Ask a Pagan (Again!)

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This is more of an opinion-type question, but I thought I’d throw it on there.

What do you think of Halloween decorations that depict witches as creepy-looking crones? Do they bother you or is it the kind of thing that is so far away from reality that it’s your least worry? What about faery tales where a witch is the “bad guy”/antagonist (ie. Hansel and Gretel)? Do these bother you or, again, is it a case where you’re confident enough in your belief system that you aren’t bothered by it?
 
Speaking, it should be noted, to highly religious and orthodox people who prided themselves on their exclusive relationship with God. . . . :mad::rolleyes::eek:

So perhaps you and I are the ones who should answer the question?
I don’t pride myself kiddo, don’t kid yourself

poor Contarini, all out of sorts eh…
 
The rejection and denial of Christ is paganism’s central problem. That action attracts Evil (whether or not a person who practices paganism wishes to believe it).
 
This is more of an opinion-type question, but I thought I’d throw it on there.

What do you think of Halloween decorations that depict witches as creepy-looking crones? Do they bother you or is it the kind of thing that is so far away from reality that it’s your least worry? What about faery tales where a witch is the “bad guy”/antagonist (ie. Hansel and Gretel)? Do these bother you or, again, is it a case where you’re confident enough in your belief system that you aren’t bothered by it?
I personally love fairy tales and Hallowe’en! My dad dressed up as a witch once with a pointy hat and my mom’s clothes, it was hilarious. I’m also comfortable playing games like the Shin Megami Tensei series, which is basically world mythology meets Pokemon, and I can’t WAIT for Skyrim to come out because Nordic culture takes much of its inspiration from the Germanic tribes. There isn’t really a concept of “blasphemy” like there is in other religions. Well, there are things one can do to offend the gods (like breaking an oath in my tradition) but I think for the most part it’s understood that deities aren’t really that bothered by how they are depicted in the media.
 
how do you answer this question?

“how can YOU escape the damnation of hell?” (Christ, Mat 23)

ps, doesn’t matter if YOU believe in it or not,
truth/reality is that its the ultimate destination of the wicked
Throwing scripture verses at Pagans isn’t going to make you any friends, either! 😃 You quoting the Bible at me is like me quoting the Eddas at you, neither of us is going to get anywhere because we don’t acknowledge each other’s books as having any authority over us.
 
Is there is a certain place or places that hold special spiritual meaning, for instance, Muslims visit Mecca, Catholics visit Rome, etc.
 
Throwing scripture verses at Pagans isn’t going to make you any friends, either! 😃 You quoting the Bible at me is like me quoting the Eddas at you, neither of us is going to get anywhere because we don’t acknowledge each other’s books as having any authority over us.
That made me chuckle: Best comeback ever; you, sister, have class.
 
Is there is a certain place or places that hold special spiritual meaning, for instance, Muslims visit Mecca, Catholics visit Rome, etc.
Pagans go all over the place!

Someone who honours Egyptian gods might decide to take a trip to Egypt, a Hellenic Pagan might go to Greece (or visit the replica of the Parthenon in the US). Lots of different traditions like to visit Stonehenge. There’s no obligation to go on pilgrimage, though. A spot in one’s own backyard might have a special spiritual meaning to someone.
 
Thanks for the answer. Here are more I am wondering about…How does one meet other individuals who believe the same thing(s) more or less and are there regular gatherings? For instance, many individuals of the same beliefs go to churches, temples, mosques, etc. to gather around their faith or have their faith passed down through the generations.
What do you know about Pagan Christianity?
If you are going to reply other Pagans find each other via the Internet, what about before the Internet? How does one decide they are indeed a Pagan, is making a conscious decision all that needs to be done?

I see you started this thread and it seems you have done this before so I do feel comfortable asking you questions as you invited questions and don’t seem to be bothered by them. However I somewhat am having a hard time with asking you anything in this thread because I feel in a sense it is not kind to ask one single person to reply for a whole group. Regardless of what you believe or don’t believe I am glad you are here on this forum and I think you are interesting to volunteer to discuss and share here. That to me, says more about you as a person than a Pagan. Going off topic here but if you haven’t already I think you might enjoy taking a religious studies course or two. I did in college and they were amazingly interesting! There were people of all faiths in the courses and it made for some really enlightening discussions.
 
Thanks for the answer. Here are more I am wondering about…How does one meet other individuals who believe the same thing(s) more or less and are there regular gatherings? For instance, many individuals of the same beliefs go to churches, temples, mosques, etc. to gather around their faith or have their faith passed down through the generations.
Well, there’s the Internet, of course, but before that there were publications like Green Egg. However, since the modern Pagan “revival” is relatively recent, we’re only just starting to see multiple generations being raised in a Pagan tradition. Some groups even started meeting for purely secular reasons (there’s at least one tradition that grew out of a group putting on costume parties).

Nowadays there are huge events where like-minded folks can gather (like PantheaCon).
What do you know about Pagan Christianity?
Do you mean Christo-Paganism, Christian Wicca, and the like? They’re basically syncretic faiths that blend some form of Paganism with Christianity. There’s actually a sub-forum for Christian Wicca over at the Religious Education Forum, I think you might be able to find more info there: religiousforums.com/forum/christian-wicca-dir/

There’s also the book Christo-Paganism: An Inclusive Path by Joyce and River Higginbotham. I haven’t read it but I’ve heard it’s a pretty good overview of the subject.
If you are going to reply other Pagans find each other via the Internet, what about before the Internet?
See above.
How does one decide they are indeed a Pagan, is making a conscious decision all that needs to be done?
To some extent it is a matter of self-definition, but not always. If I wanted to claim that I was a Gardnerian Wiccan, for instance, I would have to study with and be initiated into a Gardnerian coven. It’s a bit like someone saying they are a Christian, but to be a specific denomination there’s the expectation that you would need to be baptized into that church.

I see you started this thread and it seems you have done this before so I do feel comfortable asking you questions as you invited questions and don’t seem to be bothered by them. However I somewhat am having a hard time with asking you anything in this thread because I feel in a sense it is not kind to ask one single person to reply for a whole group. Regardless of what you believe or don’t believe I am glad you are here on this forum and I think you are interesting to volunteer to discuss and share here. That to me, says more about you as a person than a Pagan. Going off topic here but if you haven’t already I think you might enjoy taking a religious studies course or two. I did in college and they were amazingly interesting! There were people of all faiths in the courses and it made for some really enlightening discussions.

I actually have a BA in religious studies! It’s the most useless useful degree I have! 😃 My classmates were all very diverse: Christians (including at least one Gnostic), Sikhs, Muslims, Hindus, Atheists, Buddhists, Pagans (one of my profs. was Wiccan, I also knew a Kemetic Pagan and a Druid), I think I met one of at least everything in that program!
 
how do you answer this question?

“how can YOU escape the damnation of hell?” (Christ, Mat 23)

ps, doesn’t matter if YOU believe in it or not,
truth/reality is that its the ultimate destination of the wicked
Many people in this thread have criticized this response as too harsh, as it is atypical of what many Catholics would say today… I have to say the question is a relevant one and totally in line with the scriptures, with the apostles, and with Christ himself. Remember that Jesus said that those who believe in him and are baptized will be saved, and those who reject him will be condemned (Mark 16:16). The Church in Vatican II said that God is merciful and will provide for those who, for example, never came to a full understanding of the gospels, and rejected them through no fault of their own… but how many people today can truly claim this? From what I understand some of the pagans in this forum are ex-Catholics.
Vatican II is not to be interpreted “everyone can get to heaven by following their own respective religion.” This is contrary to both scripture and tradition of the Church. No, I am not to judge whether a non-believer is in a state of grace, but that also means I am not to assume that he/she is the way many people do… I would rather play it safe and evangelize, and pray for their conversion. After all it is the natural state of man to be separated from God and his Church. Jesus said that few would enter into the kingdom of heaven… I wish it were not true but sadly these are the words of Our Lord himself… how I wish I could be an optimist.
 
