How can you possibly know that there is nearly zero demand for the EF in your area?
I’'ve lived in the area for 36 years. I reverted to the Church 23 years ago and have been active since, especially in the oblates of our abbey. In our active oblate group of about 40 people (there are 200 in total but many too elderly to participate), there is zero demand for the EF. It ranges from indifference to hostility. We had one oblate in my 18 years of involvement who pined for the EF Mass. He was from France and has since passed away. He had been a postulant at Fontgombault.
Moreover I live in a very rural diocese. Our parishes around here struggle to have one Mass per parish every Sunday. It requires priests to binate and even trinate and drive many miles between Masses. Even if there was demand, there’s no capacity to accommodate it. There might be at the cathedral… 60 miles away on poor roads. But I know few very people willing to negotiate them in winter to attend an EF Mass although there’s an SSPX chapel and seminary about half-way. I won’t go there and nor will most faithful Catholics. So I don’t need statistics to see the wider picture.
If elderly people weep when they hear your chant group, don’t you think that is meaningful to them?
Absolutely. However, Gregorian chant does not equal EF Mass only. Gregorian chant remains fully licit in the OF, and there are approved chant books in the OF for Gregorian chant. Some may be nostalgic for the music, most are
not nostalgic for the era. And many, if not most, conflate the two. Some parishes are hostile to us.
In the neighbouring archdiocese, the one our chant group works in, there is an EF Mass in a very rural and isolated parish about 100 miles from here. It is centred around a large traditional extended French Canadian family that live in semi-isolation. The parish also serves the wider Catholic community in the OF. One pastor provides both. It is horribly divided, the two sides hardly acknowledge the other exists, and the poor priest is caught in the middle. We once proposed to chant Vespers there on a Sunday. To unite the two groups, and since several of us are oblates, we proposed to use the most ancient Vespers in existence in the Latin Church, the Monastic Vespers of St. Benedict, in continuous use for over 1500 years. And since there are both licit pre- and post-Vatican II versions, we thought it would be nice to bring the two groups together.
The priest was sympathetic, but alas he said he could not accommodate the two groups in the same church at the same time. There would be either open hostility, or refusal to attend.
That really broke my heart, and emphasized how much this “OF” vs “EF” divide can hurt the Church.
I’m not averse to Latin and Gregorian chant. Quite the contrary, I sing in a schola and chant the Liturgy of the Hours in Latin Gregorian chant almost daily (some busy days or when traveling I just recite the Office). I am however, increasingly hostile to the
division that all this is causing.