The annulment process is much quicker and easier for non-Catholic to get
Wow, as a cradle Catholic what you don’t understand it that you case is moving at lightning speed given the circumstances. Evidently you don’t have much experience with the process are being judgmental about the speed of the process when you don’t know it can take 18 months or longer. Doubt the new changes can get the process down to less than 8 months… You should be counting your Blessings. Glad your process is going so quickly for you.
You seem to think the Catholic Church should change its teaching to have two definitions of Sacramental Marriage… one that Catholics go by and one that tribunals use to speed up the process for non-Catholics, since they didn’t “know” Catholic Canon laws… The law used in this case is based on the words Jesus spoke - in all versions of the Bible- check out the King James Bible Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. You can say that is cruel I guess.
That is clear as can be. You can say it should be ignored but you can’t say it doesn’t mean what it says. Now you can say Jesus was wrong if that is what you believe. The Catholic Faith is the only faith that one can join and know exactly what the church believes. It is the Catechism. When one determines they want to be a member or stay a member they accept all of the teachings of the Catholic Church. Certainly you knew this teaching before you entered the Church, right? The Apostles heard Jesus’ opinion on marriage and responded it would be better to never marry. Jesus didn’t say “well that is just my opinion, you do what you think is right.” but many Protestant faiths did exactly that. The Catholic Church didn’t change. Your former church told you divorce was OK.
You quote the Pope on the Eucharist but with no context. You missed how he truly feels about the Eucharist but he told us on 8/16/15… “The Eucharist is Jesus, who gives himself entirely to us. To nourish ourselves with him and abide in him through holy Communion, if we do it with faith, transforms our life into a gift to God and to our brothers,” the Pope said Aug. 16. To let ourselves be nourished by the Bread of Life, he said, “means to be in tune with the heart of Christ, to assimilate his choices, thoughts, behaviors.” It also means that we enter into “a dynamism of sacrificial love and become persons of peace, forgiveness, reconciliation and sharing in solidarity,” he added. explaining that when he gives us the Eucharist, Jesus does it with a purpose: “that we may become one with him.” Communion, he said, “is assimilation: Eating him, we become like him. But this requires our Yes, our adhesion of faith.”
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So our Pope is saying we must say yes to Jesus, and follow His words… which are stricter than the process Catholics have in place now…
Please don’t assume I do not have compassion or understand how tough it can be. I am divorced, and the marriage was valid. I did not want the divorce - I am still governed by the Catechism and can’t remarry. I would swap a year delay for 40 years living as if married without a spouse. In all Catholic vows we verbally confirm marriage is forever. The Catholic Church makes us live that promise. if we can’t make it last, we give up the right to try again. based on the words of Jesus.
as far as Decrees of Nullity (annulments is not the proper term) being rubber stamped, you must not know much about the process. In the past and continuing today, many famous Catholics got decrees of nullity for marriages that sure seem suspicious… google Kennedy and annulment and see one example. or the example of a Catholic Divorce counselor who had decrees of nullity granted for his first 2 marriages and is on his 3rd. Causes one to ask how an expert in the field could go through the nullity process, know all the reasons marriages are deemed invalid yet somehow be able to convince a tribunal that He could enter into another false bond on that 2nd marriage day. but was fit shortly after the 2nd decree was granted to enter into a sacramental marriage. I am sure it had nothing to do with how active he was with the Archdiocese at all. I could get a decree of nullity with no problem at all according to a Priest since our parish has people who are “involved” He even said he would be a witness for me… to get a valid marriage declared not valid so I could remarry… Sadly, it happens all the time with the process. Over a recent 25 year period LA had 100% of their cases had invalid marriages…