Contraception OK?

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As someone who charts how can she? Is there a temp rise on the Pill will you have fertile cervical mucus to begin with. With charting there is no such thing a “normal fertile” because each day and each cycle is based on fertility signs, and not specified by time.
 
The Barrister:
I guess since I’ve never been a murder victim I can’t possibly comment on the crime of murder, either.
Calm down, The Barrister. A person who has lost a loved one to a violent crime would have a different perspective than a person who has not. Both people could comment, but the comments would be colored by different experiences.
The Barrister:
No, labchick, you will not shut down the debate with the use of this language. Most of us have been around long enough to know a specious argument when we see it.
The doc is explaining the medical view, based I imagine on case studies or past patients. If you can’t understand the language and need a dictionary, you can find several online. You’re trying to pick a fight and get this thread closed down. I’m finding it very informative. If you can’t contribute something, why don’t you go bother another forum.
 
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Jeane:
The doc is explaining the medical view, based I imagine on case studies or past patients. If you can’t understand the language and need a dictionary, you can find several online. You’re trying to pick a fight and get this thread closed down. I’m finding it very informative. If you can’t contribute something, why don’t you go bother another forum.
No, this argument is used by pro-aborts to cut off debate. I find it offensive for someone to say that my opinion on any given topic is invalid because I can’t or have not directly experienced the topic at hand. That makes it a specious argument.

When you’ve been around a little longer - and have seen this specious argument ill-applied enough times - you’ll come to an appreciation of my position on this little sub-issue.
 
The Barrister:
No, this argument is used by pro-aborts to cut off debate. I find it offensive for someone to say that my opinion on any given topic is invalid because I can’t or have not directly experienced the topic at hand. That makes it a specious argument.

When you’ve been around a little longer - and have seen this specious argument ill-applied enough times - you’ll come to an appreciation of my position on this little sub-issue.
If you’d get off your high horse ("The Mighty Barrister? please…), you’d be able to recognize the logic behind this. It is very clear to me. And LabChick is not pro-abort and I find it highly offensive that you would say that. Didn’t you see the thread about respect?

I’ve been around the forums since they were launched, just not as a poster. I tend to limit what I say to things that are relevant, instead of trying cut someone else down.

Why are you so fond of the word specious?
 
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itsjustdave1988:
Dismas2004,

What you’ve quoted here:
… pertains to whether teachings of the ordinary magisterium are to be considered infallible or not. Whether they are infallible or not is irrelevant as to whether they are binding or not. The Church clearly states that “**what is expounded in Encyclical Letters … demand consent.” **(Pope Pius XII, Humani Generis)
Yesm very good. I am enjoying the conversation so far and am glad that we are finally getting to the heart of the issue. A side note however on Encyclicals: The word consent here is also translated “respect” in English as well for this very document. Check out the HarperCollins Encylopdeia of Catholicism.
 
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CatholicMatthew:
As for the usage of a pill (generic sense) or other medical procedure that has a contraceptive effect. The intention must not be contraceptive. If it has any chance of being an abortifacient then it must not be used or abstinence must be used. If it increases the risk of cancer greater than what is being prevented then it would be contraindicated for use.

It is kind of funny that the root of encyclical means circle (see Dismas2004 statement above).

What is below is the best thing out there explaining the authority of an encyclical and its infallibility specifically. There are four layers of infallibility. Immaculate Conception is a number one (ex cathedra proclamation). Against contraception is a two (historical, with founding, matter of faith and morals, that the magesterium is a competent authority to expound on). Humane Vitae fills these requirements. You can question (out of good conscience) to understand further on these two layers but submission and obedience to these two are necessary to be faithful. In other words, you can strive to understand but if you never understand you must still follow them.

An encyclical is pastoral to a specific concern. Not everything in it is automatically infallible but does require submission as a servant of Christ under the juridstiction of the magesterium (ordinary). However, with certain language (from above) infallible matter can be proclaimed/elevated/reaffirmed.

