If a person is trying to kill you, that person is not innocent.
If that person is not trying to kill you, you cannot kill him to save yourself.
If I am terminal and need an organ to live and you are the only person on earth that has the perfect match, I cannot murder you so that I may live.
Having a baby is an important responsibility because, as you say, there is a very special relationship. One cannot simply say at one point: I don’t like the way this is going, or I’m in pain, or I’m dying. That does not undo the relationship. It’s very delicate and complex.
People here are saying the baby is equal in worth to the mother. But her family did not feel that way.
Who cares at all about how her family felt? A life is a life, and a life of a child is infinitely more worthy than the life of an adult, because the child is defenseless and relies on the parents to live, and if their parents stop protecting him, he relies on society to protect him.
The “fetus” is a human being, just like a mentally incapacitated person, just like a Cancer patient in great pain, or a wounded soldier on the battlefield who is eventually going to die. This reasoning of who deserves the chance to live is inhumane, an attempt to build a hierarchy of who is more worthy…it is Hobbes’ “state of nature”, it is survival of the fittest! We are not in a jungle, for goodness grace, we are human beings!
I work in the medical field, have discussed this case with many colleagues, and I have seen many, many quotes from high profile doctors in the news regarding this case, who have experience with this exact sort of scenario. I have not heard or seen a single doctor who did not strenuously argue that ending the pregnancy right away would have been the safest decision in such a case.
Of course! From the utilitarian standpoint, from the cold, cynical standpoint it makes perfect sense.