With Gay Marriage being allowed will the Catholic Church Change

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It stands to reason that such a large part of the population will be diverse in their views, and personalities.

I agree that it is unfair, and inaccurate to try to characterize such a large and diverse people as having a particular agenda, except of course that gay people want what they view as their own civil rights to be protected. I imagine you would find at least some diversity within the population as to what those rights should be.
Catholics are not making things up as we go along. A right is a right or it’s not a right. It’s like being a little bit pregnant. You either push for gay marriage or you don’t. That is the topic. Arguments for vagueness do not erase the fact that the goal is gay marriage in every state.

Peace,
Ed
 
Have you been living in a remote cave somewhere in Shangri-La?

This non-movement sure got a lot of homophilic laws passed in the last 40 years, including SS"M" in three states just last week. And SS"M" is the current cause célèbre of academia. Any student or teacher who doesn’t toe the line is ostracized. This non-religion also gave our schools textbooks like Heather Has Two Mommies to ensure that our children grow up with the proper “dispositions”.
Oh, my. Homosexuality is either sexual attraction to members of the same-sex, or homosexual behaviour. No where within that definition is there the requirement of trying to promote some kind of agenda. There are open homosexuals that oppose same-sex marriage and gay adoption, like one particular journalist working for the Daily Mail. Homosexuality is not a religion as it has no dogma, and is a sexual practice or a psychological state of being. Beliefs amongst homosexuals vary. Not all homosexuals are open about it.

I think it’s kind of scary that you have such a view of homosexuals. All it does is kind of assures me that you’ve dehumanized them slightly. You seem to view them as being some sort of hive mind, and not as individuals.
“When activists ask for tolerance, they are implicitly admitting that there is something wrong with their behavior. After all, you don’t need to ask people to ‘tolerate’ good behavior. Mother Teresa never had to ask for tolerance.” – F. Turek, Correct, Not Politically Correct
Well, that’s silly. Can’t say much more than that. I’ve never heard this idea that the only things that require tolerance are wrong. In Soviet Russia, I’m sure Christians would have wanted their religion to be tolerated, does that mean Christianity is wrong? I’ve always thought of tolerance as allowing things you may not agree with, or allowing people to express views or opinions that oppose your own, not allowing things that are wrong. Besides, what is wrong or right is subjective. I’m pretty sure F. Turek has made up a definition here. It’s certainly not one I’ve ever heard.
 
Besides, what is wrong or right is subjective. I’m pretty sure F. Turek has made up a definition here. It’s certainly not one I’ve ever heard.
That is where Catholics disagree with you Right and wrong are objective realities.Catholics are the ultimate realists here(in the proper sense of that word- the intellect grasping not giving value to objective reality) i.e. Slavery was always wrong even when it was legal. Nor can moral realities cannot be changed simply by changing the Law. Just as(by analogy) legislation which states that everything which has four legs is a table would not suddenly change the reality of cats and dogs. The legislation which states that homosexual unions are marriages does not make them marriages.
 
That is where Catholics disagree with you Right and wrong are objective realities.Catholics are the ultimate realists here(in the proper sense of that word- the intellect grasping not giving value to objective reality) i.e. Slavery was always wrong even when it was legal. Nor can moral realities cannot be changed simply by changing the Law. Just as(by analogy) legislation which states that everything which has four legs is a table would not suddenly change the reality of cats and dogs. The legislation which states that homosexual unions are marriages does not make them marriages.
It wouldn’t to Catholics, or a certain percentage of Christians, perhaps. But for the rest of us, it would.

Your mistake is believing that your faith’s definition of marriage has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to your faith.
 
That is where Catholics disagree with you Right and wrong are objective realities.Catholics are the ultimate realists here(in the proper sense of that word- the intellect grasping not giving value to objective reality) i.e. Slavery was always wrong even when it was legal. Nor can moral realities cannot be changed simply by changing the Law. Just as(by analogy) legislation which states that everything which has four legs is a table would not suddenly change the reality of cats and dogs. The legislation which states that homosexual unions are marriages does not make them marriages.
Okay.🤷 Right. That’s a belief you’re welcome to, fine. Where does this objective morality come from? I’m almost certainly sure I know, but I’d like some clarification. I’m asking this out of curiosity, not because I wish to debate it. There are plenty of people that would disagree with you on this claim, though, and since you’re most likely believing this on faith, it doesn’t really hold any ground when used against issues you find immoral. You’d basically just be saying “It’s wrong because I believe it’s wrong!”
 
