A
Children are innocent, why must we think of their mingling as something sexual? Unless you’re talking about 14 year old boys and girls.
- Preventing near occasions of sin in children is a good thing, a Catholic thing really
Parents have a right to raise their children best they can, and keeping them separated while unsupervised isn’t harmful. So what purpose would it serve to question it ?Children are innocent, why must we think of their mingling as something sexual? Unless you’re talking about 14 year old boys and girls.
Trent:![]()
Children are innocent, why must we think of their mingling as something sexual? Unless you’re talking about 14 year old boys and girls.
- Preventing near occasions of sin in children is a good thing, a Catholic thing really
Kids are smart, the sooner you tell them its not a good idea, the more they will ask why. Eventually the questions will lead to sex and the end of innocence. If you let kids be kids, there will be no such questions in their minds for a whileParents have a right to raise their children best they can, and keeping them separated while unsupervised isn’t harmful. So what purpose would it serve to question it ?![]()
We’re doomedKids are smart, the sooner you tell them its not a good idea, the more they will ask why. Eventually the questions will lead to sex and the end of innocence. If you let kids be kids, there will be no such questions in their minds for a while
Ditto. Add to that that many (if not most) Catholics at the time lived in cities and were union households.I’d say more like a hundred years. Fifty years ago Catholics did not live or dress like the OP stated. That was only 1961. Girls wore pants and shorts, I played games with the neighborhood boys, most of us lived in cities, drove cars, had TV’s, and wore hats, (even kleenexes), not veils to church. To the contrary, we were often quite worldly compared to many of our Protestant brethern who did not smoke or drink, dance, play cards, go to movies or watch TV, and they attended church on Sunday just as much as the Catholics–and on Wednesday nights, too.
They can live as they choose and as their conscience dictates, they are not hurting anyone, except perhaps if they try to impose it on others.
I’m not sure how you define “reclusive”. I know my family and many of our friends might be considered reclusive by many simply because we homeschool. Protecting your family from negative influences and washing your hands of the world are two different things. I think you can do the first and not do the latter.Sure the Mass and the Devotions are the same, but from what I hear the Catholics of that time period weren’t as reclusive from the world.
I’m glad you clarified that this “cultist mentality”, whatever that is, does not apply to the whole society.
There was a thread in this forum – which brought up that there is cultist mentality within certain segments of the SSPX. This was mentioned by people who are/had been associated with the SSPX. This is not something new – for I read that this type of thinking (plus other irregularities) – at the SSPX stronghold at St. Mary’s Kansas – lead a priest by the name of Fr. John Rizzo to leave the SSPX.
Again – I am not saying this – involves the whole Society.
What stigma, being Catholic?You are welcome friend. Let’s just pray for an agreement between the SSPX and Rome. The SSPX and their flock need to be freed of the stigma, and Rome needs Holy priests.![]()
We’re doomed for accepting that kids are innocent?We’re doomed![]()
I’d define reclusive as putting some distance between oneself and the rest of society. Homeschooling is putting some distance between your kids and the kids in Public and Private Schools. Not that that’s a bad thing! You saw that there were negative influences in public schools (or private for that matter) and decided you didn’t want your kids exposed to that. That’s fine, but understand that doing so is a little reclusive.I’m not sure how you define “reclusive”. I know my family and many of our friends might be considered reclusive by many simply because we homeschool. Protecting your family from negative influences and washing your hands of the world are two different things. I think you can do the first and not do the latter.
That is very true. That’s all I was trying to say really.In anycase, I just wanted to say that the Catholics of the 1950s or 60s may have been different than the Catholics of today- but at the same time the society in which they lived was different as well.
I totally agree!I will agree that the 1950s, 1870s, nor any other time was a “golden age”. There are always problems and evil in the world. We live in the time God placed us. Some times have more challenges than others- I think that we are in one of those right now. The great news is that God gives the grace that is needed to live in those times.
The stigma I gather from reading certain posts on this forum.What stigma, being Catholic?