Hopefully this clears it up a little.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew

Hail Mary…

Quote from newadvent.org/cathen/05413a.htm
Yes, very good. Thank you.
 
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CatholicMatthew:
Dismas,
I am from Wichita. You are welcome any time to meet with my wife and I or many of the good priests here in Wichita. Fr. Meinrad would be a good alternative as would Fr. Habiger. I even have his e-mail address at benedictine.

My biggest concern is to get to the heart of the issue and why you ask these questions. We can debate around about something the Church speaks on very clearly. I am also a firm believer in the maxim that “Hard cases make bad law.” That is to say that just because one person may be inconvienced doesn’t mean we should let everyone do it. That one person (in the case of the pill) has to undertake extraordinary requirements unto themself and also forgo other viable options that are designed to be theraputic to the situation, not using something that is a contraceptive be design and is not an abortifacient.

What I am wondering, and you do not have to publicly state it (will be held in confidence if in private), is why you are so hung up on this issue. What is the heart problem deep down that makes you want to have the answer be that it is ok to do ________.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
Thank you for your comments and everyone else for that matter. I know the debate well and I know the answer. I have talked about, read about, and conversed with not only my bishop on the issue, but local Theologians as well. One thing is true, as when talking to priest like Fr. Miller and the like, when it comes to morals, there are very few, very few indeed, black and white areas. True, there may be more black/white than grey, but we can not lump everyone into one category or another, the same with situations. That is why Mortal Sin, or a morally corrupt action must meet a criteria. If ity doesn’t meet the criteria, it doesn’t count. As far as encycles go and their authority - I know the answer and have said my peace. I have studied Lumen Gentium and discussed Encyclicals with Fr. Bruse Swift, O.S.B., Fr. Ed Hayes, Fr. McKinney(Newton) etc… as well as Dr. Regis MArtin(Fransican Univ.) who teaches Theology of the church. Unfortuantly people will hear an argument and take it as gospel. It’s a lot like Understanding scripture. You can understand it with taking another’s understanding of it just find. Often that is what it takes because biblical exegesis is a long and complex process. However, if you want to knwo for your self what it actually says, you have to go throught the laguages, the context, and history of the saying, as well as the place it was said (The Petrine Text is a great example) Then you can come to a gretaer understanding. As I mentioned it a earlier post, often it is quoted that encycles demand consent. Another translation of that sentence uses the owrd respect, not consent. See next post…
 
As to the reason for all this: I am new to these forums and am very cautious of what I give my time to. I would not have stayed on as long as I did if I thought this was a group of catholic “bashers” or “hardliners”, or worse yet, “progressives”. I’m all about good orthodox teachings of the Church, for the Church, and by the Church. To love the Church is to Love Christ.

I posed this question and one similar to it about Abortion essentially to test what kind of group makes up these forums. I’m impressed for the most part. There were a few responses where people are hung up on trying to force a hard line without thinking through the argument or just being uncharitable and disrespectiful. The responses for the most part were honest and sincere and right on key. Even the ones that appear not to be, I will assume where just the excitment and love of Christ trying to correct an “error.”

A couple of things however: To those who thought this was a way to work around the issue, to find a loop hole. Shame on you for not being charitable. This situation is indeed happening right now with a friend. She is single, not engaged in sexual activity and a devout Catholic. She wrote the bishop and talked to many people, not just doctors, before she started the pill. It is not for contraceptive purposes, but to significantly decrease her chances of developing cancer. After prayer and spiritual direction, she, along with the faithful clergy, choose the pill.

Why did people assume she was married or engaged in sexual activity. Because we often overlook the other possibility. We often, myself included, don’t listen with our hearts, as St. Benedict says in his rule, and see the argument and start to formulate our reply before finishing the post, sentecne, or conversation. Let us take on the heart of Christ, but also the mind of Christ and listen with our hearts and be charitable till it becomes our Cross too!

thank you all for a wonderful discussion. I will be spending more time here because of the love of Christ I see here in the FORUMS.

p.s. Please forgive my many typos.

