Anybody out there "pro-choice"?

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**MarkInOregon:

I don’t want to have to respond to this same old stuff again. If you want my answers to your questions you may search CAF for my posts on the subject.

That likely will not satisfy you, and that’s OK by me. I’m not the Town Crier, I’m not trying to change anybody’s mind on the topic of abortion. If I were I would choose a place other than Catholic Answers Forum to do it. I just find bias and disinformation and extremism on this topic here and sometimes weigh in. If you can’t dig it, move on.

Limerick **
 
** I just find bias and disinformation and extremism on this topic here and sometimes weigh in. If you can’t dig it, move on.

Limerick **
Bias, perhaps. Since it’s human nature to always be biased toward some belief.

But disinformation, and extremism? You’re finding that here from Catholics? Guess I’ll have to go back through the abortion threads and find it. By disinformation do you mean the truth about human life beginning at conception, and thus having the right to life at that point? And have you observed Catholics here advocating extremism in the pro-life battle?

I guess what I’ve learned about you, L, is that you are against abortion, mostly because of the negative impact it leaves on a woman, and to some smaller degree because you believe the act itself to be senseless and harmful. On the other hand, you seem to express a belief that a growing baby in the womb does not have the right to life if a mother chooses to terminate it for any reason. You seem to hold to this view because of a) your belief on when life actually begins, b) the legality of abortion, and of course, c) the gift of free will. You may not have seen my recent question about this, but I’ll ask again…If you became convinced that abortion was murder in all cases, whether or not civil law agreed with that fact, would you advocate, as you do now, that a woman must be left alone in her decision to abort?

You subscribe to moral relativism, which in and of itself is troubling because it is so far from the truth regarding morals. You stress that each person can follow their own moral code and should be left alone in all cases of their decisions, but don’t really say whether or not you would get involved if those decisions include actions that are in violation of civil law (i.e. murder). I guess another question to you would be…if you witnessed a murder, would you tell the police? If so, why…when it is your position to “live and let live”? Does that “live and let live” stance cease to exist when someone breaks the law? If so, are you upset that some Catholics publicly advocate against abortion because abortion is legal? In other words, it’s OK to intervene if an action violates civil law? But it’s NOT OK to intervene if an action violates God’s law?

This is the Catholic position, and why we intervene. Just as you would presumably try to stop someone from killing a family member, we would want to stop a mother from killing her unborn child. They’re both cases of murder. I presume you don’t believe that, since you seem to believe that even though an unborn child can be classified as human and alive, the mother “owns” it as part of her body, and therefore can have it removed and terminated at will. I’m not sure why you see it this way, and I wonder if your opinion on this would change if the law someday made abortion illegal in all cases.

One thing’s for sure…you are “pro-free will”, whatever that means. I don’t really know anyone who is anti-free will. Free will is not something to be for or against. It simply IS. As you agree, it’s a gift from God. But arguing from the standpoint that everyone has this gift, and therefore no one should be challenged on their actions, is a bit off-base. God created us as social beings, not isolated individuals who are to be left alone to do our own things with our free will. We are supposed to build one another up, love each other, and exhort one another in faith. The Catholic pro-life movement embodies this purpose for humanity, and seeks to do so with love and charity, and never violence. Sometimes this involvement is direct (advocating for legal changes or public rosaries outside a clinic), and often it is indirect (private prayer).

Not that you want my advice, but I would nevertheless suggest that you reflect deeply about what morality is, and whether or not it is subjective or objective. Then I would revisit your belief that intervention and persuasion are always inappropriate responses to immoral acts, especially in the case of murder.

In any event, thanks for expressing your opinions on these threads.
 
Yes, part of being pro-life is being anti-abortion, however not all anti-abortion people are pro-life, hence the bombings. If you can wage war on the rhetoric of ‘pro-choice’, then I should be free to do the same with ‘pro-life’. If choice is all about the absolute freedom of will, then life is all about the undeniable dignity of all life.

