Will I go to hell?

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I’m mainly talking about folks who have seen loved one who have passes away. …] When someone dies a year ago, and you see them at your bed side.
I don’t think it’s at all surprising that many people dream about people they care about. I also don’t think it’s surprising that people can mistake dreams for reality, especially when they really want to believe that they “saw” something real.

I know that I, for one, have had dreams that I mistook for reality after waking up. I can only imagine what my mind would conclude if I had an emotional connection to the dream or wanted the dream to be a message of some kind.
The fact that it happens so often takes out the fraud and possible delusions aspect of it.
If you say so.
there are hundreds of testimonies from very sane folks and folks with high integrity,

Not every one who sees an apparition or vision is dying or nuts.
I’m not questioning their integrity or even the fact that they had an experience of some kind. I’m questioning their interpretation of that experience.
 
WHat can be more depressing than believing that everything will just disappear. Life then is meaningless. In a few short years, a hundred at most, its all gone.

IF that’s the case, you should party all day and all night, drink your self into a stupor every day, or rip off and cheat whoever and whenevr you please.
I think your last sentence reveals a lot more about you than you intended. Are you seriously saying that the only thing that prevents you from becoming a drunken, cheating loser is the thought that behaving yourself will earn you a reward in the hereafter?

Let me give you an analogy: I own a car that, one day in the no-so-distant future, will become a piece of junk and go off to the junkyard and then, eventually, get crushed down into scrap metal and be gone. Poof. Gone. No more car. It will disappear, and it will never exist again.

So does that mean that I don’t care about how it looks now? How it runs now? How good the brakes and the seatbelts are now?

Of course not. Just because it’s one day going to not exist anymore doesn’t mean that I don’t care now.

And honestly, I think if push came to shove, and if you weren’t trying to argue a point with me, in your heart of hearts you know that you have plenty of reasons not to become a drunken, cheating loser aside from your hopes of a heavenly reward. For starters, there’s the reason of who in the heck would want to be drunken, cheating loser.
What’s the point.
You know, I’m quite content with reality the way it is, but I would probably find your approach to it deeply depressing if I seriously thought the way that you do.
 
If all reports from Buddhists to atheists to Christians experienced EXACTLY the same NDE Non Serv would simply claim that ‘proves’ that it is a particular sequence the brain goes though when it is deprived of oxygen, because NS does not WANT to believe.
Well, no. If Buddhists, for example, consistently saw Jesus in NDEs, and if they came back to life saying, “Man, I had better convert because my religion is clearly wrong!” – then I would conclude that there might just be something to this Jesus stuff, because that’s not what a natural understanding of the world would lead us to expect, and that is what we’d expect to happen if the Christian afterlife were the one true afterlife.

So…why doesn’t everyone who has a NDE consistently have Christian visions?
 
Well, no. If Buddhists, for example, consistently saw Jesus in NDEs, and if they came back to life saying, “Man, I had better convert because my religion is clearly wrong!” – then I would conclude that there might just be something to this Jesus stuff, because that’s not what a natural understanding of the world would lead us to expect, and that is what we’d expect to happen if the Christian afterlife were the one true afterlife.

So…why doesn’t everyone who has a NDE consistently have Christian visions?
Well I quoted one from a Buddhist that sounded to me as if it could be interpreted as a Christian experience if it had come from a Christian but you go ahead and quote or point to a source reporting a non-Christian experience that could in no way be seen as Jesus. Just because they don’t call the ‘being of love’ or whatever ,Jesus does not mean that is not who they meet since they have no frame of reference for Him. After all Deus Caritas Est.

St Paul talked about the ‘unknown god’ that the pagans prayed to and used this to explain that their ‘un-known god’ is in-fact THE God, he gave them a reference point and then framed it for them. NDE for others simply need a true frame for thier’s .
How are you coming with reading that book I challenged you to? should be finished by now. I read it in less than one day and I am a slow reader. If you PM me I can always mail you a copy.
 