“It belongs to the very substance of nonviolence never to destroy or damage another person’s sense of self worth, even an opponet’s. We all need, constantly, an advance of trust and affirmation.” -Fr. Bernard Haring (VCII Father)
 
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LabChick:
I do think that birth control pills are prescribed too often for conditions that could be treated in another way. But to say there is no medical reason to use BCP is not only incorrect, but incredibly callous to the women who are affected by anemia and other conditions induced by menorrhagia.
Thank you Lab Chick. I hate when I see these threads because I feel personally attacked because of my use of the Pill to solve these problems.

NFP won’t do a thing for me right now. I’m not trying to concieve or to not concieve, I just want to be able to get out of bed, and not spend a ridiculous amount of money on tampons and advil since my cycle is bleed heavily for two weeks and and spot for the next two and then bleed again.

My employer would fire me if I stayed in bed for two weeks every month. Or for continually passing out from lack of iron.
 
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LabChick:
You would be amazed at how many medications do not cure an illness, but rather alleviate symptoms so lymphatic system can do its job. If you’d like some material to read regarding how the immune system works, I can provide them.
I understand that many medicines do not cure the problem but alleviate symptoms. However, when the use of the medicine has a life ending effect on an innocent life considerations for its use versus other options must be taken.
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LabChick:
Being male, you can’t claim to know what it feels like to bleed for 20 days straight, to have to carry around changes of clothes, to be constantly fatigued as a result and to develop Fe-deficiency anemia. In all cases, the presence of tumors, cysts, or other underlying conditions are ruled out. What are you left with? A natural cycle that is detrimental to a women’s health.
I never claimed to know what that is like. However, I would say that these conditions are not natural or “normal” and just because other things have been ruled out does not mean there is an underlying condition or other options than the Birth Control Pill for alleviation of symptoms does it?
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LabChick:
Very rarely is “the Pill” used. However, the same cocktail of hormones are administered, just with a modified efficacy and strength. The usual method of administration is an IM injection once per week. The only time “the Pill” is prescribed to treat menorrhagia is when the patient is belonephobic.
So, it still has the same effects as the pill? Do you have a brand name of this injection?
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LabChick:
The research on that topic is very mixed and it all depends on the age, family history, dosage of hormone, and whether the woman in parous, nulliparous, or nulligravid.
Does the research indicate anything of interest or do you mention it for no reason?
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LabChick:
I’ve never heard of a medication that induces a menopausal state. Do you have the name?
Not off the top of my head but I have known a few women that are on it and will get the name. I think it is Lupro but that is a stab in the dark and I left my medications book at work.
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LabChick:
Or, are you talking about GnRH agonists? I have heard about these being used to treat endometriosis by substantially decreasing the level of female hormones, creating a pseudomenopause. Do some research on this.
Again, I will have to make some calls.
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LabChick:
Please tell me you are not saying a hysterectomy is preferred over hormonal treatments…
For a women that is married, is in severe pain (or medical danger) wants to maintain her sexual relationship with her spouse, and recognizes the evil of the abortifacent potential of the hormonal birth control pill this may be the preffered option. For some women it is the preffered option.
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LabChick:
And what “horse” would that be?
Well, do you believe that all forms of hormonal birth control are an abortifacent? If not, which ones do you believe are not? We can proceed from there.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
 
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rjmporter:
If she is using NFP, it would be licit to abstain only during her normal fertile time.
Actually I would disagree here and this will be diving slightly off-topic but we abstain more than we don’t abstain. There are more reasons for abstaining than to just delay pregnancy. Also, a woman on the pill is unable to use Natural Family Planning. The pill destroys the ability to determine relative fertility and infertility.

