My dd served for a few years in our parish back in PA, and she loved it…and I think it enabled her to become more devoted to Christ and His teachings–she really understood mass better, and she always cherished those moments.
To encourage vocations to the religious life and the habit of Church volunteerism among girls, and to train all the children of the parish to become devoted and attentive at Mass.
Just as boys should not be given the impression that Church is a “girl activity,” neither should girls be given the impression that Church is “for boys only.”
Anything that requires dedication, voluntary service, and intimate knowledge of the Mass, which is pretty much any female religious order. (They don’t just sit there and pray all day, you know. They make all the stuff that the priest uses at Mass and everything with which the Church is appointed - his vestments, the altar cloths, the statues, stained glass windows, mosaics, etc. - and they train the people who help the priest.)
Other than priests, female religious are more likely to need to know what people learn when they are Altar servers. Certainly, the 95% of boys who go into business aren’t going to use what they learned as Altar servers in any direct way.
as was said, to understand why altar serving should be reserved for boys, and girls in an emergency only,
it requires intimate knowledge of the Mass.
just like many other abuses going on, it is from a lack of intimate knowledge that people insist on doing them. sorry if it sounds overly harsh to call it an abuse, but to promote it as many people have here lends itself to such criticism. instead of offering these reasons, as valid as they may sound, you should be figuring out ***why ***our Holy Mother Church has made such a decision. you will see that they overshadow the reasons that people have given here.
But what does being an altar server teach a
boy about being a priest?
As far as I can tell, boys “get out of it” the same as what girls “get out of it” - the opportunity to develop the habit of service, and the chance to interact with others who
also are in the habit of service.
altar serving has everything to do with teaching a boy about the priesthood. it is similar to being a squire to a knight. can a girl learn a lot about sword fighting, blacksmithing, and honor as a squire? sure, but she will never become a knight. she can learn those things elsewhere. besides, it is not just about those basic services. it includes the life and essence of the knight as a man. she is snatching away the position of a male squire, regardless of how many squires actually become knights which is irrelevant.
in the same way, if in an emergency, sure the knight can have a girl help him with his armor, but she still shouldn’t be instituted as a squire.
this pamphlet,
by Fr. Paul O’Sullivan, O.P.The Wonders of the Mass, shed a lot of light on the subject and helped to explain this to me. most key for me was that it’s not just about what you see, but what you can’t see. unlike being a knight, during the Mass there are many holy things going on in heaven and on earth, some of which are the many graces being bestowed on the boy by serving in the Mass.
you want to learn about being a priest, go to a priest and take part in what he does. you want to learn about being a nun, go to a nun and take part in what she does. a boy learns about being a man from his father, and a girl from her mother. you can make as many exceptions to these as you want, but these are the main foundations of the matter, the cornerstones that will make them last.
conserve Catholicism, don’t liberally protest it!