I never once condoned the actions of the bombers, and in fact their actions greatly sadden me and I am more than happy to speak out against them. The people they’ve killed or tried to kill were someone’s children, someone’s brothers or sisters, someone’s parents. Killing them goes against everything the pro-life people stand for. Certain radicals who have lost sight of the true meaning of life, be it out of anger, desparation, or delusion, should not be toted as the spokesmen of the pro-life movement, just as the certain abortion clinics who usher women in and coerce them on to the table shouldn’t be the poster-boys of the pro-choice world. Pointing out the radicals of either side will do nothing for this conversation.

You’ll have to expand farther than one sentence if you expect a coherent response.
If you haven’t already, read up on the Church’s theology of Prudential Judgement and Absolute Truth as opposed to Intrinsic Evil. These are the basics.

Back in 1973 when Roe vs. Wade was passed, Pro life meant only Pro Abortion because of the Life/Death issue. As the years have gone by and the Church has thrust forward “Social Justice” issues of all sorts, some of them Intrinsic evils, some not, people have re described Pro Life to be meaning ALL issues of injustice. At one time, all those years ago, Pro Life did mean only Anti Abortion.
 
Back in 1973 when Roe vs. Wade was passed, Pro life meant only Pro Abortion because of the Life/Death issue. As the years have gone by and the Church has thrust forward “Social Justice” issues of all sorts, some of them Intrinsic evils, some not, people have re described Pro Life to be meaning ALL issues of injustice. At one time, all those years ago, Pro Life did mean only Anti Abortion.
Just because the definition of a term expanded out of necessity due to the changing political climate does not mean that the Truth changed.
 
Just because the definition of a term expanded out of necessity due to the changing political climate does not mean that the Truth changed.
I didn’t say it did. The concept of what the term means, however, has.
 
If so, perhaps you can explain something to me. (Understand that I’m gonna be hard to convince… I’m pro-life in every circumstance…)

Can you please clear up a mystery for me, and tell me what makes sense about this?
acts17verse28.blogspot.com/2009/05/wheres-sense-in-that.html.
Hello, if James’ reply is nonsensical to you, it is that to me. It is good to read that you are pro-life; I am too, but I’m pro-choice, also. If that confuses, perhaps the conclusion of this post will explain it.
God bless you with Peace, Matthew
 
** SteveGC:

This is a well-stated assessment of your position and my position and highlights some of the reasons why I am no longer a practicing Catholic.

One thing which you touched on is your belief that *“God created us as social beings, not isolated individuals who are to be left alone to do our own things with our free will. We are supposed to build one another up, love each other, and exhort one another in faith.” ***Please understand that God did not create all of us as social beings. There are many levels of human involvement in society, and my participation is, by choice, as scant and limited as I can possibly maintain it. I strongly dislike being around other people, having to listen to banal chit-chat about family and friends and food and recipes and job worries and potty training. I am most content, if you can call it that, when I am isolated. This is one reason the internet is such a powerful instrument for me and people like me: we can communicate and have a chance to consider others’ opinions and information without having to become violent. Violence is part of my history and the internet affords me an opportunity to discipline myself in this area.

Yes, I put the concerns of the mother first. It would be Utopia if all men and women gave sexual conduct serious consideration before entering into it, but if that were so from the beginning there would likely be only one billion human beings on the planet now instead of the 6 or 7 billion we currently have. Your hypothetical questions cannot be accurately answered because I can only guess at the answers, but you are correct in stating that I am primarily for the rights and health and well-being of the mother.

If you are compelled to challenge anyone on choices or decisions they make or actions that they take, then do so and do it with whatever blessing God gives you, and carry whatever message He wants you to carry. I simply choose not to insinuate myself into anyone’s mind and heart in any situation. As caustic as I can be, my isolation is what would “please” God.

Limerick
 
**elts1956:

Is this what you meant to say??

