Spokenword,
You are entitled to make the decision to avoid alcohol all together! I would probably make the same choice if I started drinking too much or if I had alcoholics in my family and wanted to avoid becoming and alcoholic myself… Members of my family are obese, and I have always taken care not to fall into that trap by eating well and getting regular exercise.
I’m not saying you have made that decison because you have alcoholics in your family… but I think we can all agree that drinking alcohol does not go against God, and Scripture. Drunkenness can become sinful, just like gluttony, materialism, or any other instance where a person worships an “idol” before God. I guess this is why so many holy orders have vows of povery, chastity, sobriety , etc. There is nothing wrong with avoiding these activities all together, but don’t automatically assume someone is sinning because they eat, drink and make love to their spouses. (John the Baptist gave up alcohol, lived off the land and ate locusts, Jesus ate, drank wine (in moderation) and was social, but he was the only sinless man who ever walked the Earth, because he was the Son of God.) This same verse says people criticized them both, calling Jesus a drunkard, obviously they were wrong.
Peace Be With You