We can read about courage all we want, we can watch movies about courage, but we will never know it unless we experience it; to know courage requires us to be in situations where courage is employed. I have come to the belief, after many periods of doubt, that God is the same way. …

At heart, I think all of us who want proof of God, want above all, an experience. I am certain that you, the OP, would believe in God if a voice came down from Heaven declaring itself as God, (or perhaps we would be inclined to say “I was just hearing things”) But what if a loved one was raised from the dead, etc? With such experience, to deny the existence of God or at the very least the supernatural would be inconceivable would it not? …

You will never fully believe in God until you have the experience of God. I don’t mean this in an emotional sense,… I mean this in the sense of existing as God exists, seeing as God sees. But how do we accomplish this? How are we supposed to be God-like? The solution to our problem is Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ … Love unconditionally, give everything to everyone, be virtuous in all things, tame your desires, stop living according to a fallen nature, but live according to a “supernature.”

No matter how much thinking you do about God’s existence, no matter how much reading, studying, theorizing you do. You will never come to full belief until you try to exist as God exists, having this experience which changes your *entire *perception. … But the objection to all of this is of course… this will only work if we act on the presupposition that God exists, and if God does not exist, these efforts are all done in vain. Well, true; however, this is why the first step is always a step of faith. Some might think it oh so convenient, that faith is required, belief without solid evidence. But on the contrary I think it is decidedly inconvenient that faith is required, it goes against every inclination we have, but maybe that’s the point… that it is through abandoning what seems natural and having faith that will give us the means to overcome our moral deficiencies that deprive us of living “the good life” not a life of empty pleasure, but living according to what we were supposed to be…
Your point was very good but it was so long I feared that many would not read it so I hope you do not mind that I have tried to shorten it to the main points. Basically I think what you mean is that until Peter stepped out on the water and walked ON the water while keeping his eyes on Jesus he did not really know what faith was?
 
I am an atheist. I was raised a Catholic, but recently stopped believing in God because of intellectual objections (which are a topic for another discussion, not this one). I still am a moral person, and my behavior hasn’t changed since I stopped believing. Most of my friends still think that I am Catholic, because the only change in my behavior that could possibly tip them off is that I no longer go to mass. So my question is, if I am wrong about Catholicism, do you believe that it is possible for a former-Catholic atheist who lives a moral life to get into heaven?

Oh, and one last thing: please don’t try to psychoanalyze me. I am not asking this because I’m afraid of hell (I don’t even believe it exists) and I do not secretly believe in God and am not secretly angry at him. Let’s stick to the relevant topic please!
I believe that I’m unable to know who is going to get into heaven. That would apply to you. I don’t think the fact that your behavior hasn’t changed since becoming an atheist makes much of a difference to this question. I get that you remain a good human participant in society. But it still isn’t enough information for me to know whether or not you get into heaven. Jesus already died for your sins, and there are perhaps millions of Christians worldwide praying for non-believers to get into heaven. Maybe that’s your get out of jail free card. I have no clue. Maybe it’s your behavior—I have no clue. I don’t know if good, decent, faithful Catholics who didn’t keep holy the Sabbath are getting into heaven.

I also think you’re blessed as someone who seeks the truth. Anyone on that path is very difficult for people to judge, especially if we believe that those seeking truth are ultimately going to find God. Which I do believe.

In my heart, I think you’re all good. But I don’t think I can know.
 
I don’t think it’s at all surprising that many people dream about people they care about. I also don’t think it’s surprising that people can mistake dreams for reality, especially when they really want to believe that they “saw” something real.

I know that I, for one, have had dreams that I mistook for reality after waking up. I can only imagine what my mind would conclude if I had an emotional connection to the dream or wanted the dream to be a message of some kind.

If you say so.

I’m not questioning their integrity or even the fact that they had an experience of some kind. I’m questioning their interpretation of that experience.
These are no dreams… most people can tell IF they have been dreaming. and these folks definitely say that it was real and not some dream.

I’ve had dreams about deceased loved ones, I know for certain they were dreams and not some apparition. IF I were to ever have a vision. I’m sure I cna tell the difference between a dream and a supernatural experience.

I’ve have a UFO experience and I remember the circumstances exactly. It was no dream and no hallucination. The people who I’ve talked to say the same thing. They remember exactly. They were lucid and not under any sort of hallucination.
 
