I’m wondering if part of the problem that is happening today is not only that the world has changed, which it has, but also the fact that the focus of religious life has also changed. For those of us who are older, we grew up in a world where our parishes were staffed by priests and our schools were staffed by sisters or brothers. Everyone had a place.
Along came Vatican II and demands that religious return to the vision and mission of their founders. This means that we’re not going to find too many priests who are religious in parishes or too many religious brothers and sisters there either. Therefore, we don’t get to see them close up every day of the week as we did when we were kids. Let’s face it, how many of us spend our time at the homeless shelter, a pregnancy center, on the streets in the slums, in a soup kitchen or an oratory? Those are not common places where the lay person usually hangs out, unless he volunteers to serve alongside these religious.
That leaves secular priests in parishes. Having to fill in the gaps left open by the departure of religious from parishes and Catholic schools, many secular priests that belong to a diocese find themselves spread very thin. They run the parish and sometimes are the director of the parish school, even if someone else is the principal. They are responsible for every detail that is involved in parish ministry. These men spend so much time in administrative work that what they do does not appear very attractive to many men.
In the meantime, the religious men and women who are in the apostolate of their religious institutes are not very visible to the average person in the pew. Therefore, they are not going to attract the large numbers of the past. They don’t have the exposure. But that’s the price you have to pay if you want to be faithful to the founder. You will have to deal with smaller numbers.
Finally, for many young men, the idea of joining a religious order to be a religious, wait until you make perpetual vows before you can be ordained, only if the brothers in your community belief that Christ is calling you to be ordained, is not very attractive to many men. Many men want to join a religious order to a Dominican priest, Franciscan priest, Carmelite priest, and so forth. But these orders do not recruit that way. They are more interested in whether or not you have a call to live according to the rule and the spirit of the order, not whether you are called to be a priest. That will take care of itself down the road, if the superior calls you forward to Holy Orders. And if he does not, then you are still called to the consecrated life of the friar, monk or mendicant. In a very real sense, the return to the roots that male religious communities have undergone is also a step into the ambivalence. Nothing is guaranteed. Each day is new and your dreams and idea of how you would serve Christ and the Church may not be what Christ wants. Soon you will find out what he wants through your brothers.
Let’s face it. This kind of life is very hard. If you are called to be a priest in a diocese, you will be alone much of the time. You will be spread very thin. If you join a religious institute, you will have to remember that you vision of your life is not always compatible with the vision that Christ will reveal through the community and you’ll have to make a choice: follow what you hear or leave and look elsewhere. Either choice requires the courage to trust God and let him have fun in our lives.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF