With Gay Marriage being allowed will the Catholic Church Change

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That is demonstrably incorrect. It is an assumption. Homosexuality was classified as a disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association until 1973 when radical gay activists inside and outside the APA decided, on their own, to change things.

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This was not about science. And prior to 1973, the general public understood it to be a disorder for the same reason all other disorders are considered such, because experts who spent years documenting the homosexual condition and interviewing homosexual persons, came to that conclusion - based on research. Factual research.

amazon.com/Homosexuality-American-Psychiatry-Politics-Diagnosis/dp/0691028370

And the current way forward for so-called gay marriage? It takes too much money and effort to convince millions of voters, so the leadership have decided the return on investment will be better if they can just pressure a relative handful of judges and politicians.

Nothing is going to change. Bad laws are bad for a reason.

Peace,
Ed
Your comment is irrelevant to the point I was making.

But since you bring up the DSM, medical diagnostic criteria do change. Without progress in medicine, it would still be bleeding and leeches.

Perhaps you can clarify how the changes in the diagnostic standards with respect to homosexuality are relevant to the feminist movement. Are you saying that it was the feminist movement which influenced the APA?
 
At the risk of taking this silly comparison seriously - if the government and popular media tried to tell me that cats and dogs were kinds of tables, I’d start asking questions like, ‘On what basis are we to consider cats and dogs to be kinds of tables?’ I mean, I own a few tables. They’re all in some sense, different, but also share at least a few things in common, though hardly anything in common with cats and dogs. But let’s grant that they all have “legs” - is that similarity enough to start categorizing cats and dogs as types of tables? In my submission, the answer is no, and that further, no particular interests are served by changing the definition. Also, if we did decide that cats and dogs were types of tables, what would that mean for elephants and ponies? On what basis do we say that cats and dogs are tables, but elephants and ponies are not?
Good; these are logical questions to ask. Hopefully, even at the risk of being called a “bigot” you would stand by your reasoned conclusions, rather than cave in to popular opinion.
This is what critical thinking looks like, even under an absurd premise. Now then, for marriage, we have a restrictive definition. Some Catholics say that certain requisites must be met before a relationship can even potentially be considered a marriage. Here would ask questions like, 'What are those requisites? On what basis are those requisites sounds? And is that basis itself sound?
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It goes without saying that I find some of your restrictions for marriage needlessly restrictive. I conclude this by virtue of the fact that your objective basis for restricting marriage is, at best, unproven, and probably wrong.
And yet, for four thousand years, no human being on earth disagreed that marriage was a union of man and woman - in general, for the purpose of establishing a family - or in the case of marriages in old age, for providing for a widow and her already-born children - again with the purpose of providing a safe home for children in which to grow up.
No, your faith’s definition of marriage is based on an unproven assumption (actually several of them).
The “unproven assumption” here is that it takes a male and a female to produce a family that is related to each other by DNA; that this is the most stable form of family life, and that it is the building block of civilization. A homosexual “family” can endure for only one generation at best. Heterosexual families can outlive empires, all the while passing down their cherished tradition and culture.
That there is a God, that this God cares how you live your life, that this God holds you responsible for how other people live their lives, that he cares especially how we all behave when we’re naked, and that practicing homosexual activities is a moral evil (even though God himself is responsible for homosexuality).
Like every other kind of sin, homosexuality is a choice made by human beings. God didn’t invent it.
 
Has the Church opposed the incremental changes leading up to the logical conclusion we are looking at now?
Considering that we’re still against the use of artificial birth control, I’d have to say “Yes.”
This is not a radical change which is occurring, it is the logical progression in a century of incremental changes to the definition of marriage.
Right - beginning with the legalization of birth control in 1930.
You can’t eliminate the distinctions of gender role in marriage, and then turn around and say that gender matters in marriage. It is logically inconsistent.
You’re right. That’s why the Catholic Church upholds the dignity of the role of women in marriage.
 