It wouldn’t to Catholics, or a certain percentage of Christians, perhaps. But for the rest of us, it would.
Really? If the government and the popular media were telling you that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, and that it were an issue of human rights to believe so, then you would believe them?

I think you need to assess that situation, and discern whether you really have a mind of your own, and whether you wish to engage your own critical thinking skills.
Your mistake is believing that your faith’s definition of marriage has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to your faith.
Our faith’s definition of marriage is based in the reality of the situation. Just as believing that dogs and cats are not tables would be a belief rooted in reality, though proclaimed only by “religious fanatics” in a world where government and media were propogating the idea that they were tables, and providing some kind of human rights justification for saying so. (ie: it may be obvious that they are not, but you would be a big meany and obviously intolerant if you were to say so.)
 
Okay.🤷 Right. That’s a belief you’re welcome to, fine. Where does this objective morality come from? I’m almost certainly sure I know, but I’d like some clarification. I’m asking this out of curiosity, not because I wish to debate it. There are plenty of people that would disagree with you on this claim, though, and since you’re most likely believing this on faith, it doesn’t really hold any ground when used against issues you find immoral. You’d basically just be saying “It’s wrong because I believe it’s wrong!”
It’s true that the basis of Christian morality is the Ten Commandments and the Sermon on the Mount.

What’s the basis of yours? Is it convenience - whatever feels good in the moment? Is it whatever is approved by the popular media? (What happens when they change their minds?)
 
Really? If the government and the popular media were telling you that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, and that it were an issue of human rights to believe so, then you would believe them?

I think you need to assess that situation, and discern whether you really have a mind of your own, and whether you wish to engage your own critical thinking skills.
I can’t speak for the other poster, but I don’t get my morality from the government or the media. After all, morality is what is right or wrong, not what is legal or illegal. I have my own views on morality, that I come to conclude myself, but other people may have different views. We can discuss our reasoning and decide whether it’s justified. If you’re going to conclude that something is wrong because you belief it’s wrong, or because a god told you, it’s very hard to discuss.
Our faith’s definition of marriage is based in the reality of the situation. Just as believing that dogs and cats are not tables would be a belief rooted in reality, though proclaimed only by “religious fanatics” in a world where government and media were propogating the idea that they were tables, and providing some kind of human rights justification for saying so. (ie: it may be obvious that they are not, but you would be a big meany and obviously intolerant if you were to say so.)
Unlike physical objects, marriage is a ceremony that can be changed at our will. People generally ask me what the definition of marriage is, and that, of course, would depend where you live. In Canada, it would be a legal or religious ceremony between two people. In some US states it would be a legal or religious ceremony between a man and a woman. In Uganda it would be a legal or religious (possibly just religious) ceremony between a man and any number of women.
 
It’s true that the basis of Christian morality is the Ten Commandments and the Sermon on the Mount.

What’s the basis of yours? Is it convenience - whatever feels good in the moment? Is it whatever is approved by the popular media? (What happens when they change their minds?)
No. It’s based on an analysis of the effects of such an action. I consider some effects to be worse than others. The situation must also be considered, and the people participating and their views towards such actions. Are they consenting, for example. And there is, of course, natural human empathy which always helps. It’s got nothing to do with the popular media, and it’s certainly got nothing to do with convenience.
 
Sad. This Catholic Answers not the anything goes forum.

Gays are one monolithic block.

online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424127887324073504578105261821381952.html

They are in it, regardless of any vagueness any proposes.

Don’t be fooled my fellow Catholics. This is not a right. And marriage has inalienable characteristics that are not based on ‘what feels good’ but the way new life comes into this world. Take a minute and review:

iglhrc.org/cgi-bin/iowa/home/index.html

ilga.org/

iglyo.com/

ilglaw.org/

Get it straight my fellow Catholics, this is a global, organized problem.

