Archbishop of San Francisco warns of coming war on marriage

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You can’t assume that Martin Luther King would not have supported civil rights for gay people. As his wife Coretta Scott King points out, many LGB people came out to actively support King and one of King’s close advisers, Bayard Rustin, was gay. It can’t be pretended that this is an issue with which King was unaware. Also, John Lewis, another giant of the Civil Rights Movement, has been very strong in his support of LGBT rights.
Not that one man’s opinion (however great he may have been) should decide this issue, but here is pretty clear evidence that Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. believed that homosexuality was a disordered inclination, from an advice column he penned:

Ebony, January 1958:
Question: My problem is different from the ones most people have. I am a boy, but I feel about boys the way I ought to feel about girls. I don’t want my parents to know about me. What can I do? Is there any place where I can go for help?
Answer [MLK]: Your problem is not at all an uncommon one. However, it does require careful attention. The type of feeling that you have toward boys is probably not an innate tendency, but something that has been culturally acquired. Your reasons for adopting this habit have now been consciously suppressed or unconsciously repressed. Therefore, it is necessary to deal with this problem by getting back to some of the experiences and circumstances that lead to the habit. In order to do this I would suggest that you see a good psychiatrist who can assist you in bringing to the forefront of conscience all of those experiences and circumstances that lead to the habit. You are already on the right road toward a solution, since you honestly recognize the problem and have a desire to solve it.
Bold added for clarity.
 
People who engage in homosexual behavior have always had the right to get a state license to get married-just like people who engage in normal sexual behavior. That is not the issue. The issue is whether the definition of marriage should be changed to allow people of the same sex to marry. it is a ludicrous proposition on the face of it-as we can see in this thread alone by the rationale advanced to support it.
What good is it to have the right to get a license to get married if they can’t get married? So of course we must change the definition so they can get married. 🤷
 
What good is it to have the right to get a license to get married if they can’t get married? So of course we must change the definition so they can get married. 🤷
Since the license enables you to marry, what impediment are you referring to?
 
I spent years in a Catholic school. Everything was explained to me except blindness. My eyes were opened at all times. You may choose to believe what you want but I literally believe every single word written down by authentic teachers of the Catholic faith. I was there in the late 1960s and I heard, “All you Catholics do is listen to the Pope. Why don’t you think for yourselves?”

Translation: “Why do you pay attention to men of God and not believe us!?” Yeah, I’m going to believe people who want to live their way on their terms and they were remarkably alike. Call them Hippies, anarchists, whatever. THEY were their own god. I rejected and continue to reject that. All they wanted was lots of sex, lots of dope and to reject the rules of religion. Christianity was replaced with Eastern mysticism. They tried yogis and gurus and all the rest.

Ed
I believe I did not specifically target what I said at you. I commend you for being able to place your faith into so much of religion, for that is amazing that the love of god is strong within you. I’m saying that I do not put as much faith as you do, which sometimes is bad, but I do have reasons for it.
 
But since homosexuality is normal for gay folks, it’s not exactly true that they’ve had the right to get a state license to get married to someone of the same-sex. 😉
People have been rationalizing sinning since Adam ate the apple.
 
That was not a ‘definition’ but a statement of what I think it is about. If you are saying that it is solely about graphically described sex acts, then are you arguing that rape is a valid marriage? :eek:

See, both sides can play the ‘silly strawman’ game. 🤷
You certainly created a Strawman. I only used what you typed. If I added to what you typed I would be creating a Strawman.
 
But since homosexuality is normal for gay folks, it’s not exactly true that they’ve had the right to get a state license to get married to someone of the same-sex. 😉
Schizophrenia is normal for those folks.
 
Religious freedom is a civil right in the US. It is also, I believe, a moral right, but it is not one that even the Catholic Church has always supported. When the Catholic Church has had the ability to do so, it has suppressed religious freedom. As a purely moral and religious issue, should the right to religious freedom be a protected right?
The US Constitution defines it.

“Article the third… Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

Ed
 
You need to drop the “darlin’” and other uncharitable references and simply respond to the post.

As to your question, once again you are confusing two completely different issues. There is a huge difference between divorced and remarried Catholics who may not properly present themselves for Communion and recognition of gay marriage by an employer. To obtain employee benefits the employer doesn’t ask about your marital history. If an employee is divorced three times it’s not going to be a part of the employee record. How would they even know? The extension of benefits SPECIFICALLY to same sex partners makes a public statement about complicity with a grave sin and a scandal.
I sincerely apologize if I offended you. I’m an old southern woman from Savannah and we call everyone “darlin’, hun, pumpkin, sweetheart, etc.” I certainly didn’t mean to be condescending. The irony is that I would have considered it rude had I not used the term “darlin’,” because where I come from using a term of endearment like that is a way of softening something that could possibly come across harshly otherwise, and that you don’t want to be taken the wrong way. It’s a way of letting someone know that you’re remaining congenial. But again, I’m sorry it was offensive to you.
 
