We would not be human if we didn’t feel horror and outrage at a crime such as this.
But as our holy priest told us during his homily at mass for Pentecost: when we allow the Holy Spirit to come into us, we become people of forgiveness and we cease holding anger, grudges, and seeking revenge.
I believe that if we seriously want to become Christ-like in our lives, we must strive to see the criminal as from the eyes of God. Surely God is horrified and hurting when someone commits such a terrible crime. But Christ would also look at the criminal as a person whose life has gone terribly wrong and spiraled out of control. I think the questions we must ask ourselves are: What has happened in this person’s life to cause a human being to reach a point that they would harm/kill someone? What has made them choose the wrong path and reject goodness? How can we see the criminal as human when we are so horrified by his crime?
It is also very interesting that people who commit sex crimes (with real DSM diagnoses) are dealt with only for their crime and not the underlying illness. That is by no means an excuse for a terrible crime but why are we talking only about prison or the death penalty rather than incarceration and treatment so that the criminal can really see what his illness and actions have done to another person and receive treatment. And of course, if the criminal can find his way to a spiritual life, then a soul can be saved.
We do not know God’s timing for this person. God wants everyone to reconcile to Him and we cannot presume to take on God’s role of determining the man’s (or woman’s) death.
In the case being discussed, I recall reading that the child’s (Protestant) minister asked his congregation to remember that we are asked by God to forgive.
We all hope for God’s forgiveness and mercy. How can we deny it to another?