I actually have a BA in religious studies!
I found that to be true of the pagan women I spoke with as well. They took great pride in both their personal synthesis of religion and their women studies programs.

Their depth of knowledge about Christianity was very superficial. They knew as much as they cared to know. And nothing more.
 
I found that to be true of the pagan women I spoke with as well. They took great pride in both their personal synthesis of religion and their women studies programs.

Their depth of knowledge about Christianity was very superficial. They knew as much as they cared to know. And nothing more.
Religious studies, the degree is religious studies, although I did minor in women’s studies as well.

As for my knowledge of Christianity, I was confirmed as a Catholic, but unlike some other Pagans I know, I haven’t read the Bible all the way through. I tended not to take courses with a Christian focus because, to be honest, none of the courses interested me, though I did take courses in Medieval studies, including one on the Medieval Church which was quite fascinating. TBH, what you’re describing is really just a small segment of an extremely diverse population. Some Pagans were raised by Evangelical Christians and were made to memorize the Bible (backwards!), others were raised by atheists, agnostics, or people with no particular religion. I’d dare you to go on a forum like The Cauldron and make some of the generalizations you’ve made about Pagan women, but that would be very cruel of me, very, very cruel. 😃
 
I tended not to take courses with a Christian focus because, to be honest, none of the courses interested me, though I did take courses in Medieval studies, including one on the Medieval Church which was quite fascinating.
Interesting. The pagan women I spoke with also had a major focus on the Medieval Church.
 
My question back to you, which tends to be an opposite - is how can you (as a Christian) ask a person who considers themselves Wiccan or as they used the term on the title thread “Ask a Pagan” what they consider belief and truths to be?
Because it seems to me that these two believe that they create truth based upon what they choose to believe. To put it another way…based upon the way they’ve answered my questions they seem to say that if they believe X then that makes X true. When they cease to believe X then X ceases to be true. One of them even made the absurd assertion that it is possible for religious claims to be both true and false at the same time.

If a person is willing to believe that “truth” is whatever they want it to be, or that a particular proposition can be both true and false at the same time, then there’s really not much use in talking religion with them at all. Maybe we could talk SEC football or golf or craft beer. But trying to get a grip on what is truth when the people you are speaking with believe that they can create and destroy truth by virtue of what they believe is like trying to nail Jello to a wall.

Peace,
 
alright so what are you saying here?
The question was whether or not pagans and Wiccans had doubts about the truth of their beliefs. I was using him as an example of a pagan who wrote about his doubts about his beliefs as a Thelemite. (Granted, he’s a ceremonial magickian, which some pagans consider to be outside the umbrella of paganism. OTOH< he was, for all practical purposes, the founder of Thelema.)
I have to quote this scriptural point with you!,
Are you sure you want to wander down the path of having people demonstrate that the scripture you cite buttresses and supports the thesis that is antithetical to the one that you are using it for, when read in conjunction with umpteen other cites of scripture?
Can you leave the community without any repercussions?
Some scenarios:
  • Delinquent dues: The individual is removed from the list of current members. They may rejoin the group when they are dues current. No formal repercussion from the group;
  • Violated an oath that was sworn/Violated a vow that was taken: In both instances the individual would be expelled from the group. Usually, but not always, other groups, and individuals that are not part of the coven/group would be notified of the expulsion. Reasons may, but are not always provided. Members of the group, and others, usually withdraw their friendship from the individual. No other formal repercussion from the group. There usually are repercussions from the Diety to whom the Oath was sworn, or Vow was taken;
  • No Oaths were violated/No Vows that were taken were violated: The individual decides that they wish to leave the group. No repercussions to the individual;
If the individual leaves a group, without fulfilling legal obligations, there might be legal repercussions. What those legal obligations are, would be sheer speculation on my part.
All the paperwork I’ve seen, has limited legal obligations to remaining dues current. If that obligation is not met, then the individual is removed from the roll of current members. Usually, but not always, they can rejoin the group when they are dues current.