IYour mistake is believing that your faith’s definition of marriage has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to your faith.
That’s like telling a mathematician: “Your mistake is believing that your discipline’s definition of a circle has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to math. I happen to believe that a circle can be a square.”
 
Good; these are logical questions to ask. Hopefully, even at the risk of being called a “bigot” you would stand by your reasoned conclusions, rather than cave in to popular opinion.
If someone called me a bigot because I stood by my reasoned conclusion that cats and dogs were not tables, I would probably suggest that they don’t know what the word “bigot” means.
And yet, for four thousand years, no human being on earth disagreed that marriage was a union of man and woman - in general, for the purpose of establishing a family - or in the case of marriages in old age, for providing for a widow and her already-born children - again with the purpose of providing a safe home for children in which to grow up.
Simply not true. SSMs were hardly widespread, but we do have records of them happening during the Ming Dynasty, during the early Roman Empire and elsewhere. So it wasn’t like it never occurred to anyone until about 10 years ago.

Notwithstanding that, the human race doesn’t have a sterling track record for being morally correct by way of overwhelming consensus. Lots of bad ideas have survived down the ages for no particularly good reason other than the fact that lots and lots of people seemed to think they were good ideas.
The “unproven assumption” here is that it takes a male and a female to produce a family that is related to each other by DNA; that this is the most stable form of family life, and that it is the building block of civilization. A homosexual “family” can endure for only one generation at best. Heterosexual families can outlive empires, all the while passing down their cherished tradition and culture.
Well, this part is certainly an unproven assumption. And why can’t a gay couple adopt a child, raise it to adulthood, the kid’s straight, gets married and has kids of their own, and the whole passing down cherished traditions and culture happens anyway?
Like every other kind of sin, homosexuality is a choice made by human beings. God didn’t invent it.
Homosexuality is not a choice. Having sex is a choice. Who you feel attracted to is something we can lay at the feet of the Almighty.
 
That’s like telling a mathematician: “Your mistake is believing that your discipline’s definition of a circle has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to math. I happen to believe that a circle can be a square.”
No. The definition of a circle is properly basic and self-evident. Your definition of marriage relies on many, many beliefs that you would term basic, but that are actually open to debate and that are probably wrong. For example, if God doesn’t exist, then the basis for your definition of marriage evaporates, and the necessity for maintaining your definition along with it.
 
If someone called me a bigot because I stood by my reasoned conclusion that cats and dogs were not tables, I would probably suggest that they don’t know what the word “bigot” means.

Simply not true. SSMs were hardly widespread, but we do have records of them happening during the Ming Dynasty, during the early Roman Empire and elsewhere. So it wasn’t like it never occurred to anyone until about 10 years ago.

Notwithstanding that, the human race doesn’t have a sterling track record for being morally correct by way of overwhelming consensus. Lots of bad ideas have survived down the ages for no particularly good reason other than the fact that lots and lots of people seemed to think they were good ideas.

Well, this part is certainly an unproven assumption. And why can’t a gay couple adopt a child, raise it to adulthood, the kid’s straight, gets married and has kids of their own, and the whole passing down cherished traditions and culture happens anyway?

Homosexuality is not a choice. Having sex is a choice. Which sex you feel attracted to is something we can lay at the feet of the Almighty.
 
No. The definition of a circle is properly basic and self-evident. Your definition of marriage relies on many, many beliefs that you would term basic, but that are actually open to debate and that are probably wrong. For example, if God doesn’t exist, then the basis for your definition of marriage evaporates, and the necessity for maintaining your definition along with it.
Well, there is non-euclidean geometry, too…
 
That’s like telling a mathematician: “Your mistake is believing that your discipline’s definition of a circle has any authority over people and institutions that don’t subscribe to math. I happen to believe that a circle can be a square.”
So, you are telling us that Solomon was not the legitimate son of David, and that Solomon’s children were not legitimate either because both David and Solomon did not conform to your definition of marriage as one man and one woman?