If you are using the pill a breakthrough ovulation occurs with no warning from the natural signs.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
 
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Dismas2004:
This situation is indeed happening right now with a friend. She is single, not engaged in sexual activity and a devout Catholic. She wrote the bishop and talked to many people, not just doctors, before she started the pill. It is not for contraceptive purposes, but to significantly decrease her chances of developing cancer.
Maintaining her anonymity if you can answer the following please:

What kind of cancer is she worried about preventing?
What are the elevated risk factors?
My concern is that the pill can cause significant damage to the fertility system.
Has she contacted a NaproTechnology knowledgable doctor?
If she would be interested I can connect her with someone from Creighton (one of the higher ups) that could potentially connect her with a Napro trained doc. I only say this because of the effects the birth control pill alone can have on the female reproductive system.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
 
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lizziebeth730:
Thank you Lab Chick. I hate when I see these threads because I feel personally attacked because of my use of the Pill to solve these problems.

NFP won’t do a thing for me right now. I’m not trying to concieve or to not concieve, I just want to be able to get out of bed, and not spend a ridiculous amount of money on tampons and advil since my cycle is bleed heavily for two weeks and and spot for the next two and then bleed again.

My employer would fire me if I stayed in bed for two weeks every month. Or for continually passing out from lack of iron.
If you are not sexually active then I am not concerned from a moral perspective. Out of Christian love I am concerned about the potential damage that is being done to your body from the negative impact the pill has.
I would ask the following (you don’t have to answer but do ask yourself):
Have you read and implemented practices suggested in Fertility Cycles and Nutrition?
Have you contacted a Napro doc or Creighton/CCL trained doc?
Have you weighed other options to the pill for symptom alleviation?
If you have done or are doing these (and taking the pill for symptom alleviation while examining other potential “cures”) and are taking the pill but abstaining from sexual relations to avoid the abortifacient potential then I would say you are making an extremely well-thought out decision that is extrememly informed. The pill can seem like a quick fix and it is hard to look for extra-pill answers because the pill is just so easy and that is the first resort instead of the last resort for many.

If you have never heard of FC&N or Napro technology and just trusted your doctor I cannot blame you. It is easy to blindly trust doctors but they are not impeccable. If you would like more information about other medical and basic resources I would be happy to provide links for you.

Under the mercy,

Matthew
 
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Dismas2004:
One thing is true, as when talking to priest like Fr. Miller and the like, when it comes to morals, there are very few, very few indeed, black and white areas. True, there may be more black/white than grey, but we can not lump everyone into one category or another, the same with situations.
Actually, it is either right or wrong as defined or in the eyes of God. In other words if something is always wrong then it is always wrong. For example, contraception is always wrong. However, the use of a contraceptive in a non-contraceptive fashion is not automatically wrong. This is not a grey area but a black and white reading of what is laid out in Church teaching. The reason it appears grey is due to confusion and dissent.
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Dismas2004:
That is why Mortal Sin, or a morally corrupt action must meet a criteria. If ity doesn’t meet the criteria, it doesn’t count.
A mortal sin is **always **a sin but (yes, it is even in the Bible) culpability may be diminished through certain factors.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
 
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CatholicMatthew:
Actually, it is either right or wrong as defined or in the eyes of God. In other words if something is always wrong then it is always wrong. For example, contraception is always wrong. However, the use of a contraceptive in a non-contraceptive fashion is not automatically wrong. This is not a grey area but a black and white reading of what is laid out in Church teaching. The reason it appears grey is due to confusion and dissent.
A mortal sin is **always **a sin but (yes, it is even in the Bible) culpability may be diminished through certain factors.

