Yes, but the difficulty for me when I carefully consider the words of Christ is knowing where the hyperbole ends and the literal begins. I mean, consider what he says right before the words you quoted:
“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing."
(John 15:5)
Christ, you and I obviously don’t have the DNA of a grapevine. So I wonder how literally I should take his words, “Greater love has no one than this–that he lay down his life for his friends. And you are my my friends, if you do what I say.”
Wise words, those! And I believe Paul agrees when he writes:
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil. Cling to what is good.
(Romans 12:9)
He then goes on with memorable advice:
biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+12&version=NIV
What I believe he is saying is it is not enough to love. We must show our feelings of compassion are genuine by expressing those feelings with compassionate actions. What we do shows what we feel and gives those feelings authenticity, I think. But an expression of a feeling is not the same as the feeling itself.
So I wonder if Christ is not saying love is an act. I wonder if he is instead saying acts expressing the love we feel make such love real, genuine, useful and beautiful to others and to him.
Perhaps it would help me to discuss the rest of John 15. After speaking of love, Jesus talks about hate:
“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you."
(Verses 18 and 19)
Would you say the acts of persecution are hate? Or would you say such acts are not hate, but do reveal the hate felt by those who perpetrate them?