you live that you were forced to get gay married??? I had no idea it was being forced upon people!

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For those who rule out the possibility of voting for anyone who is not adamantly anti-abortion, read #35:
“There may be times when a Catholic who rejects a candidate’s unacceptable position may decide to vote for that candidate for other morally grave reasons. Voting in this way would be permissible only for truly grave moral reasons, not to advance narrow interests or partisan preferences or to ignore a fundamental moral evil.” (So if a candidate is pro-choice, can you vote for him/her? Certainly. But not because of a trivial thing–like he/she will cut your taxes. It has to be “other morally grave reasons” – like providing heatlh care, for example.)

As I said, the entire document should be required reading for any Catholic.

If you read the posts of anti-abortion advocates, both here and elsewhere on this site, you can see a single-minded focus on one issue–abortion. This is NOT the position of the Church.

Finally, I’ll make a point I have made many times and I know will attract the wrath of anti-abortionists. Abortion, to Catholics, is “an intrinsic evil” and should never be supported. Fine. I agree. But in the USA there is no established religion, and even counting Catholics-in-name-only Catholics are at most 1/3 of the population. There are other religious traditions (Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, etc. etc.) as well as a large population of atheists and agnostics. They all have differing views about when a fetus becomes a human being with human rights. While Catholics are free to try and convince these other people of the wisdom of their position, they should not impose their beliefs on others. (If you think you should, then simply flip the situation: How would you feel if Muslims outlawed the sale of alcohol or pork? What if the Mennonites came into power and outlawed cars? Ridiculous? No–it’s the same thing.)

There is a big different between being “pro-abortion” and “pro-choice.” If I am “pro-abortion” I am in favor of abortion. If I am “pro-choice” I may or may not be in favor of abortion. But what I am in favor of is recognizing that I should not impose my version of morality on everyone else.
I’m sorry, but pork, alcohol and cars and/or their banning are not, in general, matters of intrinsic moral evil. The one exception being the requirement of wine for Eucharist.

I don’t have a God-given right to my bacon or my SUV. Unlike the God-given right to life.

And we do discriminate in all sorts of ways. We don’t legally recognise the practice enshrined in some faiths of polygamous marriage, for example. Purely due to an inherently religious (Judeo-Christian) bias in favour of monogamy - there is really no non-religious reason for the ban.
 
Among those defending the Little Sisters of the Poor are Evangelicals. I’m sure some of the American members can explain this better than I can.
Apart from Catholic religious orders, Evangelical business owners tend to be the ones most concerned with the government forcing them to abide by some policy that goes against their religious beliefs, which would include providing contraceptives as a benefit to their employees, making gay wedding cakes, etc. Evangelicals also tend to be the main group funding and pushing the “religious right” political agenda in USA. The evangelical founder of the Hobby Lobby store chain, billionaire David Green, has been responsible for funding and spearheading a lot of legal challenges in this area. Currently, Hobby Lobby is best known for the Burwell v. Hobby Lobby 2014 decision of the US Supreme Court where it successfully challenged part of the Affordable Care Act that would have required businesses to provide contraceptives to their employees, but there are a lot of past religious freedom cases in which Hobby Lobby has been involved, going back decades.

Whenever a religious freedom issue involving employers comes up in legislation, the lawmakers and court-watchers pretty much figure they will have to deal with challenges from evangelical-owned businesses like Hobby Lobby, and from Catholic religious orders/ organizations that run health care facilities and schools. It’s pretty much a given, and usually the two types of organizations have the same objective - basically to not be forced by the government to do things against their religious beliefs.
 
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Oh my! Where do you live that you were forced to get gay married??? I had no idea it was being forced upon people!

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Your statement demonstrates a shallow understanding or sarcasm meant to belittle my argument.

I’ll assume it is the former and offer a correction

Do you really not know that society as a whole and all it’s structures are founded on the family and the family is it’s foundation?

The society that is the nucleus and therefore the foundation and source of the greater society is what is being changed, That is where I live.So it is getting shoved down my throat because I call both the nucleus and the greater, my home. These laws fundamentally change the society I serve and provides for me a mode of survival and means to pursue happiness:wink:
 
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Did you cite Marx and Engels? Then you claim these two as upholding catholic social values? Your spin is very confused.
The Chinese Patriotic Catholic Association is not part of The Catholic Church. It may be supported by certain U.S. central committees, the same upheld by “Catholics” holding public office, but it remains incongruous to Catholic teaching and The Magisterium.
Nonetheless the English you put on the ping pong ball is fascinating, like sparkly reflective glistening decor.
 
