American Girl -"I can" campaign promotes Roe

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I just put about a hundred miles on my car this weekend going to churches and handing out info on this. You would not believe how many people are unaware where their money is going. Even if they aren’t buying the bracelets, where do you think the money for the $50,000 grant comes from?? I went to or faxed 14 churches so far as well as the Christian radio group in our area and the state Right to Life organization. Hopefully word was anounced from many of the pulpits in the area yesterday. I pray that we can make a difference.
 
Here’s my letter to American Girl regarding this issue:

Mattel Chairman Bob Eckert
American Girl President Ellen Brothers
Public Relations Susan Jevens

I am writing this letter with the risk that it may never be given due consideration and tossed aside among the heap of other letters being written to American Girl in the wake of the Girls Inc. controversy. However, I think that it is important for me to voice my opinion because the alternative is to be silent, thereby ensuring that there is no chance that my views are heard.

I am the father of three beautiful girls, ages 8, 6 and 2. My oldest is a voracious reader and has read most if not all of the American Girl books. My wife is a former teacher and reading specialist and now homeschools our older two daughters. She encouraged my daughter to start reading the American Girl books and we were both pleased that my daughter liked them because she was not only reading but learning about historical events at the same time.

At present, my older two daughters do not own any of the American Girl dolls. They do own several dozen Barbie dolls which they enjoy playing with. However, one of their long time goals has been to save up for an American Girl doll. They have been saving their allowance, selling vegetables from their garden, saving birthday money and doing extra chores to build enough savings to afford (between themselves) an American Girl doll. Every week or so, they count their savings to see how close they are to their goal.

While the cost of an American Girl doll is more than what we typically spend on our children for a birthday present, it is not out of the realm of what we could afford. However, we feel as parents that the experience of working towards a goal and saving money to achieve that goal has been a good experience for our daughters. At this point, going out and buying an American Girl doll for our daughters would take away from this important character-building experience.

All this being said, you can imagine my disappointment as a parent when I heard that American Girl is affiliating with Girls Inc. who espouses many values contrary to those that I wish to instill in my own children. While I hope that my girls grow up to be successful, respected and happy in whatever career they eventually choose and I also believe that they are endowed with the same rights as their male counterparts, there are other ideals set forth by Girls Inc. that I am vehemently opposed to. First and foremost among those is their stance on abortion. Girls Inc. leaves no question that they are pro abortion and this lack of respect for innocent human life is more than enough to negate anything else that they do that is positive for young girls and women.

As a parent, I am responsible for the moral development of my children. As such, I cannot overlook the link between American Girl and Girls Inc. and my family will have to look to alternatives to American Girl dolls. While my girls may be disappointed that they will not be getting the exact doll that they had long been saving for, it is my hope that this will further their learning experience that there is little that they do that is without consequences. The mere purchase of a doll can have a greater meaning than just emptying out their piggy bank and giving it up to the clerk at the store. In the end, the doll is just a doll but the events leading up to what is a major purchase for them are what will last a lifetime and beyond.

This is the point of the letter where I would normally indicate what I expect American Girl doll to win me back as a potential customer. However, if it is not clear by now what the right thing to do is, this letter has been an utter failure. You can ignore this letter and I am sure that the lack of a purchase from my family is a tiny drop in the bucket to your company. However, I ask you to consider that seemingly inconsequential actions can have a ripple effect that have the potential to affect more people than you could ever imagine.
 
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IrishBrewer:
Here’s my letter to American Girl regarding this issue:

Mattel Chairman Bob Eckert
American Girl President Ellen Brothers
Public Relations Susan Jevens

I am writing this letter with the risk that it may never be given due consideration and tossed aside among the heap of other letters being written to American Girl in the wake of the Girls Inc. controversy. However, I think that it is important for me to voice my opinion because the alternative is to be silent, thereby ensuring that there is no chance that my views are heard.

I am the father of three beautiful girls, ages 8, 6 and 2. My oldest is a voracious reader and has read most if not all of the American Girl books. My wife is a former teacher and reading specialist and now homeschools our older two daughters. She encouraged my daughter to start reading the American Girl books and we were both pleased that my daughter liked them because she was not only reading but learning about historical events at the same time.

At present, my older two daughters do not own any of the American Girl dolls. They do own several dozen Barbie dolls which they enjoy playing with. However, one of their long time goals has been to save up for an American Girl doll. They have been saving their allowance, selling vegetables from their garden, saving birthday money and doing extra chores to build enough savings to afford (between themselves) an American Girl doll. Every week or so, they count their savings to see how close they are to their goal.

While the cost of an American Girl doll is more than what we typically spend on our children for a birthday present, it is not out of the realm of what we could afford. However, we feel as parents that the experience of working towards a goal and saving money to achieve that goal has been a good experience for our daughters. At this point, going out and buying an American Girl doll for our daughters would take away from this important character-building experience.