OK So if we are to interpret all these verses to mean that everyone will go to heaven, even those who choose to reject God ( there is a difference between an atheist and an agnostic you know), then please explain to me WHY Jesus bothered to go to all that trouble of telling the apostles to wait for the Holy Spirit and to go forth and spread the Good News since according to your interpretation of the Bible all that was needed was Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross. I mean why did he tell people to go and baptize? why did he bother to give Peter the keys and tell him that what he binds on earth will be bound in heaven and etc, why did Jesus bother to tell people they would have to eat/gnaw on his flesh and drink his blood, something that cause all but the apostles to turn away from him because of this “hard teaching”. why did Jesus bother to say “I am the Way , no one comes to the Father but through me” , why didn’t he just say " I am the way that the whole world will get to heaven, you don’t need to follow the law any more , you are not condemned if you worship false idols, you can go and commit adultery and fornication - don’t worry your sins are covered by me - I got this , you just go and enjoy your life in your sin and I will see you in heaven"??? because this is what you are implying that you believe . If I have misunderstood you please explain because It seems to me that either the Jesus in your Bible contradicts Himself and that your interpretation contradicts every known Christian denomination’s teaching that ever existed to my knowledge …not withstanding the Catholic Church’s teaching on invincible ignorance which I will not go into since it has already been discussed in this thread. Invincible ignorance does not mean that those who reject God will go to Heaven,

OR perhaps your interpretation is flawed ,in which case you can lead others not just yourself astray ?

Since you are clearly very familiar with the Bible I am sure you are able to find all the verses that I talk about but if not I will gladly quote them for you after work just let me know. But why don’t you begin with explaining the very first one I gave and tell me WHY if all will go to Heaven ,according to your interpretation, will Jesus separate the sheep from the goats and reject some that call him 'Lord ,Lord 'saying they prophesied and did things in His name? It seems to me that if I were to believe with your understanding - then why bother evangelizing anyone, why bother being here on CAF and I may as well become a Buddhist or an atheist like the OP and NS. :confused:
Are you a Christian only so that you wont go to hell? There are other reasons to spread the gospel
 
It is. You’ll go to heaven. Everyone will. There are many verses in the bible that say so.
That is rather a bold claim since Jesus says " not every one who comes to me saying Lord Lord will I recognize" and the Bible says the the goats will be separated from the sheep at the final judgement.

Would you like to quote some of your verses to back up your statement???
Which you then supplied and I disagreed that they backed up your statement and gave you some examples why I thought not.

BUT now it seems you misread my intent because you now say the following:
Are you a Christian only so that you wont go to hell? There are other reasons to spread the gospel
And yet I fail to see where I said or even implied this, you simply quoted my entire post to you without showing your point - can you please do so. Not to mention the fact that it seems to me that you now contradict your first premise …that "EVERYONE will "go to heaven.

All that aside, to now answer your latest question . I suppose when one boils it down the answer is not so much , I am a Christian so that I will not go to hell- that would be out of fear (and I am sure some people are Christians for that very reason)- but rather I personally am for the positive side of the good news , I am a Christian because I love God and I want to be able to behold the beatific vision …ergo I want to be in Heaven because that is where I can do so. YOU?

To spread the Gospel is to spread the Good News and the Good News is that that God So loved the World that He sent his son to balance the scales of justice for us that we on our own never could , if we follow Jesus’s teachings as handed down through His appointed ones whom He sent as the Father had sent Him, then we will get to Heaven.:extrahappy:
 
If you were truly Atheist you would not have posted this question. A moral Atheist? Where do you think a ‘moral’ life comes from? Even the word moral implies the existence of immorality. You then must believe in some immovable standard for morality and any deviation from this standard is immoral. Hate to break it to you but if there is indeed a permanent standard for moral life it had to come from an unchangeable source. The source could not have been man because our inconsistency speaks for itself. You are right back to God. Everyone goes through a crisis in faith. Don’t harden your heart, read the living words of Christ and study the works of the early Church Fathers.Simply keep your heart open. In the mean time we will pray for you. The culpability of your actions will be determined by God alone. The fact you ask if you will go to Hell is in itself a confession of your concern. If you simply want to blindly argue then you are just wasting precious moments. God bless you my strayed brother.
 