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Did you cite Marx and Engels? Then you claim these two as upholding catholic social values? Your spin is very confused.
Dorothy Day, who is on the path to sainthood, wrote in 1936:
Private Property
Communists believe in State Socialism as a step to Communism.

We believe in widespread private property, the de-proletarianizing of our American people. We believe in the individual owning the means of production, the land and his tools. We are opposed to the “finance capitalism” so justly criticized and condemned by Karl Marx but we believe there can be a Christian capitalism as there can be a Christian Communism.
http://www.catholicworker.org/dorothyday/articles/300.html

Erikaspirit’s point was that some of Jesus’ ideas were similar to some of the ideas espoused by Marx and Engels. This is a fact, not spin.

Of course, Marx and Engels also had various other ideas that were not in tune with Jesus’ teachings. This is why we had a Catholic Worker movement - to try to create a Catholic version of a fairer economic system.
 
I’m sorry, but pork, alcohol and cars and/or their banning are not, in general, matters of intrinsic moral evil. The one exception being the requirement of wine for Eucharist.
Yes, that’s your opinion. I agree with you. But that’s not a Muslim opinion, or probably a Mennonite opinion. You are making my point for me–YOUR definition of “intrinsic moral evil” is not necessarily the same as those who have other religions (or no religion). And that’s the point.
And we do discriminate in all sorts of ways. We don’t legally recognise the practice enshrined in some faiths of polygamous marriage, for example. Purely due to an inherently religious (Judeo-Christian) bias in favour of monogamy - there is really no non-religious reason for the ban.
Again, absolutely right. There’s not (official) polygamy in Utah because the US forced the Mormons to disavow polygamy in 1890 before they could become a state. In other words, they forced their religious morality on the Mormons. Was that a good thing? It depends on your point of view. I would say no. And of course if you’ve ever watched “Sister Wives” (I admit I’ve watched several seasons…) or “Big Love” you know that the idea of polygamy is very much alive in popular culture. There seem to be around 40,000 people in polygamous relationships. And a recent survey showed that 16% of Americans approve of polygamous marriages. So are polygamous marriages next up to be legalized? Probably. And remember, it’s not just Mormons, it’s Muslims. And I’m sure a lot of atheists are all for it as well. But again, is it the job of the government to endorse morality preferred by certain groups over other groups? That’s a really slippery slope and, to mix metaphors, a two-edged sword.
 
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Did you cite Marx and Engels? Then you claim these two as upholding catholic social values? Your spin is very confused.
Well, no. What I said was “Jesus himself had a host of sayings that would make Marx and Engels proud…” which is true. This is not to say that the teachings of Jesus, Marx, and Engels coincide in all details. But certainly they share similar viewpoints in some areas.
 
Now…What never used to be thought of is wrong and right is what? oh morals…yeah so it’s ok start shoving this morality down throats but not this one? I call that discrimination. Or is there a perception of the “established” morality as the bully and the ‘infant’ morality the victim that opposes it?
Not quite sure what you are talking about here. Obviously (!) society has to share some values to function. For example, human sacrifice is bad; murder is bad; robbery is bad; etc. And clearly some countries that are ethnically and culturally unified (Japan, China to some extent) have an easier time with this than countries like the US, Canada, and Australia, where there are substantial numbers of residents with completely different religions and cultures. I would take a Libertarian position and keep the government out of morality as much as possible.
 
it’s kinda funny how stupid you must think I am. Do you understand that these kinds of changes to foundational social units cause changes to society as a whole? Unforseen changes. You do understand that the Church you are a member of is opposed to those changes"?
Sure these changes (gay marriage, etc.) will cause changes to society, some unforeseen. And yes, of course the Catholic Church opposes a lot of these changes. So do I. Where we seem to differ is our willingness to impose our personal values and beliefs on others. (And yes, I shouldn’t have said the US “voted for gay marriage,” although if it’s approved by the Supreme Court that’s a moot point.) The last big difference we had in the US was a slight disagreement over the morality of slavery, which led to the Civil War. Maybe it will come to that again, who knows.
 
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