There is some truth in what you say but… Have you not noticed that sometimes their children are used as millitary fodder? They indoctrinate them in believing that our society is evil and must be eliminated and they offer their children as suicide bombers and the like.
I am sure that they love their children. - but what kind of love is that? Is it not a distortion of love? However, how often do you hear Muslims speak up and censure terrorists? Look at the mass hysteria when a cartoon is released! Look at the terrible reaction when Rushdie wrote that book “The Satanic Verses”? Have you not read in the media of Fathers and Uncles who have killed their young women who dare to choose to marry for love? How these young women are treated by their families? If a woman is raped she becomes the perpetrator!!! She is punished!!! Men in their society have the upper hand! Look how women are forced to cover themselves from head to foot - I often think that this is an easy way for wanted persons to get about undetected. The whole thing is ugly.
If they had a central authority one might succeed in reasoning with them but they have not. There is a great deal of fanaticism, rigidity and fundamentalism in their midst.
Despite that, we are told to love our neighbour and we consider the whole of mankind our brothers and sisters. So we love them and do our best to treat them as equals. My husband and I had a school for vocational training - systems development. We trained and placed in jobs all our successful students. We treated people on merit - we employed two Jahovah’s Witnesses - we trained people of all races and religions fairly and we treated our students based on individual merit also. No discrimination.
But that is not what we can expect from them I am afraid. They will defend their own
at all cost.