If you were truly Atheist you would not have posted this question. A moral Atheist? Where do you think a ‘moral’ life comes from? Even the word moral implies the existence of immorality. You then must believe in some immovable standard for morality and any deviation from this standard is immoral. Hate to break it to you but if there is indeed a permanent standard for moral life it had to come from an unchangeable source. The source could not have been man because our inconsistency speaks for itself. You are right back to God. Everyone goes through a crisis in faith. Don’t harden your heart, read the living words of Christ and study the works of the early Church Fathers.Simply keep your heart open. In the mean time we will pray for you. The culpability of your actions will be determined by God alone. The fact you ask if you will go to Hell is in itself a confession of your concern. If you simply want to blindly argue then you are just wasting precious moments. God bless you my strayed brother.
👍 AND I am so happy to use my 500 and 1st post to welcome you.
 
If you were truly Atheist you would not have posted this question. A moral Atheist? Where do you think a ‘moral’ life comes from? Even the word moral implies the existence of immorality. You then must believe in some immovable standard for morality and any deviation from this standard is immoral. Hate to break it to you but if there is indeed a permanent standard for moral life it had to come from an unchangeable source. The source could not have been man because our inconsistency speaks for itself. You are right back to God. Everyone goes through a crisis in faith. Don’t harden your heart, read the living words of Christ and study the works of the early Church Fathers.Simply keep your heart open. In the mean time we will pray for you. The culpability of your actions will be determined by God alone. The fact you ask if you will go to Hell is in itself a confession of your concern. If you simply want to blindly argue then you are just wasting precious moments. God bless you my strayed brother.
Bon! I think this post wraps things up. You are indeed welcome.
 
I am an atheist. I was raised a Catholic, but recently stopped believing in God because of intellectual objections (which are a topic for another discussion, not this one). I still am a moral person, and my behavior hasn’t changed since I stopped believing. Most of my friends still think that I am Catholic, because the only change in my behavior that could possibly tip them off is that I no longer go to mass. So my question is, if I am wrong about Catholicism, do you believe that it is possible for a former-Catholic atheist who lives a moral life to get into heaven?

Oh, and one last thing: please don’t try to psychoanalyze me. I am not asking this because I’m afraid of hell (I don’t even believe it exists) and I do not secretly believe in God and am not secretly angry at him. Let’s stick to the relevant topic please!
According to the Bible, there is no other name under Heaven, other than Jesus, by which you may be saved. So, although you may live a ‘moral life’ according to earthly standards, these ‘good works’ are like ‘filthy rags’ to God, if you reject Jesus. So, since you believe there is no God, if He does indeed exist, would you want to know? Because God will not allow someone into Heaven based on ‘willful ignorance’ or because you were baptized as baby. Jesus died for you, which is a historical fact. All that is required to get to Heaven is placing your faith & trust in Him for doing that out of love for you.

Please consider accepting Jesus as your personal Lord & Savior.

In Christ,
Steve.
 
Well, maybe, but you’re making a boatload of unjustified assumptions there.

First, given that evidence is how we determine that things are true, why would anyone want to accept something as true without evidence (especially as a means of beginning the process of inducing subjective feelings that tell us nothing about the world outside of our heads)?
I wouldn’t qualify what I am talking about here in the same terms as what you would use to evaluate material things. If you wondered if someone close to you loved you, and you wanted evidence for it either way, even the evidence you would hope to find is based on presuppositions and preconceptions of what love is, an immaterial concept that can manifest itself in material things. So I’d say having someone prove to you that they love you is pointless, because there is no way in which proof can be provided in this instance that would satisfy proving things in terms of the material world. It is based entirely on a relational connection which I believe is very similar to God.

And as to why anyone would *want" to accept something as true without evidence, well that’s the point, we wouldn’t. One of the central themes of the gospel is rising above the insecurity associated with human nature, where we demand evidence because we are afraid to go down a road that is based on falsehood.
Second, how do you know that there is a such a thing as “living according to what we were supposed to be”? Supposed by whom?

