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Elizabeth502
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I think there are also approaches in terms of men’s retreats, conferences, etc. – some of which should be brought more directly on-site into the parish when possible.
If you ever heard Fr. Larry Richards speak (he also wrote a book a year or two ago called “Be A Man,” but probably most Catholic men have never heard of it), Fr. Larry seems to know how to appeal to men. One thing I really like that he does is to frame the spiritual life as Challenge, as Action. You’re right: implicitly, the language of Catholic spirituality, historically, most often has a feminine tone or drifts in that direction, given how it stresses the receptive as opposed to the active. Men do need to be receptive, but they don’t arrive there in the same way that women do! The timing is often different, for one thing, than it is for women.

I think there are also approaches in terms of men’s retreats, conferences, etc. – some of which should be brought more directly on-site into the parish when possible.
If you ever heard Fr. Larry Richards speak (he also wrote a book a year or two ago called “Be A Man,” but probably most Catholic men have never heard of it), Fr. Larry seems to know how to appeal to men. One thing I really like that he does is to frame the spiritual life as Challenge, as Action. You’re right: implicitly, the language of Catholic spirituality, historically, most often has a feminine tone or drifts in that direction, given how it stresses the receptive as opposed to the active. Men do need to be receptive, but they don’t arrive there in the same way that women do! The timing is often different, for one thing, than it is for women.