All this being said, you can imagine my disappointment as a parent when I heard that American Girl is affiliating with Girls Inc. who espouses many values contrary to those that I wish to instill in my own children. While I hope that my girls grow up to be successful, respected and happy in whatever career they eventually choose and I also believe that they are endowed with the same rights as their male counterparts, there are other ideals set forth by Girls Inc. that I am vehemently opposed to. First and foremost among those is their stance on abortion. Girls Inc. leaves no question that they are pro abortion and this lack of respect for innocent human life is more than enough to negate anything else that they do that is positive for young girls and women.

As a parent, I am responsible for the moral development of my children. As such, I cannot overlook the link between American Girl and Girls Inc. and my family will have to look to alternatives to American Girl dolls. While my girls may be disappointed that they will not be getting the exact doll that they had long been saving for, it is my hope that this will further their learning experience that there is little that they do that is without consequences. The mere purchase of a doll can have a greater meaning than just emptying out their piggy bank and giving it up to the clerk at the store. In the end, the doll is just a doll but the events leading up to what is a major purchase for them are what will last a lifetime and beyond.

This is the point of the letter where I would normally indicate what I expect American Girl doll to win me back as a potential customer. However, if it is not clear by now what the right thing to do is, this letter has been an utter failure. You can ignore this letter and I am sure that the lack of a purchase from my family is a tiny drop in the bucket to your company. However, I ask you to consider that seemingly inconsequential actions can have a ripple effect that have the potential to affect more people than you could ever imagine.
Brilliant letter! 👍 I think we have a huge ripple going here!
 
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auppie:
Perhaps they are trying to give those who haven’t yet looked them up online cause to wonder where we are getting our information, as it obviously has been changed.

Anyone know how to get in touch with the AP reporter?
AP does not give out individual email addresses or phone numbers. The AP writer is David Crary. Here is the general info for AP:

Headquarters
450 W. 33rd St.
New York, NY 10001

Main Number
+1-212-621-1500

info@ap.org
 
This made ABC World News last night. They said they will not stop supporting Girls Inc. I think a picket might be forthcoming…
 
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RCCDefender:
This made ABC World News last night. They said they will not stop supporting Girls Inc. I think a picket might be forthcoming…
WOW Peace-BWU!! That’s all you!! :clapping:
 
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Peace-bwu:
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This is taken from the Girl’s Inc. Website. I only included the things on the top ten list that trouble me… check out # 9. There used to be an “action link” for how to legislate for abortion rights, sex ed in schools, etc. but they recently removed it… I wonder if that is just a coincidence because it was there a few days ago. Perhaps they are trying to make their website more palatable?
http://www.girlsinc.org/ic/c-images/hd3.3.gif

Clicking on the “take action” link above now results in the following:
Action Alert

The Action Alert you’ve requested is no longer available.
Keep the pressure on, people, we’re getting to 'em! 👍
 
If you go to the abcnews.com website and click on the World News Tab, you can view a video segment on the American Girl Doll issue. The American Girl company (Mattel) isn’t backing down and claims that their support for Girls Inc. shouldn’t be a problem because they earmark their donation for specific programs.

However, as others have indicated, giving money to specific areas could act to free up dollars to be spent in areas that are extremely objectionable to many. Try as they might to compartmentalize their support, I’m not buying it and I don’t believe most rational people will either.
 
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IrishBrewer:
If you go to the abcnews.com website and click on the World News Tab, you can view a video segment on the American Girl Doll issue. The American Girl company (Mattel) isn’t backing down and claims that their support for Girls Inc. shouldn’t be a problem because they earmark their donation for specific programs.

However, as others have indicated, giving money to specific areas could act to free up dollars to be spent in areas that are extremely objectionable to many. Try as they might to compartmentalize their support, I’m not buying it and I don’t believe most rational people will either.
I certainly didn’t, and I followed up my initial email with another addressing that comment about their donation going to specific programs, and that they have no opinion on the other issues. Having no opinion silently gives support to Girls, Inc. and their donations fstrengthen that support to the entire group…one cannot pick and choose what it supports and what it doesn’t within one organization. When one supports an organization, he or she supports the ENTIRE organization.
 
My letters expressed my dismay that they might consider their consumers “too ignorant or naive” to realize that even though they earmark their donations, Girls, Inc. is able to “free up” dollars given overall to push their objectionable agenda. American Girl is making a huge mistake by not backing off support for Girls, Inc.
 
Michelle in KC:
My letters expressed my dismay that they might consider their consumers “too ignorant or naive” to realize that even though they earmark their donations, Girls, Inc. is able to “free up” dollars given overall to push their objectionable agenda.
Yup. As Ronald Reagan once said, “Money is fungible.”
 
That AP article was one of the cycling four “In the News” reports when I logged into Yahoo. It had an ABC News video attached. The video report was slightly biased in favor of American Girl, but not outright.
 
