Catholic dating websites. Ummmm

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Yeah. Just as no one wants a deadbeat no one wants a gold digger either.

Well maybe Donald Trump but not me lol
 
alice24 said:
When I was a poor single lady, someone seriously said “why you don´t get married? Then you have a house!” to me. Didn´t know houses are the natural consequence of marriage 😃 😃
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I told my husband I expected him to have one before we got engaged, so he got one 😃

(It was not an expensive house, I made sure he/we selected something that could be paid on one salary)
 
I don’t have a Facebook and I’m not interested in using a hookup app
 
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Tis_Bearself said:
> When I was a poor single lady, someone seriously said “why you don´t get married? Then you have a house!” to me. Didn´t know houses are the natural consequence of marriage 😃 😃

I told my husband I expected him to have one before we got engaged, so he got one 😃

(It was not an expensive house, I made sure he/we selected something that could be paid on one salary)
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😃 So it was with our appartment - the moving was what I expected 😉 Now I found a small house from 1900 that is more or less broken, but has potential. I´m thinking of buying seriously. Maybe this is the “marriage house” that comes a little to late to the party…
 
Well of course no one wants a gold digger.

But in order to be a gold digger, there should be gold.

As for you, who knows if you have some gold to offer to a gold digger?

At least with Trump, we all know he has gold shrugs
 
I disagree. Lots of women want deadbeats. They say they don’t but they keep on sticking up for the deadbeat guy who beats them up, even though they’re not even married. They could just leave anytime. Stupidity know no bounds.
 
27 you got plenty of time yet. I didn’t meet my wife until I was 32, married at 34, and our first child a few months shy of 36. She’s 18 months older than I too. We met on CM and she was 180 miles away. We didn’t even live under one roof for the first 15 months of marriage due to work.

Be patient-the Lord works in mysterious ways. His schedule, not yours.
 
It’s possible to meet a nice girl who isn’t Catholic, who would be happy to convert once you become serious … life isn’t always a clear cut road. Online dating sites allow for misperceptions and game playing, often. Maybe you should seek out Musicians 🙂 jam sessions, coffee house gigs. Have fun 🙂
 
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I didn’t like Catholic match, a lot of the people didn’t even answer yes to all the questions on the believing the teachings of the church. Especially the teaching of no sex before marriage. What kind of Catholic dating site allows it’s members to even be on it if they disagree with some of the main teachings?! And having an ideal of kids was also a ridiculous question, some of the guys said their ideal was 5 kids, which is totally unrealistic unless they’re billionaires. How could someone even have an ideal before they even meet a person they fall in love with? God may have different plans than someones ideals.
 
My Father was a Lawyer. Believe me, once you pass the Bar Exam, you won’t be thinking that you need to belong to a dating site. Pray for wisdom to choose the right young lady when she appears.
 
What I don’t understand about CM is, for divorced but not annulled members, why they allow this. CM knows Church teachings, that one can’t remarry if one is just divorced but the marriage is considered valid.

I don’t understand why Catholics who are divorced but not yet annulled still keep on seeking a prospective romantic relationship.

When one is validly married, the only person one should date is one’s spouse. The end.

It is contrary to their success stories, where you read about the couples who met someone who shared their Catholic values, etc. etc.
 
Perhaps sign up for a Parish Ministry fillled with good spiritual and/or corporal works of love and/or mercy? As your life glorifies God, perhaps you may find someone with a love for God and others that resonates on your wavelength?

God’s Choicest Blessings to you and all your dear ones, now and for all eternity. ❤️
 
I was able to talk with some there who were seeking relationships but weren’t free to,and realised many just didn’t understand their faith very well.It was an opportunity to help others.The site does give choices of stating why you were there.Many were there for friendship and to learn about the faith which in its self was good.
 
Only hang out with the lawyers if they’re picking up the tab at the bar 😒🚬
 
I love all the comments that imply that graduating from law school = rich. You guys know that there are TONS of lawyers who make about as much as high school teachers, right?

The corporate lawyer in NYC with the 180k starting salary is the exception, not the rule
 
While you are correct, even a lawyer who starts with a relatively small salary has the potential to make a lot more if he finds a lucrative niche, which the smart ones do, or to get some job that allows him to be a big fish in his little small town pond, such as prosecutor.

But I do agree that most people are completely stupid about the economics of the legal profession, including a lot of people who are attending or planning to attend law school.
 
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