1. Selfishness
2. Doing what makes me feel good
3. Putting oneself before God
*** Hummmmmm, do I see a pattern?

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Yes, I agree with this, too. It goes along with what I’ve been saying in my other posts in this thread–personal sin. That’s what selfishness is.
We are all too quick to attribute declining Mass attendance to something that the parish is doing wrong; e.g., poor music, or bad homilies, or not enough Latin or too much Latin or…
Instead, I think that in this day and age (remember, we’re not living pre-Vatican II), the answer is just what DJJG has posted–selfishness, doing what makes us feel good, and putting our own desires first.
It wouldn’t matter if Jesus Himself were at Mass–which He is!
It wouldn’t matter if the music were professionally done and totally correct and traditional (Gregorian chant, pipe organ accompaniment for the hymns, propers instead of hymns, etc.), and the Bishop Sheen or St. Paul himself came back from the dead to give the homily, and the church building was a stunning reproduction of Notre Dame Cathedral, and all the women were wearing long beautiful dresses and had their heads covered with lacy veils and all the men were wearing tuxedos, and all the families had at least six children and all the babies were nursing…
We would still not come to Mass because we are sinful.
Our city HAS a Latin Mass parish where the Mass is much like what I described above–the church building is really beautiful, and the priest is excellent and the music–well, it’s not very good but it’s totally correct (Latin, chant, pipe organ, etc.)
But people don’t go. It’s a very small parish and it isn’t growing. You see, nowaday, restoring “traditions” and “Latin” to Mass and making the Mass utterly reverent is not going to make people come flocking back. People today are so caught up in their sin that they don’t care.
Good post, DJJG.