I completely agree!When attending corporate worship, be engaged with the rest of the body of Christ in that corporate worship, together. You have plenty of time to engage in private devotion on your own.
That makes no sense at all, as being at Mass should be enough to put one in a proper prayer mode. Good grief, the Holy Mass is the highest form of prayer any Catholic can participate in. It’s all about doing what is to be done in a certain place and time.If it were me, I would pray the Rosary during Mass as it puts me in to prayer mode.
From Pope Paul’s 1974 Apostolic Exhortation, Marialis Cultus (Marian Devotion), 48:
My first question, is a “mistake” the same thing as a “sin”? Are we always bound to follow the Church’s “advice” or “best practices” when, in our individual circumstances, something else works better for our own spirituality? The Church makes an awful lot of allowances for an awful lot of people, why not here as well?…it is a mistake to recite the Rosary during the celebration of the liturgy… (source )
That’s one thing I cherish about pre-Vatican II spirituality and the Traditional Latin Mass — you are free, within the bounds of proper piety, to express your spirituality pretty much any way you wish. I don’t have a source for this, but I believe it was Pope Pius XII who said that our spirituality can change during our lives, with age, circumstances, and so on. I’ve certainly found this to be true in my case. I find the TLM to be immensely liberating and peaceful — very often, I can be sitting there, eyes closed in prayer, and feel “Lord, you could just take me right now, I’d be at peace”. Hard to describe. Some people need dynamic, interactive worship, but I’m not one of them, never have been, never will be.
I am now 75 next month (January 2021) and I have certainly found that my spirituality has changed at times over my journey. At times, I have found myself cooling almost right off and unable to pray in a meaningful way. At other times, it has been the complete opposite. No matter one’s personal experience, it comes about through God’s Will (His Direct or Permissive Will); hence, even in negative matters in one’s journey, it is a cause to praise and thank God.. I don’t have a source for this, but I believe it was Pope Pius XII who said that our spirituality can change during our lives, with age, circumstances, and so on
Mine too. I have had to change my prayer routines, the prayers I say, when I say them, and so on, throughout my life. In my dotage, I find myself getting kind of narcoleptic from time to time, and repetitive prayer starts putting me to sleep. I have found myself nodding off during Mass — obviously I can’t quit going to Mass, but it is a cross for me, that it wasn’t ten years ago. I also find my mind wandering during long prayers — I am not ADHD or ADD, but I do have a very fertile, quick mind, and it drifts easily. Everyone is different. God knows His own. He didn’t stamp us all out with a cookie cutter.HomeschoolDad:![]()
I am now 75 next month (January 2021) and I have certainly found that my spirituality has changed at times over my journey. At times, I have found myself cooling almost right off and unable to pray in a meaningful way. At other times, it has been the complete opposite. No matter one’s personal experience, it comes about through God’s Will (His Direct or Permissive Will); hence, even in negative matters in one’s journey, it is a cause to praise and thank God.. I don’t have a source for this, but I believe it was Pope Pius XII who said that our spirituality can change during our lives, with age, circumstances, and so on
There could be a bit of danger in the above type of fixed general attitude with a sort of lack of flexibility and recognition of differences, it could lead to scruples. Scruples could lead on to other problems in that there could be a failure to recognize with clarity that one is a sinner with all others (spiritual pride?) - we all are sinners without exception. We differ possibly only in kind and/or degree.It’s all about doing what is to be done in a certain place and time.
How can she properly meditate on the various mysteries during Mass? Such a thing takes time and concentration, so I suspect that she is just repeating the decades by rote and what now exists with her is someone being inattentive to the Holy Mass. My opinion is that you err in not instructing her to focus on the Holy Mass.My thirteen year old daughter actively prays the rosary at Mass