Peace,
Ed
 
No. It’s based on an analysis of the effects of such an action. I consider some effects to be worse than others. The situation must also be considered, and the people participating and their views towards such actions. Are they consenting, for example. And there is, of course, natural human empathy which always helps. It’s got nothing to do with the popular media, and it’s certainly got nothing to do with convenience.
That’s a good start. The next step would be to analyze the long term results of various different kinds of behaviour. What actually happens, and is it healthy in the long term? (Could a 25 year old man survive into old age if he were being sodomized every night for the rest of his life, or is the anus not designed for that?)
Unlike physical objects, marriage is a ceremony that can be changed at our will. People generally ask me what the definition of marriage is, and that, of course, would depend where you live. In Canada, it would be a legal or religious ceremony between two people. In some US states it would be a legal or religious ceremony between a man and a woman. In Uganda it would be a legal or religious (possibly just religious) ceremony between a man and any number of women.
Don’t confuse the marriage with the wedding ceremony. The marriage (if it takes place at all) takes place after the wedding ceremony. Not all (or even most) wedding ceremonies result in a marriage.
 
That’s a good start. The next step would be to analyze the long term results of various different kinds of behaviour. What actually happens, and is it healthy in the long term? (Could a 25 year old man survive into old age if he were being sodomized every night for the rest of his life, or is the anus not designed for that?)
It’s hard to say. It doesn’t seem to me that there’s any kind of objective research being done on that kind of stuff. Though, yes, the anus probably wouldn’t take too kindly to that. Still not sure about life spans, though. I’m no doctor.
Don’t confuse the marriage with the wedding ceremony. The marriage (if it takes place at all) takes place after the wedding ceremony. Not all (or even most) wedding ceremonies result in a marriage.
Oh. Okay. A legal or religious document or contract, then?🤷 I know such things as Civil Marriage exist.
 
Okay.🤷 Right. That’s a belief you’re welcome to, fine. Where does this objective morality come from? I’m almost certainly sure I know, but I’d like some clarification. I’m asking this out of curiosity, not because I wish to debate it. There are plenty of people that would disagree with you on this claim, though, and since you’re most likely believing this on faith, it doesn’t really hold any ground when used against issues you find immoral. You’d basically just be saying “It’s wrong because I believe it’s wrong!”
Interesting and common misconception. My belief is grounded in philosophical realism first and foremost just as yours appears to be grounded in philosophical relativism. It is only after the reality of the situation kicks in that faith is build on this foundation.

A short summary of my position
  1. Things exist(I’m sure we can agree on this point)
  2. The intellect grasps the truth of said things in themselves(to return to my previous example a dog is still a dog even if I call it a table,my saying so does not change reality, nor does majority vote)
  3. The intellect does not simply give value to things(things have value even if I am not thinking about them, tables exist and have value as tables even when I’m not thinking about them)
  4. The denial of the proper relation of the intellect to reality is inherently at odds with proper human activity(Insanity is one of the most obvious denials of reality by the human intellect, I don’t believe the man who tells me he is Napoleon Bonaparte simply because he says so)
  5. Therefore (the logical leap) the very essence of truth consists in the conformity of the intellect and the things in themselves. Now I think it logically follows that this is a conformity of thing and intellect is a definition of truth tied up with the existence of things. knowledge on my view is true because it declares the existence of things. Morality as it deals with things(People in act as still things) is a conformity of the intellect the things in act and is objective and has a true/false value.*
I establish the existence of objective morality itself before I go into the details.

One question for you, let’s take this to its logical extreme for a moment if morality is relative, why was German National Socialism wrong to look for “lebensraum” and a 1000 year Reich back in 1939? Why was it wrong to kill a few(million) people who got in their way? No that is a far less stringent argument for objective morality but the gut jerking common-sense approach also works for me*
 
Really? If the government and the popular media were telling you that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, and that it were an issue of human rights to believe so, then you would believe them?

