But, as it has been repeated numerous times, the woman was dead, so why not disregard sending that warning to others?
Honestly, part of me gets the idea that we disregard the rule since she was dead already. However, it also makes the warning of automatic excommmunication unclear and confusing to others. If the priest can always choose to override it, people think, “how serious can it really be”?. Where do we draw the line? Let’s say someone was excommunicated years ago and dies. Do we always give that person a Funeral Mass despite the fact that the person had years to repent and return to the Church? Are Funeral Masses the only way to pray for this person’s soul? I know Paul and NEP have talked about this a little bit, but they seem to have left the conversation. I am still questioning how we balance this.
So, when a politician such as Ted Kennedy promotes abortion for YEARS and then is given a Funeral Mass, what message does that send? If he repented, why wasn’t he (as a public figure) made to make it public as canon law also requires? If he didn’t, why couldn’t Church leaders have said something along the lines of “unfortunately we are unable to give Senator Kennedy a Funeral Mass due to his unwavering support of abortion which automatically excommunicated him from the life of the Church. However, we will pray for his soul”? That would show mercy, but it would also still send the message of the seriousness of supporting abortion until the day you die.