"Back in 1973 when Roe vs. Wade was passed, Pro life meant only Pro** Abortion . . . "

Limerick
 
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I do not advocate the “killing of innocent children”. I advocate for a woman’s legal right to choose whether or not to continue with or terminate a pregnancy.[SIGN]or in other words, You advocate what you’ve just said you do not advocate[/SIGN] Furthermore, I advocate for her right and responsibility to choose according to her own religion, her own moral code, her own conscience, and not** mine and not yours. And you are delusional if you believe rendering abortion illegal will cause “all of the violence to go away”. Coercion will escalate, beatings will escalate, rage will escalate, women will investigate all means of illicit abortion. If you have never been in this situation it’s easy for you to be an armchair critic. You cannot appreciate the secret violence if it has not been visited upon you.

Abortion is violent. Abortion is not without risk. Abortion is a pathetic ending to life, to possibilities, to dreams. It closes the casket on relationships, on what we think we know as love, on the potential for a fetus to come into this world and grow and thrive. I do not deny any of it. Although there are incredibly heart-wrenching cases where a fetus has no hope of life, the everyday demand for abortion is directly proportional to the ignorance and selfishness of men and women all over this country. I don’t deny that, either.

But I am not in a position to judge another woman’s situation or to try to persuade her to act against her own moral code. If she asks my opinion I will share my experience, strength and hope with her, because we share a common situation in that I aborted a 13-week-old fetus in June of 1971. I will share with her that I have learned not to repeat the experience, how it shaped my relationship with men, with God, with my daughter, with other women who have asked me about my abortion. I will not vomit this information all over her so that she may sort it out in times of trial and anxiety and fear and dread and worry and confusion. I will not intervene, I will not judge a woman’s situation or decision that comes from that situation. Nor will not advocate for abortion. I will advocate for her to consult whatever Higher Power she may have and decide for herself, with this Guidance, which way to go.

Intervention, coercion, persuasion, manipulation are all inappropriate. I will not participate on any of those levels in another woman’s pregnancy. If you choose to do so, that is your prerogative. But I stand behind free will as a gift from God. Sometimes we don’t use it wisely. No one is immune from foolishness or selfishness. But people should be free to make life decisions without hindrance from others. Anyone is free to disagree with this, as I’m certain most of you will. It does not change my position.

The main life decision in this case is not the one that relieves the pregnant woman or that saves the fetus. It is the one that led the woman into having intercourse in the first place. That’s where to start: the pre-pregnancy, pre-sexually-active place. The place where we are not afraid to give our children - our pre-adolescent children - the facts about their upcoming sexuality - beyond abstinence. They are entitled to the whole package, not just “don’t do it and God will be happy.”
Limerick
Limerick, may I suggest you take 2:20 and $20.00 to view a just released DVD, Maafa21, a film that proves the actions of the past have consequence and a reckoning. Many of your beliefs are successfully refuted in the movie.If you were to Google, “Maafa”, the Life Dynamics Incorporated documentary might not be found, but some interesting examples of “Man’s cruelty to man.” Please include “21,” when you Google, “Maafa,” i.e., “Maafa21” Until then.
God bless you with Peace, Matthew
then Let me know. I’d enjoy discussing it with you.
 
I didn’t say it did. The concept of what the term means, however, has.
I fail to see how that’s different. When abortion became legal, there was suddenly the need for people against the practice to have a public presence, therefor they adopted the stance of being pro-life. As time went on, and more once-taboo topics began to take the political field, including assisted suicide and euthanasia, the theme of the topics were easily joined to the pro-life cause. What does any of this have to do with there being one Truth?
 
I fail to see how that’s different. When abortion became legal, there was suddenly the need for people against the practice to have a public presence, therefor they adopted the stance of being pro-life. As time went on, and more once-taboo topics began to take the political field, including assisted suicide and euthanasia, the theme of the topics were easily joined to the pro-life cause. What does any of this have to do with there being one Truth?
Not a thing. I think we are getting our messages mixed up.
 