I think you need to assess that situation, and discern whether you really have a mind of your own, and whether you wish to engage your own critical thinking skills.
At the risk of taking this silly comparison seriously - if the government and popular media tried to tell me that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, I’d start asking questions like, ‘On what basis are we to consider cats and dogs to be kinds of tables?’ I mean, I own a few tables. They’re all in some sense, different, but also share at least a few things in common, though hardly anything in common with cats and dogs. But let’s grant that they all have “legs” - is that similarity enough to start categorizing cats and dogs as types of tables? In my submission, the answer is no, and that further, no particular interests are served by changing the definition. Also, if we did decide that cats and dogs were types of tables, what would that mean for elephants and ponies? On what basis do we say that cats and dogs are tables, but elephants and ponies are not?

This is what critical thinking looks like, even under an absurd premise. Now then, for marriage, we have a restrictive definition. Some Catholics say that certain requisites must be met before a relationship can even potentially be considered a marriage. Here would ask questions like, 'What are those requisites? On what basis are those requisites sounds? And is that basis itself sound?

It goes without saying that I find some of your restrictions for marriage needlessly restrictive. I conclude this by virtue of the fact that your objective basis for restricting marriage is, at best, unproven, and probably wrong.
Our faith’s definition of marriage is based in the reality of the situation. Just as believing that dogs and cats are not tables would be a belief rooted in reality, though proclaimed only by “religious fanatics” in a world where government and media were propogating the idea that they were tables, and providing some kind of human rights justification for saying so. (ie: it may be obvious that they are not, but you would be a big meany and obviously intolerant if you were to say so.)
No, your faith’s definition of marriage is based on an unproven assumption (actually several of them). That there is a God, that this God cares how you live your life, that this God holds you responsible for how other people live their lives, that he cares especially how we all behave when we’re naked, and that practicing homosexual activities is a moral evil (even though God himself is responsible for homosexuality). And that it all follows that marriage between two members of the same sex is impossible (by definition), and prohibited (in every other non-Catholic forum or institution). From this, you project a worldview that you have termed ‘Reality.’

It’s true that Catholics and other Christians will often try to sidestep to more “naturalistic” excuses for prohibiting SSM, basically revolving around tedious lectures re: the intended uses of certain body parts. All very much beside the point. Nobody is attempting to legalize Same-Sex Sex (SSS). It’s already legal, and theological objections aside, nobody’s marriage ever stopped being a marriage because there wasn’t sex involved.
 
Three States have approved same-sex marriage in this election. It looks like the Supreme Court, like it did in 1947, will prevent discrimination of people to marry based on race or sexuality. Shouldn’t the Catholic Church reexamine it’s position on homosexuals? Homosexuals have been discriminated against across the ages by the Church for who they love. I have homosexual friends that are in committed relationships that span decades. Is bigotry clouding our view of homosexuals in committed relationships?
No and why should the Church change?These are God’s laws.They can’t be changed to suit societal whims!
 
At the risk of taking this silly comparison seriously - if the government and popular media tried to tell me that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, I’d start asking questions like, ‘On what basis are we to consider cats and dogs to be kinds of tables?’ I mean, I own a few tables. They’re all in some sense, different, but also share at least a few things in common, though hardly anything in common with cats and dogs. But let’s grant that they all have “legs” - is that similarity enough to start categorizing cats and dogs as types of tables? In my submission, the answer is no, and that further, no particular interests are served by changing the definition. Also, if we did decide that cats and dogs were types of tables, what would that mean for elephants and ponies? On what basis do we say that cats and dogs are tables, but elephants and ponies are not?
Your questions do not matter. All that matters is that the law says what it says. That is the logic of the homosexual lobby. Not unlike claiming abortion is not murder even though it clearly is.
This is what critical thinking looks like, even under an absurd premise. Now then, for marriage, we have a restrictive definition. Some Catholics say that certain requisites must be met before a relationship can even potentially be considered a marriage. Here would ask questions like, 'What are those requisites? On what basis are those requisites sounds? And is that basis itself sound?
Your explanation goes nowhere as the law dictates the definition by your reasoning .
It goes without saying that I find some of your restrictions for marriage needlessly restrictive. I conclude this by virtue of the fact that your objective basis for restricting marriage is, at best, unproven, and probably wrong.
No, your faith’s definition of marriage is based on an unproven assumption (actually several of them). That there is a God, that this God cares how you live your life, that this God holds you responsible for how other people live their lives, that he cares especially how we all behave when we’re naked, and that practicing homosexual activities is a moral evil (even though God himself is responsible for homosexuality). And that it all follows that marriage between two members of the same sex is impossible (by definition), and prohibited (in every other non-Catholic forum or institution). From this, you project a worldview that you have termed ‘Reality.’
It’s true that Catholics and other Christians will often try to sidestep to more “naturalistic” excuses for prohibiting SSM, basically revolving around tedious lectures re: the intended uses of certain body parts. All very much beside the point. Nobody is attempting to legalize Same-Sex Sex (SSS). It’s already legal, and theological objections aside, nobody’s marriage ever stopped being a marriage because there wasn’t sex involved.
Any innocent child knows same sex acts are wrong. It is only after our consciences are seared that we decide wrong is right,
 
