lilypadrees:
She was not called by the Holy Spirit to convert until she was in her 80s.
I don’t think we can assume this about anyone, however faithful they are to their own understanding of the faith. The catechism says that all workings if the Holy Spirit outside the visible Catholic Church are themselves calls to unity. I think it can be said that she finally RESPONDED to the call to convert when she was in her 80’s but that does not mean the call was not always present.
I’m not assuming anything, guanophore. I asked her when she felt called to join the Catholic Church. My mother had been very adamant about
not becoming Catholic. She was very happy being a Protestant and intended to die a Protestant. Her whole family was Protestant. She didn’t know any Catholics before she met my father, who, by his own admission, was not a role model for the Church. He had turned his back on God by the time he and Mama met and didn’t return to the Church until many years of my praying for both of them…
I was the one in the family who took being Catholic seriously, always wanted to go to Mass and embraced everything Catholic. I was the one who after learning my mother was a Protestant implored her to convert so that we could be a Catholic family. I begged her for
years to convert. She was in a hospital bed after having hip surgery and I had just received the Eucharist the day she told me she wanted to convert and become Catholic. When I asked her what made her change her mind, she said the Holy Spirit had spoken to her heart and she made the decision to convert. There had never been any desire to convert before that day.
You need to realize that my mother had every excuse in the book as to why she wouldn’t and
couldn’t convert. To see her suddenly open to becoming Catholic and not saying she would convert just to shut me up was a miracle. I contacted the priest at the hospital to get things rolling and she converted the following February. Our now late parish priest signed her certificate.
And now, even though she is under no obligation to fast, she still tries to observe Lent by abstaining from meat on Fridays. In fact, she rarely eats meat at all. She started reading the Catechism of the Catholic Church last year for her Lenten reading. But after falling on Holy Thursday and breaking several bones which meant spending a month in rehab, she couldn’t finish. She had two surgeries on her arm and is now well enough to finish last year’s Lenten reading as well as rereading Augustine’s Confessions.
When the priest pronounced her a member of the Catholic Church, he told her that all she needed to learn were the prayers and the gestures. She knew everything else from having lived with me.