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It’s an age old dodge to demand statistics when you don’t like what others post. It’s even worse to ask for stats about something largely unknowable (like a persons fear of being a victim of a Church shooting).
Speaking of snapping, most US gun deaths are suicide. Of those, I am not sure what fraction are the gun owner, or someone else in the household. It makes you wonder who, if anyone, is safer with a gun.I’m not European, but I live in a gun free country and I would be terrified being surrounded by armed citizens. You just don’t know which one would snap.
But crime rates vary, sometimes drastically, sometimes not. There are pros and cons. You give citizens arms, and they can defend themselves, but they can also harm others at a higher rate than a knife (for example).Gun crimes happen everywhere. More pointedly, crimes of all sorts happen everywhere, and guns in the hands of armed citizens are one impediment to them - as the response to a church shooter in Texas bears out.
Yeah. I wonder how much of those suicides wouldn’t occur without guns though. They would probably off themselves in other ways. Based on a few stats I’ve worked with in the past, methods of suicide are whatever that’s most accessible to them. That being said, shooting is seen as the quickest form of death so that may be a factor. I knew if I had a gun when I was younger, I definitely wouldn’t be here today.Speaking of snapping, most US gun deaths are suicide. Of those, I am not sure what fraction are the gun owner, or someone else in the household. It makes you wonder who, if anyone, is safer with a gun.
She is scared, but I protect her. That is which it is.My wife literally fears going to a weekend mass
Ever vigilant, ready, but have no desire to have to use my skills to engage. I do not know how to make it any more clear in this thread that:
Although I do have PTSD from war and from a traumatic injury, it is well under control, I’ve had plenty of therapy, and for some related issues still do. However, none of those issues have a snowball’s chance of making me “quick on the trigger.” Unless at a range or field stripping to clean, I don’t even touch the grips of my gun(s) in public unless in a men’s room to adjust holsters. Otherwise, the only way I would even have contact with them would be if I had no choice but to legally draw and use one. That is a serious responsibility I do not take lightly. I’ll admit, there are some people out there who are legally armed, but not responsibly armed. The difference lies in training and those who haven’t had it, need to get it as there’s plenty available.
- I do not break the law to carry
- It is my responsibility to protect my wife, and if there are other innocents in the area when I’ve no choice but to use force to respond to a lethal threat, I will protect them as well because that is how I function
But to the question about wife fearing weekend mass and us not living in fear, there is a difference you see. One is an event wherein danger may invade on a weekly basis. The other is our mode of life.
In day to day life, no need to be afraid as I am quite able to keep her safe and we’re not in a crowd with what is essentially a sign on the door that says, “easy unarmed targets here,” making it more dangerous than the typical places we are together.
As previously stated, I’ve an unofficial agreement and carry there, so no problem for her. But, the law should not attempt to hamstring us in our places of worship. Long ago, drilling militia on weekends were expected to bring their arms to church in some states.
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You stated above that your state law requires one to have permission to carry in a place of worship and that your Bishop will not give that permission, yet, you carry into the Church anyway.I do not break the law to carry
If only. Myself and multiple other knights go to the range together. I’d be all for doing that duty. The problem lies in the diocese wishing to have someone doing such duty…although I have not spoken to the bishop or his staff on the matter, it appears they simply do not wish parishioners to carry, period. Were I not to have an unofficial agreement, i wouldn’t carry myself, but that would cut my attendance way down too because I do NOT like to go anywhere unarmed. I simply don’t. I feel naked without at least my primary gun on my belt.I’d like to see the KofC or some other knightly catholic order take up church security in a regulated, orderly manner.
You clearly put your ability to carry before God.Were I not to have an unofficial agreement, i wouldn’t carry myself, but that would cut my attendance way down too because I do NOT like to go anywhere unarmed.
I’m not sure that the bishop’s forbidding parishioners to carry guns in the church is a religious issue, as though you are not offering obedience to your spiritual father, and sinning in so doing. I would view it more as the owner of a property, a place of public congregation, having the ultimate say-so on what he will allow, and what he will not allow, on his property. And the bishop, as corporation sole, is indeed the owner of that public accommodation that just happens to be a church.Were I not to have an unofficial agreement, i wouldn’t carry myself, but that would cut my attendance way down too because I do NOT like to go anywhere unarmed.
If you won’t go to Mass because you can’t take a gun there you are too attached to your gun.I’m not sure that the bishop’s forbidding parishioners to carry guns in the church is a religious issue, as though you are not offering obedience to your spiritual father, and sinning in so doing. I would view it more as the owner of a property, a place of public congregation, having the ultimate say-so on what he will allow, and what he will not allow, on his property. And the bishop, as corporation sole, is indeed the owner of that public accommodation that just happens to be a church.
IMHO, things in this country are not bad enough yet — and God willing, they never will be — that this could even be remotely a reason not to attend Mass. If you feel the need to carry otherwise, just take it off and put it in a locked compartment of your car while you’re in Mass.I’m not sure that the bishop’s forbidding parishioners to carry guns in the church is a religious issue, as though you are not offering obedience to your spiritual father, and sinning in so doing. I would view it more as the owner of a property, a place of public congregation, having the ultimate say-so on what he will allow, and what he will not allow, on his property. And the bishop, as corporation sole, is indeed the owner of that public accommodation that just happens to be a church.
I think it would be far better to have some of the ushers carrying. The KofC idea was also a good one.
That is a condescending attitude. Think of all the lives in that church that could be SAVED if an armed parishioner could take down a mass shooter. Nowhere does God tell us that we can’t defend ourselves against evil.I would never take a gun to Mass and wouldn’t want to kill someone there either. If you are going to die what better place to die?
The law hasn’t.But, the law should not attempt to hamstring us in our places of worship.
The good news is that multiple doorways are also exits.one evening at Mass I was thinking how easily accessible it would be for someone to enter our Church, we have three access-ways in the front, and start shooting.
And you may consider if you are perfect before judging me.You clearly put your ability to carry before God.
Yet more evidence that the second amendment needs to go.