Separated: refers to Protestants. They are separated ecclesial communities. They are not real churches, because they don’t have validly ordained bishops. To be a real Church you must have a bishop at its head. They are no longer called heretics for two reasons: a) Pope John Paul asked that we drop that language, because it only causes anger and hurt. It has done nothing positive in 500 years; there is no reason to believe that it will do anything positive today. b) Pope Paul VI, who was himself a lawyer, helped write the new code of Canon Law. To be a heretic, one has to be a Catholic and then embrace error. Those people who were born into Protestantism cannot be heretics, because they never turned away. You can’t turn away from Catholicism, if you were not Catholic to begin with. Pope Paul also argued that law only applies to those for whom it is written. Canon Law is written for Catholics. There are two Codes of Canon Law. One is for the Latin Church and one for the Oriental Churches or Eastern Catholics. Canon Law only applies to Catholics. None of those labels and terms in Canon Law may be applied to non-Catholics. It would be like trying to apply the Constitution of the USA to Canadians and to judge them according to our Bill of Rights. Why should they follow it? It’s not their Bill of Rights? This was Pope Paul’s logic when he wrote the current portion of Canon Law that speaks about heresy, schism, apostasy and other forms of separation. Pope Paul died before he completed his work. He died in 1978.I would like to learn more about these distinctions (separated, schism, suspension) but how do I do that without causing a fight? I’m afraid to start a new thread.
I’ve explained how they are in the Church. Just think of the kid who is suspended from school. He is still a student at that school. He just can’t attend classes there until the boss says so.I’m confused because on the local level, we’re warned not to have anything to do with SSPX. So if they are in the church, how are they in the church?
I don’t understand what all of these terms mean. How are we to understand canonical status, disciplinary versus doctrinal levels, ecclesiastical penalty? Not in full communion?
These masses are valid, because these are real priests. Catholics are discouraged from attending them. The reason has to do with logic. If Catholics make it a habit of attending mass at their chapel, without meaning to do so, we are encouraging them to continue in their disobedience. It’s like turning a blind eye to something that is not supposed to be happening. They should not be celebrating mass, hearing confessions or doing wedding without permission. However, we may never be unkind to them.Rome doesn’t consider those Masses valid though, right? I mean, as in the Real Presence? (Hope I’m not crossing a line here!)![]()
Jesus is there and he’s supposed to be there. Whenever a priest, Catholic or Orthodox consecrates, he does so with the intention of doing so. You cannot handcuff God. A consecration does not cease to be a consecration, because the priest is breaking a law. The consecration depends on Jesus, not on the law. Jesus is not Catholic. Canon Law does not apply to him.So Jesus is there, but He’s not suppose to be?
![]()
Yes. A diocese is also properly called the local Church. It is a real Church headed by a bishop.On the local level of the SSPX chapel in my neighborhood, basically. Local level of it’s in my diocese.
It is very sad and it is our hope that there will be reconciliation, because our credibility as Catholics suffers and we’re violating Christ’s command that we be one. It’s very hard to convince a non-Catholic that we believe what we say when we do the opposite. When SSPXers and other Catholics throw mud at each other, they are wrong. They are causing scandal to the world. The people of God are not supposed to be engaged in a barroom brawl.That’s really sad.I see that this is an area for praying for unity.
I don’t know which kids you are around, but the kids in the City are dating in elementary school. And by dating, I mean at least tongue kissing with hands roaming. And some of the girls are having oral sex.We’re doomed for accepting that kids are innocent?
Very interesting.Ditto. Add to that that many (if not most) Catholics at the time lived in cities and were union households.
I think that what some trads fail to recognize is that there is a difference between the traditionalist Catholicism of today (especially in the SSPX) and the Catholicism of the the 1920s-1960s.
Sure the Mass and the Devotions are the same, but from what I hear the Catholics of that time period weren’t as reclusive from the world.
Those whom the OP describes as having this attitude would say that the modern world is too corrupted with modernism and moral relativism to live within it and keep the faith. There is some truth to that and I don’t fault or mean to attack any trad woman who never wears skirts or a trad family who moves to a farm in the country. All I’m saying here is that “in the good ol’ days” Catholics were involved in those same institutions which many trads today reject. Therefore, traditionalist Catholicism of today isn’t the same, and in some cases is more conservative, than the mainstream Catholicism of 60, 70 years ago.
This is what is confusing. It is difficult, at least for me, to see how attendance is not support and encouragement in and of itself.If a Catholic feels that he needs to attend the EF mass and there is no other around, he can attend mass at an SSPX chapel, provided that he does not support or encourage the priests of the SSPX to continue in their disobedience to the pope and the bishops.