Third, the notion that humans have “moral deficiencies” suggests that there’s some objective moral code that we all have to live up to: how did you come to that conclusion without evidence?
Once again, you are hoping to find evidence in the same vein as you would look for evidence in systems such as the scientific method, you are trying to impose a materialist view of acquiring knowledge on things that are inherently immaterial. You can’t see a universal moral code, you can’t feel it, you can’t smell it, touch it, or taste it. I would argue that it is something detected by our reason, and perfected in divine clarification.
Fourth, you assume that pleasure, for its own sake, is “empty,” but that requires the assumption that something else is “full” and that you have some external criteria for judging “fullness” – how did you arrive at this conclusion without evidence?
I didn’t say quite this, I said “empty pleasure” which I would define as pleasure derived from something that has a negative moral character to it. A father getting pleasure from murdering his child, this is empty pleasure, it is pleasure that is enjoyed contrary to a good nature. Whereas a full pleasure would be a mother overjoyed at the birth of her child.

Secondly, there are conceptions of fullness with what we can readily observe, we evaluate brain damage based on the idea that such a brain is not functioning as it should, and implicitly what we say here is that there is a brain at least in concept that functions perfectly according to the nature of what it is. Just as each organ in the body has it’s primary purpose and nature to function as it should, so I believe human beings have a definite end and purpose just as Aristotle did. And you I am certain believe this to a degree as well, as nature shows us through evolution it is apparent that it is in the nature of all living things to survive, and adapt and evolve over time when that survival is threatened.
It seems to me like you’re just starting off with all these assumptions – derived from the religion you want to believe in – and using them as justification for taking a leap of faith right into the arms of the religion that inspired the assumptions in the first place.

You can’t do that if you’re interested in accepting true claims.
My belief in God is not dictated by a religion, even if I was not religious I would still believe in God because I think the existence of God makes the most sense in explaining the natural world. My religious beliefs as a Christian are on a totally different level, Christianity presents us with a gamble, either it is true or it is not, and if it is true, the way in which it is presented is such that it requires a leap of faith as an essential component. Now if it isn’t true then the point is moot, nothing you do would validate and false belief system. So in the end, as I said, it comes down to whether or not one is willing to take that leap of faith and see where it leads. I didn’t start off with these assumptions, I chose to accept these assumptions as part of that leap of faith, I have nothing to lose, but truly, if any religion is true I believe it is the Christian religion. I have chosen not to limit my understanding of all that exists to the five senses that this one species, homo sapiens, happens to have. Indeed I accept the possibility of things existing outside of these senses, and live my life that way. You seem to have chosen a purely materialist view of the world, I have not, this is the central point of divergence, everything goes back to this, I see no reason to accept that my experience as a human being with the senses I have as the sole standard for what exists and what does not.
 
I am an atheist. I was raised a Catholic, but recently stopped believing in God because of intellectual objections (which are a topic for another discussion, not this one). I still am a moral person, and my behavior hasn’t changed since I stopped believing. Most of my friends still think that I am Catholic, because the only change in my behavior that could possibly tip them off is that I no longer go to mass. So my question is, if I am wrong about Catholicism, do you believe that it is possible for a former-Catholic atheist who lives a moral life to get into heaven?

Oh, and one last thing: please don’t try to psychoanalyze me. I am not asking this because I’m afraid of hell (I don’t even believe it exists) and I do not secretly believe in God and am not secretly angry at him. Let’s stick to the relevant topic please!
You have a free will. If you are given evidence of the existence of God and refuse it, what are your expectations? According to the scriptures, the fallen angels saw God and refused to accept Him for who He is, they have chosen to live a life of their own choosing.
You need to answer this question in your own heart, not on the forum, because you have already stated that the Church’s opinion is irrelevant to you.
As for your qualifier of living a moral life, consider that you don’t determine what is moral, right? It is determined by someone else, or by you and others. If you don’t believe in God, the best you can say is society determines it. So that may put you on the quicksand of self-justification. Why would you care about salvation if you self-justify?

If a woman loved you (or a man, don’t know who you are), and you were aware of this love even in a very dim way, and chose to reject it, you have chosen to live outside the good graces of this love. The person may still love you, but you have broken the relationship, soured it. At some point you may discover this love is awesome and beautiful and eternally desireable, but you have chosen to go without, and spend eternity wishing you had it. Maybe the regret is iin proportion to the intensity of the love you can’t have. Regret, burning desire for the love you have rejected.
 
I think your last sentence reveals a lot more about you than you intended. Are you seriously saying that the only thing that prevents you from becoming a drunken, cheating loser is the thought that behaving yourself will earn you a reward in the hereafter?

