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Philip P:
Second you equate ability to DEAL with a problem as defining the unequal playing field. My point is that whether or not someone engages in self destructive behavior is virtually always an individual act of will. A poor person or a rich person can decide whether or not to use drugs, engage in promiscuous sex or drop out of high school. Once they have made this bad decision, indeed the rich person has more resources to deal with the resulting problems. But the initial act is always someone’s personal responsibility.
Realistically, someone born to a single mom who is uneducated, unemployable and stoned much of the time is quite unlikely to make good decisions. This child really doesn’t have a chance and IMO the focus should be on breaking the cycle through the children and getting THEM on the right foot. But our schools are no longer allowed to teach ‘civics’ and certainly any religion is prohibited. Schools won’t allow Boy Scouts on campus. The secular culture is now reaping what it sowed in removing positive influences from schools.
Lisa N
Philip you have fallen into two traps. One is that you equate success with FINANCIAL success only. You are right a wealthy drug abusing skirt chaser has more money than a sexually responsible poor person. So how does that relate to the subject at hand? You are merely stating facts and falling into the “money means success” trap.I think it’s less. A wealthy person who abuses drugs and engages in premarital and extramartial sex can still be fabulously successful. And if their personal problems start to impede on their material well-being, money can cover up their problems or help pay for treatment. A poor person who abuses drugs and is sexually irresponsible suffers far more. A poor person who works hard and is sexually responsible is also likely never to be as successful as the wealth drug abusing skirt chaser. That is not an equal playing field.
Second you equate ability to DEAL with a problem as defining the unequal playing field. My point is that whether or not someone engages in self destructive behavior is virtually always an individual act of will. A poor person or a rich person can decide whether or not to use drugs, engage in promiscuous sex or drop out of high school. Once they have made this bad decision, indeed the rich person has more resources to deal with the resulting problems. But the initial act is always someone’s personal responsibility.
Realistically, someone born to a single mom who is uneducated, unemployable and stoned much of the time is quite unlikely to make good decisions. This child really doesn’t have a chance and IMO the focus should be on breaking the cycle through the children and getting THEM on the right foot. But our schools are no longer allowed to teach ‘civics’ and certainly any religion is prohibited. Schools won’t allow Boy Scouts on campus. The secular culture is now reaping what it sowed in removing positive influences from schools.
Lisa N