Well I have to say, I am pleasantly surprised by the responses to this post. Being a Catholic that is gay -

yes I said it - a Catholic that is gay I have to agree with a lot that has been said here.
I do believe however that I am “called” to marriage but that marriage is not allowed by the church or the law for that matter

. I am not sexually promiscious, I am tested annually for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases

. To the best of my knowledge the largest increase in new HIV cases is with heterosexual females, not homosexuals - so please stop accusing us of spreading HIV.
The church has been wrong before aobut many things (Gallileo for one) and as much as I love the church, I believe the chuch’s teaching on homosexuality has some things that need to be re examined. Jesus NEVER said anything about homosexuality in all his teaching. The church’s teaching is a result of many things including its teaching about sexuality as a whole (reserved for pocreation - therefor unavailable to homosexuals). Believe me, I love God, I celebrate the Sacraments and attend mass regularly. I believe God created me this way and intends fully for me to love and experience intimate love of another human. But I also believe God intends for me to use my sexuality responsibly and not sleep around and such - just as a “heterosexual” couple is expected to do.
As with most “groups” the loudest and the most visible become the stereotype for that group. Believe me, we are not all drag queens and extravigent :doh2: . I do know some drag queens and some feminine men, but I also know many people that you would never guess are gay walking down the street, or even sitting beside you in church. So I caution you again such harsh judgements and remember the scripture to remove the plank in our own eyes before examining the splinter in someone elses.
I thank you for reading this far and have a WONDERFUL weekend!