That was interesting. I had to look up filial fear. Catholicism does have a very rich way with words.
This article I found does seem to suggest that, while different, there is still a link between the two … there is still the underlying terror of being condemned.
Sarah x
That’s an interesting article. I think there can be a sense in which the two are linked. Like the author says, filial fear assumes that one is a good enough person to be in that kind of loving relationship with another person. But some people are not. A violent gang member, for example, might be incapable of filial fear (being afraid to hurt someone one loves). For a person in that position, servile fear might be the best they can manage, but it could still be a helpful first step, though God’s final goal would be for this to become filial fear.
I am sure parents would prefer their children behaved well simply because they did not want to disappoint their parents, but in spite of this parents will recognize that all children are not like that and that some children may need some threat of punishment to behave (no tv, go to your room etc.). They do this hoping that in time the children will learn to behave and want to do well not just from fear of punishment, but from fear of disappointing their parents (or anyone else they may wrong).
Remember, what God wants is that people be able to enter into a loving relationship with him. The deeper people get into this relationship, the less they will be afraid of offending God from fear of punishment and more they will be afraid of offending him because they love him and don’t want to disappoint him. I do disagree partly with the article, then. I think as filial fear increases, servile fear diminishes. I think this because as people enter more deeply into a loving relationship with God, the more they will fear to wrong or disappoint him.
Servile fear, however, suggests that one has not fully entered into a loving relationship with God. Who is in a more loving relationship with their parents, the child who obeys from fear of punishment, or the child who obeys from fear of offending their parents? In the same way, I think as people enter loving relationships with God (which he wants), their servile fear will diminish and not even be relevant. I don’t think a person in this position would feel any terror of condemnation.