So in the context of the Irish referendum I have been wondering about the commitment of individual Catholics to individual human life as they see it. If, by giving much of your net worth, you could save the life of an unborn child, would you? And if yes, why have you not done so before now, as many such opportunities must have presented themselves?
I have a worse gotcha for you–If by giving much of your million dollar net worth, you could save the life of
born children (and you totally can), how much would you give? And if yes, why have you not done so before now, as many such opportunities must have presented themselves?
It’s just as uncomfortable a question if you think about all the needy born people around the world–so that’s not really specifically an abortion question.
Speaking for myself, after my husband and I learned about Dave Ramsey, we started budgeting every month, and there was about a seven year period where we scrupulously gave away 10% of our after-tax income. About half of that went to our parishes and the other half went to a charity that feeds and cares for the local poor. The charity was founded by our diocese, but is now independent and ecumenical. Right now, we are giving a lot less, but we have three children in private school and my grandparents are in their 90s and live two thousand miles away, and I have been prioritizing making sure that our children have a chance to visit and have a relationship with their great-grandparents while they are still living, as well as having a chance to have relationships with the rest of my family. In future, my husband wants us to give 20%, and I expect we will eventually do that.
In the meantime, we give a little (probably 4 or 5% of income right now) and lend out our unused baby stuff and I am giving away our youngest’s clothes and toys.
As with a lot of Americans, a lot of our net worth is equity in our house, and the other half is in retirement accounts. We could, theoretically, give away our retirement savings–but then we’d have to pay a large penalty on the withdrawal. We have very, very little money available in cash.