Catholics are not making things up as we go along. A right is a right or it’s not a right. It’s like being a little bit pregnant. You either push for gay marriage or you don’t. That is the topic. Arguments for vagueness do not erase the fact that the goal is gay marriage in every state.

Peace,
Ed
Has the Church opposed the incremental changes leading up to the logical conclusion we are looking at now? This is not a radical change which is occurring, it is the logical progression in a century of incremental changes to the definition of marriage. You can’t eliminate the distinctions of gender role in marriage, and then turn around and say that gender matters in marriage. It is logically inconsistent.

I actually, don’t advocate gay marriage at all, but I point out that what is happening right now is entirely consistent legally with what has been pushed for by feminists and others for the past 100+ years. My opinion is that the momentum is inexorable, because it is not just a “gay” movement, it is subsisted by a much larger social movement.
 
Church law does not and will not change with the times. God’s law and Truth is constant and unchangeable no matter what the social issue is.
 
Your questions do not matter. All that matters is that the law says what it says. That is the logic of the homosexual lobby. Not unlike claiming abortion is not murder even though it clearly is.

Your explanation goes nowhere as the law dictates the definition by your reasoning .
The law dictates the legal definition. Your religion may continue to dictate the religious definition. This fight is about the legal definition. Your problem is that you insist that your religious definition must dictate the legal definition.

The difference here is that I might conclude that cats and dogs are not tables, but I’m not going to waste my time fighting with the world’s opinion-makers over it. They’ll have their opinion, I’ll have mine, and we’ll go out separate ways. This is exactly the one thing that you cannot do. You must, as a matter of dogma and theology, try to impose your conclusion on the rest of us.
Any innocent child knows same sex acts are wrong. It is only after our consciences are seared that we decide wrong is right,
An innocent child knows nothing about sex, because in view of your theology, for a child to learn about sex is to lose their innocence, by definition.
 
Has the Church opposed the incremental changes leading up to the logical conclusion we are looking at now? This is not a radical change which is occurring, it is the logical progression in a century of incremental changes to the definition of marriage. You can’t eliminate the distinctions of gender role in marriage, and then turn around and say that gender matters in marriage. It is logically inconsistent.

I actually, don’t advocate gay marriage at all, but I point out that what is happening right now is entirely consistent legally with what has been pushed for by feminists and others for the past 100+ years. My opinion is that the momentum is inexorable, because it is not just a “gay” movement, it is subsisted by a much larger social movement.
That is demonstrably incorrect. It is an assumption. Homosexuality was classified as a disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association until 1973 when radical gay activists inside and outside the APA decided, on their own, to change things.

thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/204/81-words

This was not about science. And prior to 1973, the general public understood it to be a disorder for the same reason all other disorders are considered such, because experts who spent years documenting the homosexual condition and interviewing homosexual persons, came to that conclusion - based on research. Factual research.

amazon.com/Homosexuality-American-Psychiatry-Politics-Diagnosis/dp/0691028370

And the current way forward for so-called gay marriage? It takes too much money and effort to convince millions of voters, so the leadership have decided the return on investment will be better if they can just pressure a relative handful of judges and politicians.

Nothing is going to change. Bad laws are bad for a reason.

Peace,
Ed
 
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