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God is not a gumball machine. We don’t behave morally simply to get a reward. That’s what dogs and birds do. Christians believe God is not only omnipotent and omniscient, but also love itself, God is a relationship. I want to participate in the moral life because God has given me that life, and I am grateful and want to participate in it. So I try to do good things out of love for, and in love with, God.
 
According to the Bible, there is no other name under Heaven, other than Jesus, by which you may be saved. So, although you may live a ‘moral life’ according to earthly standards, these ‘good works’ are like ‘filthy rags’ to God, if you reject Jesus. So, since you believe there is no God, if He does indeed exist, would you want to know? ** Because God will not allow someone into Heaven based on ‘willful ignorance’ or because you were baptized as baby.** Jesus died for you, which is a historical fact. All that is required to get to Heaven is placing your faith & trust in Him for doing that out of love for you.

Please consider accepting Jesus as your personal Lord & Savior.

In Christ,
Steve.
My dear Born Again would you please share where this is specifically said in your Bible?
You say "according to the Bible " but you fail to quote your source references. This has been a very intelligent discussion which is why it has been allowed to continue for so long. I have seen other threads shut down much sooner. Have you gone through the previous pages,?
 
My dear Born Again would you please share where this is specifically said in your Bible?
You say "according to the Bible " but you fail to quote your source references. This has been a very intelligent discussion which is why it has been allowed to continue for so long. I have seen other threads shut down much sooner. Have you gone through the previous pages,?
It’s not in the bible that anyone can be saved by “faith alone”. In fact, James was very clear on the topic.

In James’ writings, it specifically says:

17 In the same way faith, if good deeds do not go with it, is quite dead.

18 But someone may say: So you have faith and I have good deeds? Show me this faith of yours without deeds, then! It is by my deeds that I will show you my faith.

19 You believe in the one God – that is creditable enough, but even the demons have the same belief, and they tremble with fear.
20 Fool! Would you not like to know that faith without deeds is useless?

21 Was not Abraham our father justified by his deed, because he offered his son Isaac on the altar?

22 So you can see that his faith was working together with his deeds; his faith became perfect by what he did.

23 In this way the scripture was fulfilled: Abraham put his faith in God, and this was considered as making him upright; and he received the name ‘friend of God’.

24 You see now that it is by deeds, and not only by believing, that someone is justified.

SO…even the devils believe that Christ is lord and savior. It doesn’t “save” them. Their very acts condemn them. And it’s the same with people. Our acts/behavior is what condemns us. We can believe in God and live a horrible life. We can truly believe Christ is our savior and turn our backs on Him and do as we please. It won’t save us.
 
I think your last sentence reveals a lot more about you than you intended. Are you seriously saying that the only thing that prevents you from becoming a drunken, cheating loser is the thought that behaving yourself will earn you a reward in the hereafter?
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I doubt I would be a whole lot different from how I am now, BUT if I had zero faith as you and Posidon claim, I would not be nearly as charitable or concerned about others.

I may not become the druknen cheating loser, but I would take a much looser approach to morality and doing the little things that being Catholic promotes. And who knows, little sins and believing there are no long term conseqeunces, could adjust my attitude just enough to let me be a lot more calvalier to being faithful to my spouse or adhering to other moral codes.

You have to admit, the possibility of going to Hell is one huge deterent to cheating IF some gorgeous sweet young thing threw herself your way. I may not go looking for trouble but IF the situation were tossed at me in a perfect storm, I think I am a lot more likely to fail without God and Heaven than I would be with them.

Maybe it’s just me as you say, but believing in God and the heareafter keeps me out of that mess. Without God, IF I get tossed into that situation, I see a distinct possibility of failure. With God, there is no way I would ever give into that sin. Without God, I could become a fallen sinner, with God, I look forward to becoming a saint.
 
You have to admit, the possibility of going to Hell is one huge deterent to cheating IF some gorgeous sweet young thing threw herself your way. I may not go looking for trouble but IF the situation were tossed at me in a perfect storm, I think I am a lot more likely to fail without God and Heaven than I would be with them.

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Yes.
If I do not believe in a source of objective truth and reality,why would I NOT take up any woman’s proposition (a purely theoretical scenario in my case:))
 
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