You make many good points and thanks for sharing those.
Faith is a gift, yet it is also NOT easy. It takes work, and so many today really reject work. The truth is humanity is very far from perfect, each and every person sins, and sometimes we sin gravely. That means plenty of grave sinners will stubbornly sit in the pews justifying their own sins, yet the Church is a hospital for sinners–it exists for the sake of us sinners.
I will state again that if people took the time to understand what the Eucharist is, they would never cease being Catholic, and they would finds ways to attend Mass more frequently, perhaps daily, and they would do Spiritual Communions frequently.
I once was part of a men’s non-denom Bible study. There were several hundred men, and I had attended for about four years. Over time I began to see how under the surface the study was strongly anti-Catholic, and I knew I could not stay. One day, after visiting the Lord in the Blessed Sacrament in a nearby Catholic Church, I asked the Lord to help me make the correct decision about the Bible study. I then went to the study, but all study participants were in class, so I went to the non-denom worship space, and waited for a lecture there. I was alone in that room, which had space enough for about 1,000 people with theater-like seating. Suddenly, my heart felt crushed, and I mean really crushed to a point of near tears (and that takes a lot for me). I looked all over that room and I realized that I was indeed “alone.” The Lord was not there, there was no Tabernacle, no Blessed Sacrament, nothing but an empty room filled with comfortable chairs.
Just minutes earlier I had asked the Lord for help while I knelt before Him in the Blessed Sacrament and at that exact moment I felt an overwhelming sadness for our non-Catholic brothers and sisters, because I realized how much they were missing! I realized that no amount of Bible study, or so-called Christian fellowship, could ever replace being with, and receiving, our Risen Lord!
I made the decision to leave the study at that moment and I never looked back.
Catholics need to understand what they have, and forget all the extraneous stuff–because all that other “stuff” takes us away from understanding that Jesus is RIGHT THERE for us in all Catholic Churches across the planet.** Thanks and Praise be to God**!