Under the Mercy,

Matthew
What we are talking about here is the situation to be judged moral or immoral. Poeple often want to clasify all use of “the pill” as immoral. Black and White, when as your own words correctly state, this is not automatically so. It is a grey area that if it meets certain criteria it falls into black(sin) or white (not a sin.) That is what I mean as far as black and white and grey. True, killing another huiman being via abortion, murder, etc… is always wrong. But even that, is sometimes allowed (Just War, if the “abortion” is teh result of a medical procedure and it is the unintended effect, etc." This just further illustrates my point, there are exceptions and to lay out a “rule” is the heresy of leagalsim. But I warn all, for use to us “legalsim” as an excuse to beleive what ever we want is a graver sin. The grey area is not necessarily because of confusion or dissent, but rather the product of us being humans and the fact that we are complex. Our actions require knowledge and many other factors to be considered mortal sin. Often, an outsider can not judge these motivations, or understandings. Hence the reason it is impossible to lay out a rule or law that is binding on everyone with such laguage. Capital punshment, abortion, contraception, war; all of these controversial topics are usually sinful. There are however circumstances in which they are allowed. However, again, these circumstances are very rare indeed, sometimes near impossible in today’s age. Yes, a mortal sin is always a sin, but I think I didn’t explain it well enough. If it isn’t a mortal sin, in other words doesn’t meet the criteria, then it isn’t a mortal sin!
 
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Dismas2004:
Yesm very good. I am enjoying the conversation so far and am glad that we are finally getting to the heart of the issue. A side note however on Encyclicals: The word consent here is also translated “respect” in English as well for this very document. Check out the HarperCollins Encylopdeia of Catholicism.
Here’s what Webster says of “consent”:
Main Entry: con·sent
Pronunciation: k&n-'sent
Function: intransitive verb
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin consentire, from com- + sentire to feel – more at SENSE
1 : to give assent or approval : AGREE
2 archaic : to be in concord in opinion or sentiment
synonym see ASSENT
  • con·sent·er noun
  • con·sent·ing·ly /-'sen-ti[ng]-lE/ adverb
The Catechism of the Catholic Church uses the words, “assent” which according to Webster is synonymous with “consent.” It’s antonym is “dissent” or “disagreement.”

Now, what did you mean by “Encyclicals are not binding on the laity?” Did you mean that Catholics must “consent” with encyclicals? Did you mean that Catholic must “agree” or “assent” with encyclicals? If so, then that’s a strange way of putting it.
 
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itsjustdave1988:
Here’s what Webster says of “consent”:

The Catechism of the Catholic Church uses the words, “assent” which according to Webster is synonymous with “consent.” It’s antonym is “dissent” or “disagreement.”

Now, what did you mean by “Encyclicals are not binding on the laity?” Did you mean that Catholics must “consent” with encyclicals? Did you mean that Catholic must “agree” or “assent” with encyclicals? If so, then that’s a strange way of putting it.
itsjustdave;

What I mean is just what I said, that the word in HG translated CONSENT in one english translation is also translated RESPECT in another. Since I don’t have a copy of the latin nor a latin dictionary at work, I can only offer this up to you. In other words, the other translation would say something like “what is expounded in encyclical leters…demand respect.”
 
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Dismas2004:
It is a grey area that if it meets certain criteria it falls into black(sin) or white (not a sin.) That is what I mean as far as black and white and grey.
Actually, the licit uses of the pill or any contraceptive are clearly listed by the principles set forth. It is us humans staring at them too long looking for a loophole that see grey. We have to remember that the object, the Pill, is not intrinsically evil but the act.
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Dismas2004:
This just further illustrates my point, there are exceptions and to lay out a “rule” is the heresy of leagalsim.
Actually, legalism is what is more commonly known as pharasieesm (sp–ugh) and is following the letter of the law for its own sake ignoring the purpose. What we have to remember is with contraceptives we have a clear cut set of usage standards. However, these usage standards basically rule out their usage.
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Dismas2004:
But I warn all, for use to us “legalsim” as an excuse to beleive what ever we want is a graver sin. The grey area is not necessarily because of confusion or dissent, but rather the product of us being humans and the fact that we are complex. Our actions require knowledge and many other factors to be considered mortal sin.
Actually, if gravity is met and the other two are not–the sin is mortal (still committed) but culpability is diminished or relieved.
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Dismas2004:
Often, an outsider can not judge these motivations, or understandings. Hence the reason it is impossible to lay out a rule or law that is binding on everyone with such laguage.
Actually, the law of gravity and other physical laws are less merciful than God’s moral law…they hurt regardless of knowledge and consent. God’s laws are still broken even without consent or knowledge and He is merciful. (there is a great passage on this in the Bible–I have found several that drive protestants nuts–Work out your salvation–people who are apart from God still get into heaven–baptism required for heaven–Jesus Christ redeems–faith has saved–etc. seems to really confuse them to make them consistent but they can’t because they are consistent with Catholicism).
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Dismas2004:
If it isn’t a mortal sin, in other words doesn’t meet the criteria, then it isn’t a mortal sin!
As long as it is a grave matter…it is a “mortal” or “grave” sin. However diminished capacity one or two eliminates or reduces culpability.

