Brad Haas:
Yes, it’s off the topic, but regarding contraception, I did some research back in February. Turns out the LDS church waffles on contraception (and abortion) just as much as any denomination.
My findings are
here.
Mr Haas,
I have been reading the Catholic book called Good News about Sex and Marriage, by Christopher West.
Talk about waffling as you call it, check this book out. He says that Catholics will be judged for the children they do not have, but could have had if they had not prevented the conception. It is considered as great a sin as abortion, if a married couple have sex and deliberately prevent conception. That was very shocking to me, obviously Catholics do take birth control pills, so the church must have relaxed their views somewhat. I know many Catholics that limit themselves to two children through birth control. So the RCC must allow personal choice in this matter, or they just don’t ask. Officially the RCC says no contraception, no abortion etc. but unoffically they allow personal choice.
I have a personal experience as an LDS woman to relate, about contraception, and I think this is what is talked about when the Church gives guidelines discouraging contraception, but leaves the final choice to the individual. In my case I had 3 children in 2 and 1/2 years. Then I had 2 miscarriages in a matter of months,( I got pregnant while nursing my children and during periods) supposedly safe times, my body was simply not able to handle any more pregnancies. I took the contraceptive pill as a matter of spacing my children, when no other way would work for me.
There were 4 years between my 3rd child and my 4th child and then 13 months between 4th and 5th. Then with total abstinance I was able to go 4 years before my 6th and last child. My husband was out of work most of the time and I was under much stress, as he did not believe in helping. After the 6th child I divorce him. He was a converted Catholic who had been raised to think women did all the work and men did nothing. There are personal health reasons where the woman must use contraception. I think God understands and judges each person on the circumstances and there is no blanket rule that governs all. But, the LDS church believes that each woman within marriage should have as many children as she is physically and mentally capable of having.
This brings up the individual again, some women are stronger physically and mentally than others. Some would go crazy with two children and others could handle 12 with no problem. All decisions with regard to personal circumstances should be made with fasting and prayer. God is the final judge on all things.

BJ