I certainly remember Reverend King during his years working for Civil Rights. He was known as a preacher, his way of speaking was as a preacher, he CONSTANTLY used Biblical references. While I am sure he would have been against gays being treated the way blacks were treated in those days, I just don’t see him marching so Bob and Joe can have a church wedding. There’s a difference between basic human rights and pushing “rights” that are manifestations of an activist cohort and agenda.
Yes, I remember him. His biography is worth reading. And here’s something also worth reading:

shop.catholic.com/making-gay-okay-how-rationalizing-homosexual-behavior-is-changing-everything.html

Ed
 
Yes, I remember him. His biography is worth reading. And here’s something also worth reading:

shop.catholic.com/making-gay-okay-how-rationalizing-homosexual-behavior-is-changing-everything.html

Ed
The book in question, Making Gay Okay, says, “The homosexual cause moved naturally from a plea for tolerance to cultural conquest because the security of its rationalization requires universal acceptance…The further institutionalization of homosexuality will mean the triumph of force over reason, thus undermining the very foundations of the American Republic.”

It’s rather extraordinary that gay folks, a mere 3-5% of the population, have been able to do a cultural conquest, by force no less, that will undermine the very foundations of the American Republic. I never realized that we were that powerful :rolleyes:
 
The book in question, Making Gay Okay, says, “The homosexual cause moved naturally from a plea for tolerance to cultural conquest because the security of its rationalization requires universal acceptance…The further institutionalization of homosexuality will mean the triumph of force over reason, thus undermining the very foundations of the American Republic.”

It’s rather extraordinary that gay folks, a mere 3-5% of the population, have been able to do a cultural conquest, by force no less, that will undermine the very foundations of the American Republic. I never realized that we were that powerful :rolleyes:
Well let’s not go overboard, buddy. 😉 You’ve had a lot of help from your straight liberal colleagues, right. The same folks that brought us Roe vs. Wade, contraception, etc. And as you noted with polygamy, we’re not done here…are you going to fight the polygamist marriage campaign or respect their rights? Just curious - I actually would like to hear what you would say on that, seriously.
 
The book in question, Making Gay Okay, says, “The homosexual cause moved naturally from a plea for tolerance to cultural conquest because the security of its rationalization requires universal acceptance…The further institutionalization of homosexuality will mean the triumph of force over reason, thus undermining the very foundations of the American Republic.”

It’s rather extraordinary that gay folks, a mere 3-5% of the population, have been able to do a cultural conquest, by force no less, that will undermine the very foundations of the American Republic. I never realized that we were that powerful :rolleyes:
Well, few know enough about median incomes for LGBT persons.

“Median LGBT household income is $61,500 vs. $50,000 for the average American household. LGBT households supporting a child reported a median income of $71,100.
Gay men earn more than lesbians individually ($49,000 vs. $43,500 median income), a gap smaller than that of the general population. Lesbians reported marginally higher median household income than gay men ($63,700 vs. $62,300), but are more likely to live in a dual-income household and have children.”

Then we have the world’s LGBT billionaires whose combined net worth is nearly 16 billion. Then the millionaires…

My post is not naming names since financial facts are the point. I’m not trying to embarrass anyone.

Ed
 
Not everything we are born with as part of our biological or genetic makeup manifests itself in childhood. The statement that we are “born to be heterosexual” is a statement of religious belief not of science and the natural world is far more complex than what we are now able to completely understand or explain.

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No, it is a statement of biology and Natural Law. Males are ordered (designed) to have female mates and females are designed to have male mates. This is biology 101. The “mating” of any species is ordered toward producing offspring whether or not you are a human being or a rat or a horse. One can obtain sexual gratification with objects, the same sex or one’s own appendages but that is not ordered toward the intended use of the reproductive system. Nor is using the digestive system to obtain gratification intended by nature. That religious teaching from Judaism to Buddhism to Christianity reflect biology and Natural Law only give them MORE not less credibility.

It’s when you try to claim that biology doesn’t matter, chromosomes don’t matter, and intended use of body parts doesn’t matter that REAL faith in something is needed. It does not take faith to accept that men are made for women and women for men. To think otherwise is a giant leap.
This same kind of argument could also be used to justify why a black person has no right to marry a white person and vice versa. It might be argued, for example, that just because a black person is in love with and is sexually attracted to a certain white person, they can both control their passions and desires and do not have to act on them and have a choice of what they do with their genitals. Therefore, they have no right to get married and laws banning interracial marriage should not have been struck down by the Supreme Court because every white person has the right to marry another white person and every black person has the right to marry another black person. The right for someone to marry someone regardless of race should therefore not be protected. BTW, racial segregation was long supported by some people with the Bible.
Nice try but a complete canard. For one, we ALL have the ability to control our passions. I assure you that the happiest married man notices a beautiful woman walk by and he might get a bit aroused but he’s not going to tear her clothes off and rape her. Just because you are sexually attracted to someone doesn’t mean you can or should have sex with them, much less marry them. As to your attempt to equate homosexuality with racism, biology 101 again. A man, regardless of his skin tone is ordered (designed) to marry a woman regardless of her skin tone. The essential elements, the complimentary nature are already there. One need not thwart Natural Law to prove this point. You know the parts fit together correctly and there is the added bonus that a child may result from their sexual relationship.