UTM,

Matt
 
In regards to CatholicMatthew’s last reply. -

True, at issue is gravity of sin, see below for a long drawn out explaination from the CCC:
1750 The morality of human acts depends on:
  • the object chosen;
  • the end in view or the intention;
  • the circumstances of the action.
The object, the intention, and the circumstances make up the “sources,” or constitutive elements, of the morality of human acts.

[1751](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/1751.htm’);)** The *object *chosen is a good toward which the will deliberately directs itself. It is the matter of a human act. The object chosen morally specifies the act of the will, insofar as reason recognizes and judges it to be or not to be in conformity with the true good. Objective norms of morality express the rational order of good and evil, attested to by conscience. **

[1752](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/1752.htm’)😉 In contrast to the object, the *intention *resides in the acting subject. Because it lies at the voluntary source of an action and determines it by its end, intention is an element essential to the moral evaluation of an action. The end is the first goal of the intention and indicates the purpose pursued in the action. The intention is a movement of the will toward the end: it is concerned with the goal of the activity. It aims at the good anticipated from the action undertaken. Intention is not limited to directing individual actions, but can guide several actions toward one and the same purpose; it can orient one’s whole life toward its ultimate end. For example, a service done with the end of helping one’s neighbor can at the same time be inspired by the love of God as the ultimate end of all our actions. One and the same action can also be inspired by several intentions, such as performing a service in order to obtain a favor or to boast about it.

[1753](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/1753.htm’)😉 A good intention (for example, that of helping one’s neighbor) does not make behavior that is intrinsically disordered, such as lying and calumny, good or just. The end does not justify the means. Thus the condemnation of an innocent person cannot be justified as a legitimate means of saving the nation. On the other hand, an added bad intention (such as vainglory) makes an act evil that, in and of itself, can be good (such as almsgiving).39
 
[1754](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/1754.htm’)😉 The circumstances, including the consequences, are secondary elements of a moral act. They contribute to increasing or diminishing the moral goodness or evil of human acts (for example, the amount of a theft). They can also diminish or increase the agent’s responsibility (such as acting out of a fear of death). Circumstances of themselves cannot change the moral quality of acts themselves; they can make neither good nor right an action that is in itself evil.

II. GOOD ACTS AND EVIL ACTS

1755
A morally good act requires the goodness of the object, of the end, and of the circumstances together. An evil end corrupts the action, even if the object is good in itself (such as praying and fasting “in order to be seen by men”).

The object of the choice can by itself vitiate an act in its entirety. There are some concrete acts - such as fornication - that it is always wrong to choose, because choosing them entails a disorder of the will, that is, a moral evil.

[1756](javascript:openWindow(‘cr/1756.htm’)😉 It is therefore an error to judge the morality of human acts by considering only the intention that inspires them or the circumstances (environment, social pressure, duress or emergency, etc.) which supply their context. There are acts which, in and of themselves, independently of circumstances and intentions, are always gravely illicit by reason of their object; such as blasphemy and perjury, murder and adultery. One may not do evil so that good may result from it.

And here is what the CCC says about Contraception!

2399 The regulation of births represents one of the aspects of responsible fatherhood and motherhood. **Legitimate intentions on the part of the spouses do not justify recourse to morally unacceptable means (for example, direct sterilization or contraception). **
 
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