According to news reports, the abuse crisis has cost the Catholic Church over $4 billion dollars in settlement payments and bankruptcies. Should I really be concerned that withdrawing my little support will damage the Church when those charged with the care of the Church have cost it such a vast fortune?
The money my wife and I donated to the Church when we were younger could have gone toward helping our kids pay for college. Every dollar I give the Church today is a dollar that does not go toward our retirement, or that could go to another charity. Why should I give a single dollar more to an organization with the Church’s history, not to mention what appears to be ongoing issues? Especially as I have not seen any real evidence of serious change in the Church, and the Church provides no transparency. I honestly question the morality of continued financial support of the Church under these circumstances.