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So, you are telling us that Solomon was not the legitimate son of David, and that Solomon’s children were not legitimate either because both David and Solomon did not conform to your definition of marriage as one man and one woman?

rossum
You are aware, rossum, that the Church does not use the term “illegitimate”, as it applies to children, yes?

Who was David married to when Solomon was conceived?
And who was Solomon married to when his children (to whom you refer) were conceived?
 
No. The definition of a-] circle/-] marriage is properly basic and self-evident.
Definition of marriage is pretty basic. 🤷
For example, if God doesn’t exist, then the basis for your definition of marriage evaporates, and the necessity for maintaining your definition along with it.
Our definition of marriage can be presented without using God as a referent…
 
The law dictates the legal definition.
Does that mean logic and law can be separate? If the law defines a certain race of people as less than human does that make the definition in accord with truth?
Your religion may continue to dictate the religious definition. This fight is about the legal definition. Your problem is that you insist that your religious definition must dictate the legal definition.
Our religious definition is consistent with truth and the law. Your definition is plastic and inauthentic.
The difference here is that I might conclude that cats and dogs are not tables, but I’m not going to waste my time fighting with the world’s opinion-makers over it. They’ll have their opinion, I’ll have mine, and we’ll go out separate ways.
Because truth does not matter to you.
This is exactly the one thing that you cannot do. You must, as a matter of dogma and theology, try to impose your conclusion on the rest of us.
It is not a matter of Dogma. It is a matter of truth.
An innocent child knows nothing about sex, because in view of your theology, for a child to learn about sex is to lose their innocence, by definition.
An innocent child is just that, innocent. Your ideology insists that we indoctrinate them into that new ideology of evil.
 
… if God doesn’t exist, then the basis for your definition of marriage evaporates, and the necessity for maintaining your definition along with it.
No, it wouldn’t. The ancient Greeks and Romans knew nothing of the Judeo-Christian God, but they still had one man, one woman [OMOW] marriage.
 
Okay.🤷 Right. That’s a belief you’re welcome to, fine. Where does this objective morality come from? I’m almost certainly sure I know, but I’d like some clarification. I’m asking this out of curiosity, not because I wish to debate it. There are plenty of people that would disagree with you on this claim, though, and since you’re most likely believing this on faith, it doesn’t really hold any ground when used against issues you find immoral. You’d basically just be saying “It’s wrong because I believe it’s wrong!”
Imagine a colony of only atheists. Where would their truth come from? Who would decide it and how?
 
You are aware, rossum, that the Church does not use the term “illegitimate”, as it applies to children, yes?

Who was David married to when Solomon was conceived?
That depends on how you define marriage. David had a number of women, who may or may not have been wives. His first wife was Michal; his other possible wives were Ahinoam, Abigail, Maachah, Haggith, Abital, Eglah and Bathsheba. Which of those were actually wives according to Tru-Marriage™ and which were merely pseudo-wives according to local custom I will leave up to you.
And who was Solomon married to when his children (to whom you refer) were conceived?
Since Solomon had 700 wives (1 Kings 11:3) I will not list them all here. Again, I leave it up to you to say which of those wives were truly wives, and which merely pseudo-wives.

If there is a permanent and unchanging definition of marriage, then we need to apply that permanent and unchanging definition to all of history. If there are different versions of marriage in different times and places, then we need to apply the appropriate version for the time and place we are talking about.

It is obvious that in the present day, Catholic marriage and civil marriage are different; divorce for one obvious example. Catholic marriage has theological importance, but it has less legal importance than civil marriage.

rossum
 
Imagine a colony of only atheists. Where would their truth come from? Who would decide it and how?
Like Ave Maria (Collier County, Fla) but in reverse. The scientific community would probably make up a sizable portion of it. When you have nothing guiding your action and that the natural law isn’t binding either, you all agree on the lowest common denominator: two consenting adults. Even that low standard would eventually be challenged as men in their thirties might want to be in a relationship with a 15 year-old boy or girl, because, you know, they love each other. Euthanasia, assisted suicide, abortion at any stage of the pregancy, gay “marriage”, no religion, the only absolute rule is to never mention God, who wouldn’t want to live there, right?
 
