Nobody mentioned anything about Mary until you, underdog. . .
Now you tell us. . .Here are Jesus and the Catholic Church. Scripture tells us they are the Bridegroom and Bride. Scripture tells us in marriage the two become ONE.
Are you going to deny Scripture and say that in this case, marriage means only ONE, Jesus, and that the Church is to be ignored at best, despised at worst? That isn’t very Scriptural.
Remember, we aren’t saying we love the Church MORE than Jesus --we are saying that since Jesus and the Church are ONE, we love Him/Them–which ARE ONE–equally.
How could we love Jesus and not love Him as Bridegroom? How, knowing He is the Bridegroom, could we not love the Bride? How, knowing that this spiritual marriage makes the two ONE, could we not realize that Christ is in His Church and His Church is in Him, and that all is One and all is Christ?