Here’s my response to Girls, Inc. regarding the statements made in the AP article and their website:
Joyce Roche, the president of Girls Inc., said the New York-based organization had never before been targeted by a protest campaign.
“We were taken aback,” she said in a telephone interview Friday. “Our programs are well-respected. We’re all about helping girls see possibilities and dream big dreams.”
She said Girls Inc. takes positions on public policy issues if it believes women’s rights and opportunities are at stake. “Our philosophy is that women should have the right to make decisions about themselves,” Roche said. [emphasis added]
This is the quote by Girls Inc. president Joyce Roche from the Associated Press article of October 14, 2005.
Recently, our mission to help girls develop their self-esteem and self-reliance has become the target of false, inflammatory statements from people who are pursuing a narrow political agenda.
This statement is directly from the Girls, Inc. website.

I am a parent of a pre-teen daughter, and I am appalled at what Girls, Inc. represents. Yes, Girls, Inc. does have its good programs, and more power to you for those programs. It is sad, though, that you are teaching very young girls that abortion is an “option” they can choose about their own bodies. It is not your job to teach these girls this. This is what this argument is all about. Its not about the American Family Association coming down on you for " a narrow political agenda". A group of PARENTS, who started this bru-ha-ha, learned about Girls, Inc. through American Girl products. Many of us were not happy to see that our hard-earned money went to support programs such as advocating abortion, same sex lifestyles, and the use of birth control TO PRE-TEENS AND TEENS–our daughters.

I am appalled by both statements above. Let’s start with the one from the AP article. When did pre-teens and teens become “women”? Last I checked a “woman” wasn’t enrolled in elementary school, middle school or high school. These students are GIRLS, not WOMEN. Our girls today grow up way too fast, and this information handed out and/or taught to them contributes to that condition. Its almost like you are telling them …here are your options, but don’t do it i.e. what person doesn’t look down when told “Don’t look down.”

As for the statement from the website, what narrow political agenda am I pursuing? As previously stated, I am a mother of a pre-teen daughter. I am not a political candidate for anything. Besides, what statements were false or inflammatory? Girls, Inc. has admitted to supporting Roe v. Wade. Girls, Inc. supports same-sex relationships. Please let us concerned parents know what statements are false because we don’t see them.

As long as these statements continue, us concerned parents, will continue to show you what we think of your organization, by withholding the Almighty Dollar. We won’t purchase American Girl Products, and they, in turn, won’t have the funds to pass along to your organization.

Thank you for your time,
 
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auppie:
Mattel Chairman Bob Eckert - Jules.Andres@mattel.com
American Girl President Ellen Brothers - ellen.brothers@americangirl.com
Public Relations Susan Jevens - susan.jevens@americangirl.com

Maybe its time to hit them up with another round of letters.
According to some people these emails have suddenly stopped working…hmmm…

Well, the post office still delivers. Perhaps we should fill up their mail room.

I canceled my catalog today and told the customer service girl to make sure her superiors knew why: their continued support of Girls, Inc.
 
I don’t know what portion of Mattel’s revenues were attributable to their American Girl line but this controversy is the last thing that they want to see because the company’s earnings were below expectations due to lackluster sales of their Barbie line.

A boycott by many who are pro-life will be a big blow to this company especially if people don’t just avoid the American Girl products but all Mattel products starting with this Chrismas’ shopping season. I know that I will try to be a more conscious shopper when it comes to buying Christmas and birthday gifts.

For this to be effective, however, we have to keep spreading the word and keep the letters, emails and phone calls coming.
 
Island Oak:
Here is a link to an article I found: abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=1214341I think the fact that the word has spread this far is fabulous!
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Wow! This news coverage is too cool. The facts speak for themselves. I think that is part of the reason why the organizations and media have acted on it so quickly.

Anyone who is interested in voicing their complaints should do it via certified mail, or at least *regular *snail mail. We need to send letters to each important dept. It will be much more effective than anything else. The links to send an email to AG or Girls Inc. is easy, and a great thing, but I question how much weight they have compared to piles of letters and phones ringing off the hook. It has to be a real nuscience for them to take it seriously.

The fact that Girl’s Inc. has changed their website tells me that they are going to keep their Pro- aboriton radical feminist agenda on the “down low” so that means it is even more urgent that parents be warned, especially the possibly unsuspecting parents that Girl’s Inc serves.
 
Rah Rah for us and having a cow about this issue. What I haven’t seen in all of these posts is:

a) a whole lot of concern for ministry/outreach to the at-risk girls that Girls Inc. claims is their core mission. Girls Inc. may be on a wrong tack but, if you have nothing, even advice from stable liberal is likely better than what you get from TV and pop music.

b) any alternative, non-abortion promoting national organization with a focus on at-risk teen girls who would be a better value for Mattel / American Girl to spend their money on. I think this discussion would do well to emphasize the better programs the pro-life world offers for these girls. Assume they are dirt poor and don’t go to church. Who would this national organization be? I sure don’t know.

Best Regards
 
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