In contrast males are not designed to have sex with other males. That they do as well as having sex with animals, objects and silk sheets is simply a factor of how easily one can learn to become sexually stimulated. Don’t try to elevate sexual jollies with Natural Marriage. One is intended to be transitory and the other to last. One is not intended or even possible to conceive a child, the other has that potential.

Further the attempt to pull the Loving case in for your support is also specious. The Court ruled that laws regarding skin color were un Constitutional and that while one did have the fundamental right to marry it was because through marriage one had children (impossible with a homosexual relatoinship) AND more important to debunk your claim, the Court did not seek to redefine marriage laws in general, nor did it conclude anyone has the right to marry anyone they wished to marry. Age restrictions, relationship restrictions and other state restrictions were not abolished with Loving. And they certainly didn’t speak to gay “marriage” in that case. It would have been unthinkable at the time.
 
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Interracial marriage was not declared unconstitutional using the ballot box. It was declared unconstitutional by the Supreme Court in Loving vs. Virginia
Discrimination on the basis of race was enshrined in the Constitution by democratic vote. Loving vs Virginia is a just a recognition of the will of the people.
How many US states voted for SSM?I admit that I have made similair misstatements and typos myself, but may I be permitted a brief :rotfl: ?

No? oops
Yes, you can permit yourself a cheap laugh over an obvious error. (If it makes you feel better.)
I was typing in a rush and was making the point that…

[The illegality of] discrimination on the basis of race was enshrined in the Constitution by democratic vote.
And that Loving vs Virginia was the court’s recognition of the will of the people regarding citizenship not sexual preference.
…How many states voted for interracial marriage?
The majority.

All citizens have the same rights under the law. And gay people (who are and always have been citizens) are not EXEMPT from obeying the law.

If you want a new law or new amendment to the Constitution, specifically for gay people and a new definition of marriage do it democratically.
 
I sincerely apologize if I offended you. I’m an old southern woman from Savannah and we call everyone “darlin’, hun, pumpkin, sweetheart, etc.” I certainly didn’t mean to be condescending. The irony is that I would have considered it rude had I not used the term “darlin’,” because where I come from using a term of endearment like that is a way of softening something that could possibly come across harshly otherwise, and that you don’t want to be taken the wrong way. It’s a way of letting someone know that you’re remaining congenial. But again, I’m sorry it was offensive to you.
Thank you and I realized you were Southern. The comment was not just the use of the “endearment” to someone you do not know (I realize it is used more frequently in the South) but the subsequent “it’s not all that complicated…” That certainly came off as demeaning. I’ve learned from long experience on this forum that it’s easy to fire off a comment without realizing how it will be interpreted…and I’ve been placed in the penalty box because of my imprudent remarks more than once. Just a friendly bit of advice.

More important please respond to the issue you raised regarding offering benefits to employees who are married but per the Catholic Church are not in a valid marriage vis a vis extending benefits to same sex partners. I do think there is a significant difference in two ways, most importantly all those employed by Catholic institutions do not need to follow Catholic teaching. Further it would be illegal to demand that Catholic employees have valid Catholic marriages to receive benefits but non Catholic employees did not need to adhere to this standard. Obviously since we are all sinners to some extent hiring ANYONE is by your standard encouraging these sins.

But let’s be practical here. This is not the same as changing a policy that upheld Catholic teaching to another policy that clearly is in opposition to Catholic teaching. Most sins including adultery are committed secretly. Neither the employer nor the public know that Employee X is an adulterer or a fornicator. But the public WILL know if a Catholic hospital suddenly decides to ignore the Church’s teaching and embrace gay “marriage” rewarding this sinful state with additional benefits.

Public scandal is the issue here, not inconsistency.
 
No, it is a statement of biology and Natural Law. Males are ordered (designed) to have female mates and females are designed to have male mates. This is biology 101.
Nice try, but Natural Law (which is the basis of much of Catholic thinking on sexuality) has nothing to do with science or biology or even with nature. It is a philosophical/religious construct invented by medieval theologians such as Thomas Aquinas.
 
Nice try, but Natural Law (which is the basis of much of Catholic thinking on sexuality) has nothing to do with science or biology or even with nature. It is a philosophical/religious construct invented by medieval theologians such as Thomas Aquinas.
And yet, Aquinas did not invent biology or anatomy. He didn’t have to philosophize about the fact that the human race is composed of–yes, men and women, and that they are sexually complementary. That much was self evident for thousands of years.
 
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