On second thoughts, I can hazard a guess as to what it is.
The best way to avoid those legal obligations, is to have the person that wants you to fill out the paperwork, explain each and every clause in it, and what the consequences of not adhering to each clause is, and the consequences of adhering to each clause is, and then have a lawyer that you pay explain the consequences of each and every clause in it. If the group is unwilling to let you run the paperwork past your lawyer, then don’t join the group.
What is the normal age of a group member?
That depends upon the specific coven. My guess is that the average age of individuals in new covens is twenty-something, and that as the age of the coven increases, so does the average age of the individuals in it.
and what is the youngest member age?
One of the biggest problems coven leaders face, is the number of people under the age of eighteen that want to join the coven.

Most groups don’t permit anybody under the age of eighteen to attend their open meetings. A few set the minimum age limit to twenty-one.

Assuming a Traditional British Wicca coven
  • You have to be at least eighteen years of age to apply to join the coven;
  • It takes between two and six months to be “approved”;
  • You have to have worked with the coven for at least a year and day to be initiated;
Thus, if the stars are right, and every thing is fast, the individual would be at least nineteen years and three months, when they were initiated. Far more common is for them to be twenty, or older.
are there children who perform these same sexual rituals?
Inasmuch as minors aren’t allowed to join most groups, children would not be participating in the rituals.

Amber
 
Is there is a certain place or places that hold special spiritual meaning.
Some groups hold a specially deep reverence for sites that are part of their early history.

Other groups have ascribed a deep reverence to sites that appear to have been significant to people in pre-Christian Europe, and other areas of the world.

I doubt that there is a specifically pilgrim trail for pagans, in either Europe or North America.
OTOH, never forget the ability of tour operators to come up with gimmicks to get tourists to part with their money. Stonehenge for Summer Solstice, for example.

Amber
 
What do you think of Halloween decorations
As a secular celebration, I loathe Halloween.

I always felt an essential wrongness about the way I saw Halloween commercially exploited.

My position is a very distinct minority. Most pagans love it. Some of them grab onto that commercial exploitation, as part of a fund raising drive for their favourite charity. For example, a Halloween Ball raising money for the local animal shelter.

Amber
 
How does one meet other individuals who believe the same thing(s) more or less
There is an old tradition in the martial arts, that one does not advertise, because that demonstrates that the instructor does not know the art that he claims to teach.

There is an old tradition in the western mystery tradition, that when the student is ready, the master appears.
are there regular gatherings?
Specific details depend upon the specific group.
They can range from once a quarter, to every week.
What do you know about Pagan Christianity?
I’m aware of half a dozen different things, that go by the moniker “Pagan Christianity”.
Which one do you mean.
what about before the Internet?
Bookstores and cafes. Usually they are/were explicitly pagan in what they offered. Others are/were merely “pagan friendly”. Some places were popular, because management didn’t care, as long as you paid for the books, or food, that left the premises when you left. Sadly, many places have closed up shop in the last five years. A casualty of the poor economy, and competition from Amazon.

I’d still recommend looking at local pagan-orientated bookstores and cafes that target pagans. It is easy to say:“Here are fifty books you must read about [fill in the blank] group.” By sitting down face to face with others, you can find out which books really are good, and which are claptrap, but for political reasons are included on the “fifty books you must read” list. You’d probably get more assistance in the sequence in which to read/study the material, when talking face to face, than when relying on the Internet, or a correspondence course.
is making a conscious decision all that needs to be done?
To apply a slight misquote from a book I once read:“The marriage came in discovering that the group was out there. The divorce came in discovering the realities of living according to the code that was imposed on members of the group.”

I’d hope that the individual makes a deliberate, conscious decision.

However, being pagan, or maybe it is just Wiccan, has become a fashion statement. A thing to do because it is cool. The trendy religion.

Most groups have initiation rituals. What that entails depends upon the specific group.

The idea of being a solitary practitioner has been around for at least forty years. What that involves, and requires, depends upon whose books are being read.
it is not kind to ask one single person to reply for a whole group.
Lokabrenna does a good job of differentiating between her specific position, those of the group she’s in, those of other groups she has come across, and those of paganism in general.

Amber
 
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