Really? If the government and the popular media were telling you that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, and that it were an issue of human rights to believe so, then you would believe them?
I think you need to assess that situation, and discern whether you really have a mind of your own, and whether you wish to engage your own critical thinking skills.
At the risk of taking this silly comparison seriously - if the government and popular media tried to tell me that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, I’d start asking questions like, ‘On what basis are we to consider cats and dogs to be kinds of tables?’ I mean, I own a few tables. They’re all in some sense, different, but also share at least a few things in common, though hardly anything in common with cats and dogs. But let’s grant that they all have “legs” - is that similarity enough to start categorizing cats and dogs as types of tables? In my submission, the answer is no, and that further, no particular interests are served by changing the definition. Also, if we did decide that cats and dogs were types of tables, what would that mean for elephants and ponies? On what basis do we say that cats and dogs are tables, but elephants and ponies are not?
This is what critical thinking looks like, even under an absurd premise. Now then, for marriage, we have a restrictive definition. Some Catholics say that certain requisites must be met before a relationship can even potentially be considered a marriage. Here would ask questions like, 'What are those requisites? On what basis are those requisites sounds? And is that basis itself sound?
It goes without saying that I find some of your restrictions for marriage needlessly restrictive. I conclude this by virtue of the fact that your objective basis for restricting marriage is, at best, unproven, and probably wrong.
Our faith’s definition of marriage is based in the reality of the situation. Just as believing that dogs and cats are not tables would be a belief rooted in reality, though proclaimed only by “religious fanatics” in a world where government and media were propogating the idea that they were tables, and providing some kind of human rights justification for saying so. (ie: it may be obvious that they are not, but you would be a big meany and obviously intolerant if you were to say so.)
No, your faith’s definition of marriage is based on an unproven assumption (actually several of them). That there is a God, that this God cares how you live your life, that this God holds you responsible for how
other people live
their lives, that he cares especially how we all behave when we’re naked, and that practicing homosexual activities is a moral evil (even though God himself is responsible for homosexuality). And that it all follows that marriage between two members of the same sex is impossible (by definition), and prohibited (in every other non-Catholic forum or institution). From this, you project a worldview that you have termed ‘Reality.’
It’s true that Catholics and other Christians will often try to sidestep to more “naturalistic” excuses for prohibiting SSM, basically revolving around tedious lectures re: the intended uses of certain body parts. All very much beside the point. Nobody is attempting to legalize Same-Sex Sex (SSS). It’s already legal, and theological objections aside, nobody’s marriage ever stopped being a marriage because there wasn’t sex involved.