That depends on how you define marriage. David had a number of women, who may or may not have been wives. His first wife was Michal; his other possible wives were Ahinoam, Abigail, Maachah, Haggith, Abital, Eglah and Bathsheba. Which of those were actually wives according to Tru-Marriage™ and which were merely pseudo-wives according to local custom I will leave up to you.
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Since Solomon had **700 wives **(1 Kings 11:3) I will not list them all here. Again, I leave it up to you to say which of those wives were truly wives, and which merely pseudo-wives.¨
Therein lies the answer: wives. 700 takes polygamy to a whole new level, though. For a normal man, it would take 2-3 years to honour each one once.
If there is a permanent and unchanging definition of marriage, then we need to apply that permanent and unchanging definition to all of history. If there are different versions of marriage in different times and places, then we need to apply the appropriate version for the time and place we are talking about.
It is obvious that in the present day, Catholic marriage and civil marriage are different; divorce for one obvious example. Catholic marriage has theological importance, but it has less legal importance than civil marriage.
 
… Homosexuality is either sexual attraction to members of the same-sex, or homosexual behaviour. No where within that definition is there the requirement of trying to promote some kind of agenda. There are open homosexuals that oppose same-sex marriage and gay adoption, like one particular journalist working for the Daily Mail. …
This proves nothing. There were slaves who fought for the Confederacy in the Civil War. That must prove that the Union wasn’t trying to promote the agenda that slavery was wrong.
Well, that’s silly. Can’t say much more than that. I’ve never heard this idea that the only things that require tolerance are wrong.
That’s not what it says. It is saying that things that are wrong require tolerance, not that all things that require tolerance are wrong. Christians in the USSR were not asking for tolerance; they were asking for basic human rights.
… Besides, what is wrong or right is subjective.
Even the statement, “what is wrong or right is subjective” is subjective?
I’m pretty sure F. Turek has made up a definition here. It’s certainly not one I’ve ever heard.
Sorta like the CA gay judge who threw out Prop 8 based on his own personal definition of “marriage”?

When we fail to discriminate between good and evil, right and wrong, and the behaviors that lead to success and those that lead to failure, we do not end up objective, neutral, tolerant, or even indifferent; we end up hating what is good, right, and successful. We have seen this pattern over an over. The idea that one man’s terrorist is another’s freedom fighter has led to a resurgence of anti-Semitism; a successful person is not a testimony of the opportunities in America; it is an indictment of American greed; the belief that America is no better than any other country has led to hatred of America. Concern for the rights of criminals has led to hatred of their victims. So, the idea that same-sex partners should be allowed to marry will lead, not to tolerance, objectivity, neutrality, or even indifference, but to hatred of heterosexual couples and heterosexual marriage. – The Closing of the American Mind
 
If someone called me a bigot because I stood by my reasoned conclusion that cats and dogs were not tables, I would probably suggest that they don’t know what the word “bigot” means.

Simply not true. SSMs were hardly widespread, but we do have records of them happening during the Ming Dynasty, during the early Roman Empire and elsewhere. So it wasn’t like it never occurred to anyone until about 10 years ago.

Notwithstanding that, the human race doesn’t have a sterling track record for being morally correct by way of overwhelming consensus. Lots of bad ideas have survived down the ages for no particularly good reason other than the fact that lots and lots of people seemed to think they were good ideas.

Well, this part is certainly an unproven assumption. And why can’t a gay couple adopt a child, raise it to adulthood, the kid’s straight, gets married and has kids of their own, and the whole passing down cherished traditions and culture happens anyway?

Homosexuality is not a choice. Having sex is a choice. Who you feel attracted to is something we can lay at the feet of the Almighty.
There are no clear reasons as to why someone is homosexual. There are clear reasons for not enshrining gay sex into law. Prior to this, job one was overturning sodomy laws.

Peace,
Ed
 
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