Not a thing. I think we are getting our messages mixed up.
You posed the question of if a poster was trying to suggest that there is only one Truth. I asked for an example in which there are two truths. Offering a couple of terms doesn’t cut it for me, I was asking for an example in which there are two truths for one thing.
 
You posed the question of if a poster was trying to suggest that there is only one Truth. I asked for an example in which there are two truths. Offering a couple of terms doesn’t cut it for me, I was asking for an example in which there are two truths for one thing.
Again, it depends if your are talking about Absolute Truth, only ONE truth, or truths which can be judged Prudentially, ie. all opinions are acceptable.
 
Again, it depends if your are talking about Absolute Truth, only ONE truth, or truths which can be judged Prudentially, ie. all opinions are acceptable.
Right, well, then which ‘truth’ were you referring to originally? Context is a beautiful thing, isn’t it?
 
You posed the question of if a poster was trying to suggest that there is only one Truth. I asked for an example in which there are two truths. Offering a couple of terms doesn’t cut it for me, I was asking for an example in which there are two truths for one thing.
I didn’t say it did. The concept of what the term means, however, has.
Okay Jr. MY concept of the “term” was different when the Pro Life surge began. Does that satisfy you? I would imagine that many more of us “oldsters” would say the same thing.
 
I fail to see how that’s different. When abortion became legal, there was suddenly the need for people against the practice to have a public presence, therefor they adopted the stance of being pro-life. As time went on, and more once-taboo topics began to take the political field, including assisted suicide and euthanasia, the theme of the topics were easily joined to the pro-life cause. What does any of this have to do with there being one Truth?
I’m sorry you don’t understand the difference between concept and term.
 
I’m sorry you don’t understand the difference between concept and term.
Yes, throwing insults will make me understand you perfectly. Thank-you so much, my mind has been blown away by your superior intellect.

I’m sorry you can’t accept that perhaps when someone doesn’t understand what you’re trying to say, you should try to say it differently and have some understanding and compassion.
 
I fail to see how that’s different. When abortion became legal, there was suddenly the need for people against the practice to have a public presence, therefor they adopted the stance of being pro-life. As time went on, and more once-taboo topics began to take the political field, including assisted suicide and euthanasia, the theme of the topics were easily joined to the pro-life cause. What does any of this have to do with there being one Truth?
Yes, part of being pro-life is being anti-abortion, however not all anti-abortion people are pro-life, hence the bombings. If you can wage war on the rhetoric of ‘pro-choice’, then I should be free to do the same with ‘pro-life’. If choice is all about the absolute freedom of will, then life is all about the undeniable dignity of all life.

I never once condoned the actions of the bombers, and in fact their actions greatly sadden me and I am more than happy to speak out against them. The people they’ve killed or tried to kill were someone’s children, someone’s brothers or sisters, someone’s parents. Killing them goes against everything the pro-life people stand for. Certain radicals who have lost sight of the true meaning of life, be it out of anger, desparation, or delusion, should not be toted as the spokesmen of the pro-life movement,
Who do you have in mind as a Pro Life Poster Boy, or have I missed one of your trails down the lane of logic? just as the certain abortion clinics who usher women in and coerce them on to the table shouldn’t be the poster-boys of the pro-choice world. Pointing out the radicals of either side will do nothing for this conversation.

You’ll have to expand farther than one sentence if you expect a coherent response.
So you don’t recognize the difference between issues that can be resolved through Prudential Judgement of individuals and Absolute Truth which is ALWAYS true and does not depend upon opinion of individuals? You still don’t know the difference?
 
Yes, throwing insults will make me understand you perfectly. Thank-you so much, my mind has been blown away by your superior intellect.

I’m sorry you can’t accept that perhaps when someone doesn’t understand what you’re trying to say, you should try to say it differently and have some understanding and compassion.
I feel sorry for you. What more can I say?
 
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